Question for James Tate

Hi J.T.

I want to ask you something Mister Capricorn. I dated my Mr. Cappy for 3 years on and off and only finished as you know a couple of months ago - as I had been double-dating him and Mr. Virgo!! It ended badly with me kicking him on the shins and pushing him away. However, we said we would still always be friends. Suddenly he has started texting quite often and sending postcards from his holidays etc. with hugs etc. on it. Deep down I have a feeling that he might want to get back. Is this a method you or other caps would employ to start romancing an ex— I would love to meet him for a drink but can't face the rejection if he said no!!! In the past when we had arguments, it took forever to get him to forgive me but now he's getting very schmucky...so unlike Mr. Cap. What's happening here? Any insights?

Believe it or not capricorn's are human. If you cut us we do bleed. It takes a lot for me to give someone my heart but once I did, I gave it all. I will tell you a story maybe it will help. Some years ago Den and I had a bad split. We had been together for a long time and something happened that caused us to part, it was not a good parting, strong words were used and we left each outher. I thought it was over forever and if it was over, I would have been a very different person today. I left and came to america she stayed in the U.K.. About six months went by with out contact. I came home one day and found a post from Den. I looked it up to make sure I had it right.


James
My days go on for ever
My nights they pass like years
you are so far so long
I need extreme reunion feeling your heart beating near
so sure so strong
we were blinded by moonlight
we parted by sunlight
I guess we were both naive
James does this road run backwards
does it pass a wishing well
Lord knows what that would bring us
I guess only time will tell
I can't still the water
I cant chain the wind
I can't go on living until we love again
Bring me extreme reunion
lay your hands on me
Don,t tell me just show me
How our love can be
Bring me extreme reunion
deliver me

Den

I never would have taken the first step. She hurt me the worst I had ever been hurt. I also knew she loved me more than I had ever been loved.
He is hurt but I think he may be reaching out, can't say for sure but maybe he is in love with you and just woke up to that fact. What the hell, whats a little rejection if your wrong. Maybe thats what life is all about putting it all on the line now and again. I wonder sometimes what would have happened if I never got that post, or never bothered to open it because of pride or ego.

Good luck hope this helped.

James,

What an incredible lesson for all of us....life is about taking risks and following our hearts. You are right, what do we have to lose? What is a little rejection? It is only a big deal if we chose for it to be.

Life works if we get out of our own way.

Thanks for sharing your touching and very inspiring story with us.

Freebird

James Tate - I thank you for your wonderful sharing and I think you are one of the luckiest guys in the world - having Den - and her being prepared to write that wonderful letter/poem from her heart to you Mister....no doubt that touched you deeply and kick-started the relationship again. Your story and words just blew me away......if I ever got a letter like that....I know I couldn't resist. Funny enough 2 weeks after we split, I met Mr. Cap on the bus - Mr. Cap said he wanted to write me a letter to tell me how he felt...I asked him not to - I thought the letter might just hurt me more....now I know perhaps I was wrong not to let him write me that letter......who knows! But I have decided one thing......I will meet him for a drink in the not too distant future if he would like - just for a chat - he was the most loyal creature I have ever come across and I ripped him off I suppose - it's just that I couldn't let him go or Mister Virgo - I loved them dearly in different ways.
Anyway, I digress.....I thank you once again JT - hand on heart.
Alana x

Lots of luck luv.