Sag Male+Cap Female=trouble?

Hi.. I had an internet relationship for 5 months with a Sag male (I'm a Cap) and we connected very well. Eventually we met and the chemistry was va-va-voom! Anyway, a few weeks ago I visited him at his home and well, things got awry. We had a great Sunday amd then on Monday while he was at work I went looking for a book from his collection to read. I happened upon his childhood photo album and other photos. Not only that but shoeboxes of mail from girls the world over it seemed... must have had a penpal thing going for years which he failed to tell me... and some very provocative photos of one girl taken at his home to boot. Well, knowing how he hated confrontation I said nothing but left a few 'evidences' in discreet places that he would find after I left. When he returned home from work, he was as cold as ice toward me. Not knowing what to think of it, I left him alone (he cited a 'headache' as the cause). I returned home the next day.

Well, got a call from him stating that I was going to jail- apparently he had surveillance cams in his house and now have tapes of me in my sleuthing act. Well, I apologized, said I got carried away (which was true) and was no criminal. In any case, he refuses contact at all with me now. Granted what I did was wrong, but geez... spying on me..lying to me... plus all those letters/photos which he conveniently forgot to mention? I also know he's still seeking women via the dating sites he's registered with. I know because I placed a trap by inventing and submitting a profile of some unknown chick (with photo from a magazine) to which he has responded.

Obviously all trust has been lost here, hence relationship's lost as well. Yet we Caps do try to do all to make things right. I can forgive him, but seriously, is there any hope left here? Do Sag males ever forgive or do they sever ties eternally?

I don't know any Sag males actually, but that's a horrible story! Grrr, I would hate his guts after finding all that. I think there are degrees of wrong going on here...your sleuthing thing was maybe a little wrong, yes, but his lying and spying is sooooo much worse. What a bastard. I don't think you can go to jail for snooping through someone's shoeboxes. However, he taped you without your knowlege, is that legal? Why do I feel like that's not legal?

By the way, in my opinion it is YOU who should be asking yourself whether you forgive HIM, not whether He forgives You. I think he was much more in the wrong than you were. Once I found a shred of evidence of foul play, you can bet I'd be looking for more.