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scorpio girl needs help with cap men
"Observe your own thoughts and see if you are putting out some negative thoughts regarding these relationships with Cap men! Wish for positive things and then dont use your mind in the relaitonship......just go with the flow."
"There is a time to think about things and there is a time to stop thinking."
This is a really good advice from you SimplyMe! This is exactly how I do. I stop thinking and I let my feelings to lead me. That's the only way to find happiness in relationship. Love is a feeling, that can't be controlled by thoughts. It's also risky for getting hurt. But you get nothing in life if you don't take risks.
"There is a time to think about things and there is a time to stop thinking."
This is a really good advice from you SimplyMe! This is exactly how I do. I stop thinking and I let my feelings to lead me. That's the only way to find happiness in relationship. Love is a feeling, that can't be controlled by thoughts. It's also risky for getting hurt. But you get nothing in life if you don't take risks.
So im an aquarius female who has been dating a capricorn male. We dated for five months and then he broke up with me in feb. becasue he said he was scared that i had too much control over his emotions and i had gotten to close. So we completely stopped talking. We were madly in love with each other might i add, the relationship was going great and out of the blue that happened. In the beginning of may he got into a horrible accident and i ran to his bedside, after him breaking his back neck jaws arm when he was released from the icu i took him home.. We then got back together.. He said he was sorry and missed me and thought of me everydya but couldnt talk to me beacuse he was afraid of rejection afraid i had moved on.. Well, we were getting along pretty well we had our ups and downs. Like previous people have said its like a roller coaster. Then i had enough one day and with his drinking.. I told him that i didnt want him to drink anymore. I told him i was tired of it. That it was over and to get out.. all out of anger Then he left crying i was trying to talk to him and his mom showed up..how cowardly. hes a mamas boy... so he left... then like a hour later i went and talked to him he took some of his things out of my car. and said we need to take a break.. for at least a week. we have been living together and i havent worked due to the fact i lost my job while beside his bedside.. but i have had enough money in the bank to support him. we also live with my parents.. ugh long story... so he said that on sunday well today is thursday and he came over today after crying to my dad for him to come pick him up...he took more things out of the house but left a lot of stuff..and when i asked him if we were over he said he hadnt decided yet.. i told him that he couldnt leave me hanging he replied saying that watch him hes a grown ass man and he can do what he wants but hes not going to cheat on me while were on this breka and that he loves me... he lets me get close to him and pushes me away its like a unknown thing when i wake up.. oh and we were looking for a place when before this arguement.. well now i got my self a place. i dont know what to do, should i just give him space leave him alone or just tell him it s over so i clarity. because i know what its most likely going to be and i dont think i can handle it again even though i brought this on myself.. i love him with all my heart...
WTF is going on with these capricorn men? Just getting up and taking off without notice? Maybe they are afraid of true love? Maybe they never had the feeling of real love and they are so afraid that they dont know what to do. I dont know whether to give mine some time to think it over, or hunt him down and throw a pie in his face.
Posted by sweetsouthernwoman1988
So im an aquarius female who has been dating a capricorn male. We dated for five months and then he broke up with me in feb. becasue he said he was scared that i had too much control over his emotions and i had gotten to close. So we completely stopped talking. We were madly in love with each other might i add, the relationship was going great and out of the blue that happened. In the beginning of may he got into a horrible accident and i ran to his bedside, after him breaking his back neck jaws arm when he was released from the icu i took him home.. We then got back together.. He said he was sorry and missed me and thought of me everydya but couldnt talk to me beacuse he was afraid of rejection afraid i had moved on.. Well, we were getting along pretty well we had our ups and downs. Like previous people have said its like a roller coaster. Then i had enough one day and with his drinking.. I told him that i didnt want him to drink anymore. I told him i was tired of it. That it was over and to get out.. all out of anger Then he left crying i was trying to talk to him and his mom showed up..how cowardly. hes a mamas boy... so he left... then like a hour later i went and talked to him he took some of his things out of my car. and said we need to take a break.. for at least a week. we have been living together and i havent worked due to the fact i lost my job while beside his bedside.. but i have had enough money in the bank to support him. we also live with my parents.. ugh long story... so he said that on sunday well today is thursday and he came over today after crying to my dad for him to come pick him up...he took more things out of the house but left a lot of stuff..and when i asked him if we were over he said he hadnt decided yet.. i told him that he couldnt leave me hanging he replied saying that watch him hes a grown ass man and he can do what he wants but hes not going to cheat on me while were on this breka and that he loves me... he lets me get close to him and pushes me away its like a unknown thing when i wake up.. oh and we were looking for a place when before this arguement.. well now i got my self a place. i dont know what to do, should i just give him space leave him alone or just tell him it s over so i clarity. because i know what its most likely going to be and i dont think i can handle it again even though i brought this on myself.. i lov
SSW88 my suggestion for you darling is to start loving yourself over this man, Capricorn or not. All I hear is what you are doing for him aside from his mama, your daddy and whomever else is holding this "grown ass" man's hand while he does whatever he wants whenever with the assurance that SOMEONE is going to be there to pick him and his world up at the drop of a hat. This doesn't sound like love but a maschoistic hot mess to me. Your man (and I use that term loosely based on your description of his words and actions provided by you) needs to grow up and his emotional manipulations but a halt too ASAP. The love, caring and saving him from himself isn't going to make him someone to have a solid future with. How the hell after everything you and your family apparently have done for him does he get to "decide" if you're done yet? Seems ungrateful and undeserving of all your devotion. And might I add that 5 months is no real time in a Capricorn's world. These are men who take years to get to the point where they appreciate every aspect of you and what you are offering but only if you are offering it up to yourself first. Point being? He will treat you like a doormat not a man in love until you stop allowing it and start loving you more than him. I hope it works out for you but unless some of this dysfunction changes I sense heartache will carry on.
Posted by paranormalbadgirl
WTF is going on with these capricorn men? Just getting up and taking off without notice? Maybe they are afraid of true love? Maybe they never had the feeling of real love and they are so afraid that they dont know what to do. I dont know whether to give mine some time to think it over, or hunt him down and throw a pie in his face.
Nothing is wrong with them. It's what you will or won't accept. This really isn't about him but you. He's not afraid and don't ever fool yourself into believing that crap either. When a man wants you heart and soul you won't be on a message board wondering or asking why he's doing this or that. Sound harsh? Maybe but it is true. When a Cap or any man truly loves you for you YOU WILL KNOW. It won't be a question mark floating over your head or a look of confusion in your eye or a gut wrenching knot burning in your stomach. His actions will tell the story not words that he can pull out of his ass at the drop of a hat because that is all he has to do to be embraced by your love, nurturing, support, etc. without him having to put forth any real effort to win you. You have to know YOUR the prize here not him. Once you show him that and keep it moving with or without him trust me he will notice, appreciate and put forth the necessary actions to make you his one and only. And if he doesn't then he wasn't worth the effort in the first place.
It's all about not allowing them to cross boundaries.
Boundaries that you have put in place. Ones that you do not allow them to keep crossing. Because once they know they can they won't stop.
It's about not waiting for a phone call from Jesus - aka Capricorn.
It's about showing you can exist without them. Happily.
It scares them too much when they know Mummy can walk away.
They become good little boys and drop the wretched little six year old routine.
Boundaries that you have put in place. Ones that you do not allow them to keep crossing. Because once they know they can they won't stop.
It's about not waiting for a phone call from Jesus - aka Capricorn.
It's about showing you can exist without them. Happily.
It scares them too much when they know Mummy can walk away.
They become good little boys and drop the wretched little six year old routine.
I've travelled back in time!
Woah.
Woah.
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