Should I confess my feelings with this Capricorn Woman? HELP

Profile picture of CrabMan13
CrabMan13
@CrabMan13
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 63 · Topics: 9
Hi Cappy ladies. Should I confess my feelings for this Capricorn woman? I liked her since September. I tried being friendly with her; we do texting, sometimes we talk on the phone until dawn, I tried asking her out on a friendly dinner but she would always reject me. Last December after going out of town with her and officemates, she started ignoring me and acts cold towards me (I even posted it here). Recently, we started talking again; she invited me to go on lunch with her and officemates, sometimes we do breakfast but with her officemates too, we even went out last night for dinner because I asked her if she's hungry, so we had dinner but we're still with our officemates. We do texting again but not as regular like before.

Can you help me what should I do? Should I tell her what I feel? or should I wait or keep on being friendly with her? THANK YOU CAP LADIES!
Profile picture of CrabMan13
CrabMan13
@CrabMan13
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 63 · Topics: 9
Posted by Westsidekodak
Posted by CrabMan13
Hi Cappy ladies. Should I confess my feelings for this Capricorn woman? I liked her since September. I tried being friendly with her; we do texting, sometimes we talk on the phone until dawn, I tried asking her out on a friendly dinner but she would always reject me. Last December after going out of town with her and officemates, she started ignoring me and acts cold towards me (I even posted it here). Recently, we started talking again; she invited me to go on lunch with her and officemates, sometimes we do breakfast but with her officemates too, we even went out last night for dinner because I asked her if she's hungry, so we had dinner but we're still with our officemates. We do texting again but not as regular like before.

Can you help me what should I do? Should I tell her what I feel? or should I wait or keep on being friendly with her? THANK YOU CAP LADIES!
Ask her out on a real date you fool
click to expand

I asked her a couple of times already, she would always say she'll go home early, she has other plans, etc. There was one time I asked her out then she finally said yes then cancelled on me a day before.
Profile picture of CrabMan13
CrabMan13
@CrabMan13
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 63 · Topics: 9
Posted by Greentea
She's bailed on the date request a few times, you may have been friend zoned. Caps are incredibly picky.

But yes, Caps do like a man that can take charge, respectfully. Don't be a wimp about it...if that's how you're coming off.

What do you say when you ask her out?
Maybe I got friend zoned, but some said there's no such a thing as friend zone for Capricorns. Well, the first ones were like just a casual asking like "Let's grab dinner" then "Let's watch a movie" "Let's go to a firing range" sort of like that, but the one time I asked her out and she cancelled on me the day before incident I told her if she's available on that day and if can we have lunch on this place.

Is that a bad way? 😢 O please help me.
Profile picture of Greentea
Greentea
@Greentea
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 3848 · Topics: 46
Posted by CrabMan13
Posted by Greentea
She's bailed on the date request a few times, you may have been friend zoned. Caps are incredibly picky.

But yes, Caps do like a man that can take charge, respectfully. Don't be a wimp about it...if that's how you're coming off.

What do you say when you ask her out?
Maybe I got friend zoned, but some said there's no such a thing as friend zone for Capricorns. Well, the first ones were like just a casual asking like "Let's grab dinner" then "Let's watch a movie" "Let's go to a firing range" sort of like that, but the one time I asked her out and she cancelled on me the day before incident I told her if she's available on that day and if can we have lunch on this place.

Is that a bad way? 😢 O please help me.
click to expand

Who said we don't friend zone...I friend zone the hell out.of people all the time.

I would say.. I'd really like to take you out to dinner? There's this great Mexican place I'd like to take you to that I think you'll like.

Something like that. Be a gentleman, who is interested in a date with her...not some guy friend she hangs out with, with other coworkers.. you gotta up the anti a little, have her see you more than some guy she's friend zoned.

Lets.go to the movies is something a guy friend would say to me, or I would say to another friend.
Profile picture of CrabMan13
CrabMan13
@CrabMan13
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 63 · Topics: 9
Posted by Greentea
Posted by CrabMan13
Posted by Greentea
She's bailed on the date request a few times, you may have been friend zoned. Caps are incredibly picky.

But yes, Caps do like a man that can take charge, respectfully. Don't be a wimp about it...if that's how you're coming off.

What do you say when you ask her out?
Maybe I got friend zoned, but some said there's no such a thing as friend zone for Capricorns. Well, the first ones were like just a casual asking like "Let's grab dinner" then "Let's watch a movie" "Let's go to a firing range" sort of like that, but the one time I asked her out and she cancelled on me the day before incident I told her if she's available on that day and if can we have lunch on this place.

Is that a bad way? 😢 O please help me.
Who said we don't friend zone...I friend zone the hell out.of people all the time.

I would say.. I'd really like to take you out to dinner? There's this great Mexican place I'd like to take you to that I think you'll like.

Something like that. Be a gentleman, who is interested in a date with her...not some guy friend she hangs out with, with other coworkers.. you gotta up the anti a little, have her see you more than some guy she's friend zoned.

Lets.go to the movies is something a guy friend would say to me, or I would say to another friend.
click to expand

ohh I thought if caps like a person they like them or not that's it. haha! Thanks for the tip. I'm going to ask her personally.

I have a question, what is the best way to communicate with a cap girl? I mean we do text each other but not as regular like before, and most of the time she doesn't respond anymore. 😢 Thanks again!
Profile picture of Greentea
Greentea
@Greentea
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 3848 · Topics: 46
Posted by CrabMan13
Posted by Greentea
Posted by CrabMan13
Posted by Greentea
She's bailed on the date request a few times, you may have been friend zoned. Caps are incredibly picky.

But yes, Caps do like a man that can take charge, respectfully. Don't be a wimp about it...if that's how you're coming off.

What do you say when you ask her out?
Maybe I got friend zoned, but some said there's no such a thing as friend zone for Capricorns. Well, the first ones were like just a casual asking like "Let's grab dinner" then "Let's watch a movie" "Let's go to a firing range" sort of like that, but the one time I asked her out and she cancelled on me the day before incident I told her if she's available on that day and if can we have lunch on this place.

Is that a bad way? 😢 O please help me.
Who said we don't friend zone...I friend zone the hell out.of people all the time.

I would say.. I'd really like to take you out to dinner? There's this great Mexican place I'd like to take you to that I think you'll like.

Something like that. Be a gentleman, who is interested in a date with her...not some guy friend she hangs out with, with other coworkers.. you gotta up the anti a little, have her see you more than some guy she's friend zoned.

Lets.go to the movies is something a guy friend would say to me, or I would say to another friend.
ohh I thought if caps like a person they like them or not that's it. haha! Thanks for the tip. I'm going to ask her personally.

I have a question, what is the best way to communicate with a cap girl? I mean we do text each other but not as regular like before, and most of the time she doesn't respond anymore. 😢 Thanks again!
click to expand

I personally don't like texting very much. I can mean to respond to someone but I'll have things to do, so I can set it down and forget about it until hours later. I like talking to people face to face, so I can see their reaction, emotions and gestures. The phone is fine too, texting is so impersonal. If you ask her, have it be in person.