start talkin'

i need to hear from other caps. what's going on with y'all? how are your relationships with scorpios, cancers, virgos, leos, etc. going? do you ever feel that we aren't entitled to love? how many single capricorns are out there? i want to hear from married caps and how they found their loves. sometimes i just feel like it will never happen for me. i get so depressed and then i think i should feel lucky. all this time to myself, to do what i want and no one to get in my way. it's a confusing thing. so speak to me. tell me what other caps think about marriage. in general.

Hi Pato,

I am not a cappy sun but am a cappy moon - will my reply count? And...I have a very good cappy male friend who has shared quite a bit with me lately.....

All of my relationships are going swimmingly well these days...my leo pal is such a sweetheart! Cappy guy is married but seems a little down...he is having money problems..has been married for over 30 yrs. He had to get married. I have known him for many, many years and I KNOW he is not happily married but - he will stay in it because according to him it is the "right" thing to do. Okay then. He did say that if anything ever happened he would not remarry.

I am single and I love it....I do not want to be married as I am having too much fun enjoying my life and all of my friends along with my boys (2 scorps and 1 virgo)

Pato, it will happen to you ..however, I think it will happen when you least expect for it to...forget about it and enjoy YOU as YOU are the most precious thing there is!!!!!! Make life fun for yourself and soon others will be joining in to play.

Everyone is entitled to love as we are love...and love is to be given away...share you with life - Have you ever read the book... Mastery of Love by Miguel Ruiz also the author of the Four Agreements. If not, it is an awesome read.

Not sure if this is what you were hoping to hear...your life is perfect in this moment.

Enjoy,
Freebird

of course your advise/opinion counts. thanks....i will look into getting the books. it's just that every capricorn i know is single (including me) and never seems to be able to make a relationship work, or is in a relationship, and they're not happy, like your friend, and they feel they need to stay in it, because we cannot give up on people. we wouldn't walk away from a person being overtly cruel to us, because we have some stupid belief that our love will heal that person. what's wrong with us. jt's right...we (caps) are pathetic losers, boring and have nothing about us that's worth sticking around for. ugh...

Pato,

You know you are right about us always being single; At first I thought there was something wrong with me, but I think us Capricorns have very high expectations. As it is we really don't give everyone a chance, I am very picky about who I talk to. I mean we accept people for what they are, but I think we respect honesty the most. I don't know right now I am waiting for Scorpio to make up his mind, and in the mean time I am seeing a Libra, I really like him. I am getting scared more and more, because we are seeing each other more and more, and if Scorpio comes back I am going to break it off with Libra. I have been wondering lately if I should end it now. It sucks because I think I am starting to have feelings for him. I know we can't take it any where he is 4 years younger and I have more children then he dose. I want stability, a family etc. I am not sure what he wants, I don't even think he knows what he wants. Either way it is going to hurt. The things I get myself into! That's why I don't let people get close to me. And Pato we have lots of wonderful qualities about us, we are beautiful people inside and out, there are just few to see it, and maybe we don't always give people the chance. We have many different layers and it takes a person with depth to get to our core.

thanks for your thoughts F&I. i wish you luck with your scorp. while i have been with a cancer for 13yrs as my so called boyfriend, travel companion, life partner...i did have a break from him last year with a scorp who i fell very hard for. i got pregnant, miscarried and then it didn't work out. while i am back with my cancer, i miss my scorp terribly. my cancer loves me, he's just not around too much. he's a class 5 kayaker and is traveling constantly. so i just sit around, waiting most of the time. he does not know about the pregnancy. i don't feel he needs to know. i guess after 13 years, he's the best i'll get. we just don't have that physical chemistry that i had with my scorp, and i really miss that, but i will stay with my cancer, because i know he's good for me in many ways, yet it makes me a little sad to think that i won't have that passion again. see that's what i mean by we caps will stay in a situation that's not totally good, all it has to be is somewhat good and we'll put up with that. i wonder if i have any faith at all sometimes, to think that things really could be better. my cancer is my best friend though. after 13 years, i really don't know if i could leave him go. even without the physical passion, he's been there for me through alot, but he's not into marriage. i guess we all compromise in the end.

Pato,

I understand what you are saying we would rather stick it out and be misserable then happy. I am tired of setteling we deserve more!!! It just takes time and patience and eventually we will have our turn at love, true love! None of this half way monkey bs that we think is Love when we find real love we will know.Have you ever heard that song by Kid Rock "only God Knows Why" Listen to it thats how I feel most of the time. Pato, our time will come, it will🙂

if it was only that easy.
sometimes we don't know what's best for us.
i have chosen to let life unfold right now. you know, the lord is my sheperd, i shall not want, thing. he maketh me lie down in green pastures, he restoreth my soul.
i've taken a time out.

Hi everyone!!! I'm new to the website... I settled for 16yrs. I wasn't happy and after 9/11, I knew I wanted to live life to the fullest. Tomorrow isn't promised to you, live your life today. Do whatever it takes to BE HAPPY... I would rather be by myself than be with someone who doesn't make me happy. And this comes from someone who was married right out of high school up until 2 years ago.... I am happier now than I ever been...

and...I would like some fries with that "DuncanBurger."

seasoned curly if those are available.

How about Corn fries?

huh? you lost me on, corn.....