Still Confused with my Cap Guy

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MsImpala66
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Ok so I have posted a few threads in regards to the Cap Guy I am currently talking to. There have been so much great advice and I have actually done a few, however, still confused.

So this past week when we communicated, he would tell me he will call me right back and wouldn't. From the advice I gotten from previous threads, I just let it roll, not letting it be such a big deal. I mean we were still communicating right....

Well he took a trip to Vegas this past weekend with his daughter for a family wedding. I was not expecting any communication what so ever. To my surprised I had communication with him all weekend, texting, calling, sending pics, letting me know when they arrived, when they left. I was shocked, mouth dropped open shocked. He called me when he got home, he was being silly cracking jokes, being protective, asking how I was healing, what the drs said about my injuries (was in a car accident a little over a week ago and had to have surgery. From my previous threads he didn't seem to be concern about it). Well i am suppose to be traveling to Vegas this upcoming weekend for the big fight, but my cap guy doesn't want me to go because of my injuries (bruised lung and a few bruised ribs). Well my Dr said as long as I don't over do it, then I should be ok to drive to Vegas can't fly. My Cap was a little irratated but was ok with it.

Ok so my confusing part is....I don't know if he is interested or not— I don't know if I should igniate seeing him or wait until he igniates it. I mentioned that I had free time tomorrow and his response was "really" but that is pretty much were the conversation ended. So I still don't know what to do....lol hee hee analizing it.
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truecap
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Well, you have three choices.

1. You could come right out and ask him what his intentions are and if he's interested.

2. Just play it cool as suggested above and stop worrying and let him make all the moves and initiated all the contact. If you back off and he chases you, then you'll have the answer to your question.

3. Chase him until he runs far, far away from you.

Which option works best for you?
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MsImpala66
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@Piscescorp
I know you are absolutely correct. I should of ignored him the entire weekend.

@Metoo
Thanks for the advice. It has been easier and easier to not contact him first. I honestly don't think I will have time to communicate with him while there. (my good friend is connected to training Robert Guerrero, so I will be with them all weekend) I am going to just have fun and not worry about it.

@Libra1234
LMBO!!!

@TrueCap
I am going with option #2, it's becoming easier and easier to pull back. I haven't made contact with him today and he has called me twice and...he even called me "babe". LOL But again I don't want to read to much into it either. Thanks for the advice!

@ellessque
LOL, that's just wrong.....