First visit. I have read some of the articles on Cap guys...a bit intriuged. Me and my cap guy have been together for just over 3 months, so far he has not done the dissappearing act on me, we spend all most every spare minute together. He phones me more than I do him, he talks openly and involves me in all of his life so far. Our Chemistry is absolutely amazing..the best..cap guys are sooooo sexy.
To all the girls that have dated cap guys when do they start the detaching mode?? I need to prepare myself...
One thing is he constantly brings up my ex's or any male friends that I have in my life and I am beginning to get concerned that he has trouble trusting me or feels threatened somehow..any tips to put him at ease?
i've always thought that capricorns were the stalker types, cuz every stalker that i had was a capricorn. i guess that's why i'm kinda scared of them.. lol. so to me, that would sound pretty damn normal. or maybe, he's either just really crazy about you, or he might even be one of those really horny capricorns-types. i wouldn't know cuz i'm really, freaking scared of them. but either way.. just enjoy the time that you guys have together, and just address his issues of detachment if they ever do arise. i'm sure he likes you a lot.
there was no offense intended to any capricorns. i'm sorry if i offended anyone (i didn't think before i typed - like always). i'm not racist.. uhh.. i mean.. sun signist? lol but yeah.. i like capricorns in general; i get along with them really well. it's only when the friendships that i had with the males would quickly turn into something more that i become really uncomfortable. so yeah.. there's more to the stories, but they were the first "pigs" that i came across. i was especially innocent in my early HS years, and i got really scared. so yeah.. just wanted to make things clear. i admire their focused intelligence very much, though.
You know...I can't say I know much about relationships, but I know I like cappies a lot. I know I'm probably partial because I happen to really like my cappy guy, but I've known some others and we have got along superbly well. Most astrology sites say that we are not a good match, capman was the first to say it is a good match and it was nice to see a more positive take on how we relate to each other.
I must have one of the planet lined up right or something. Anyways, I'd like to see more positive light on my cappy friends. I don't want to try to diminish the pain some of the gals here have been through, I just thought it would be nice to share a positive view toward them.
My cap guy is funny, supportive, a good listener, a great (I'm blusshing) lover, intelligent, ambitious, and sensible most of the time. I've sensed he is very sensitive, possibly easily jealous, wants to give strong advice on my decisions, and doesn't volunteer his feelings, but will entertain discussions about them if I bring it up in a non-judmental way.
I'm just rampbling....so I'll spare boooring anyone.....
Hi to all that responded...Sorry was away at the weekend with Cap guy...very strange weekend actually. We kinda of went through a testing each other stage but we pulled through and it ended up being fantastic. He was being very self centred acting rather strange towards me (is that a detaching moment?) I had never seen that side to him before, as though his every whim was my desire. What did he want to do, was I touching him, holding his hand etc (a bit hard to explain)if he didnt think of it then it was a bad idea and I was being selfish.
Being a Taurean girl I was not having none of it and saying so (stubbornly) which then started an argument and bang! everything changed we normally are quite affectionate but we could spent a good few hours on each end of the sofa. (sulking, especially the cap guy) You boys can sulk!
The first thing that attracted me to my cap guy was how we could talk about everything and anything, teasing each other and simply being ourselves. You cap guys have a natural aura about you i think "what you see is what you get". Also the mystery of what is going on in your heads, almost a challenge to get underneath that exterior. Being a taurean I like the tough guy look but dont want the tough guy heart and mind with it...does that make sense?
My cap guy has the ability to make me think about my actions and pointed out a lot of things no one else has about me. be just click..strong similarities...you are very sexy in your cool and collected, i am confident image. The mind to achieve also..seeking new horizons, experiences.
Me an my cap guy met about two years ago whilst on hols with friends, kind of pushed together. But it worked out well, we came back to our home town and met for a few dates but I was working crazy hours and just out of a long relationship so it wasnt the right time to go further. We kept in contact (he went travelling) via emails and eventually 2 years later. Met for a drink and we have either talked or seen each other every day since.
My honest view is that you cap guys are very emotional and sensitive and dont like putting yourselves in situations where you could lose control unless you feel absolutely confident that you wont get it slapped back in your face. I have lots of female cap friends and the one thing that always repeats is "but what if thats not what they want, what will I do then?" You like to feel that you are a part of something and feel uneasy if not...—?
Mar taurus.. I am really happy for u..but what happens is that when 2 ppl click so well, they also invite situations where a minor misunderstanding can be very detrimental to ur relation...sometimes thay get so carried away with how nice and perfectly well we click with them(the capricorns)..so try and show ur cappy,ur "not so good " side of urself.. and yes, taureans and capris totally connect...they have to much in common, u see..but the stubborness is something else that they have in common..and 9 times out of ten, stubborness can create problems in this relation(cappy-taurus).. Mar taurus..hope u have none of these power struggles...
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First visit. I have read some of the articles on Cap guys...a bit intriuged. Me and my cap guy have been together for just over 3 months, so far he has not done the dissappearing act on me, we spend all most every spare minute together. He phones me more than I do him, he talks openly and involves me in all of his life so far. Our Chemistry is absolutely amazing..the best..cap guys are sooooo sexy.
To all the girls that have dated cap guys when do they start the detaching mode?? I need to prepare myself...