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the Cap man is back.. i'm sick to my stomach
He stirred me up again.
fucking bastard!
sorry to everyone for my language. I just don't know where to turn to. I know he will screw me again... I feel my face is glowing of heat... my head is fuming... my thoughts are all over the place... my stomach is aching.. i feel like puking
WHY ON EARTH do i care...?
I was happy by myself
I thought my life is back... LOVELESS but at least LINEAR and PREDICTABLE
I can focus again
I hate ups and downs
I hate someone interfering into my thoughts
but darn
I feel his presence again
it's soo H U G E
and I know...
it's like a dream every time
it feels so real and so steady
but it disappears
as if it never happened
😢
fucking bastard!
sorry to everyone for my language. I just don't know where to turn to. I know he will screw me again... I feel my face is glowing of heat... my head is fuming... my thoughts are all over the place... my stomach is aching.. i feel like puking
WHY ON EARTH do i care...?
I was happy by myself
I thought my life is back... LOVELESS but at least LINEAR and PREDICTABLE
I can focus again
I hate ups and downs
I hate someone interfering into my thoughts
but darn
I feel his presence again
it's soo H U G E
and I know...
it's like a dream every time
it feels so real and so steady
but it disappears
as if it never happened
😢
the worse part is
I know what i'm doing wrong... I should just wish him well and let him go.
He asked me over and over again, "you will come, won't you?"
I said... I don't know... I don't have time for this... In the meantime I am gathering my strength to get rid of him. I have to go, I said. He was surprised that I let him hanging... my fucking conscience... I never want to hurt him, degrade him, disrespect him, make him feel unwanted...
he's done it all to me
I should just let him go so he finds happiness in whoever he wants to be..OR whoever he wants to play.. BUT NOT ME!!
there I am again
been through it all
I knew this was coming
I felt his thoughts for days, even weeks
I hate to see myself at his door tomorrow morning
wow... if only he could feel what this all does to a Scorpio's pride
I'm sure he knows
he has an issue
with himself
i'm only a tool --> remember this FUM!!!
I know what i'm doing wrong... I should just wish him well and let him go.
He asked me over and over again, "you will come, won't you?"
I said... I don't know... I don't have time for this... In the meantime I am gathering my strength to get rid of him. I have to go, I said. He was surprised that I let him hanging... my fucking conscience... I never want to hurt him, degrade him, disrespect him, make him feel unwanted...
he's done it all to me
I should just let him go so he finds happiness in whoever he wants to be..OR whoever he wants to play.. BUT NOT ME!!
there I am again
been through it all
I knew this was coming
I felt his thoughts for days, even weeks
I hate to see myself at his door tomorrow morning
wow... if only he could feel what this all does to a Scorpio's pride
I'm sure he knows
he has an issue
with himself
i'm only a tool --> remember this FUM!!!
oh... sorry, I didn't see your posts..lol.. I'm just going on and on.
Scorp_chic, I'm afraid tooserious is right, if it were that urgent, he'd tell me. He is probably trying to pull me back into his life because... hm
Scorp_chic, I'm afraid tooserious is right, if it were that urgent, he'd tell me. He is probably trying to pull me back into his life because... hm
Posted by scorpio_chicPosted by tooseriouslol
he is playing games tho. if he really wanted to tell her something urgent he would have already told her on the phone. he wanted her to be there. for what? paying for the child support?? lol
There are some things better said in person! What if he has elephantitus... that disease where their balls grow so huge they can sit on them. That would be something he might want to tell someone in person?!?!
I have a migraine I don't know why I'm in such a humorous mood. Maybe some wires in my head got crossed.click to expand
LOL
Posted by scorpio_chic
Just trying to lift your spirits FUM. Stay strong & FIGHT THE POWER!
thank you, chic 😄
already I feel better but my heart is racing.
Posted by CappyLuv30
FUM: Don't beat yourself up....we've all been under the mighty Cap's spell. Just go talk to him, give him 5 minutes to speak his mind, don't even go inside the house, have him talk to you on the porch as to not fall into temptation and then that's that. Keep it moving. No man is worth that much stress. Upward and onward.
CappyLuv, so you were also under the spell of a Cappy...wow? I would think you can handle each other easier. I will try the 5 min at the door, not sure though if I'd succeed.
i like him 😢
deeply
deeply
obviously I went... I tried the 5 min at his door before arrival.
I called him and said... I'll be there in one half our.. get ready ... I'm not coming in!
he sounded sleepy... he said.. 'just get here... open the door and come in'
I called him and said... I'll be there in one half our.. get ready ... I'm not coming in!
he sounded sleepy... he said.. 'just get here... open the door and come in'
hm
i knocked... waited... knocked again
he said, come in! ... so I did. I didn't know what to do with myself.. just stood there and he said, you look sexy..
I was surprised because I didn't plan for sexy .. ok, it made me more shy. I tried to sound firm, sooooo... here I am.. I thought you were ready to tell me!
He said, 'come here!'~
oh goawd, oh goawd... no .. not again. He was naked.
i knocked... waited... knocked again
he said, come in! ... so I did. I didn't know what to do with myself.. just stood there and he said, you look sexy..
I was surprised because I didn't plan for sexy .. ok, it made me more shy. I tried to sound firm, sooooo... here I am.. I thought you were ready to tell me!
He said, 'come here!'~
oh goawd, oh goawd... no .. not again. He was naked.
I swear... I resisted
i couldn't stay long.. he wanted to me come in the evening. I said, I don't know if I'd come again.
Then, he threatened that id I won't come, he will never EVER get back with me again.
I had stuff to do. In the evening I called him to say, I'm coming.
He didn't pick up.
Then, he threatened that id I won't come, he will never EVER get back with me again.
I had stuff to do. In the evening I called him to say, I'm coming.
He didn't pick up.
I called again leaving a message.
sorry for the typos.
I hope the universe doesn't play a trick on us again, because it's not fun anymore.
Cap man was out of country for 5 months. He said, I called you first thing,didn't I?
I said, ok... so? After 5 months of silence, what does that prove anyway?
He said, he is somewhat sick... he feels weird and goes on hide.
He looked sincere.. he always does, but this time.. I don't know... he kind of held me differently, more like if he missed me.
I mean... it's a nice thought, but I don't count on it
unfortunately...
I hope the universe doesn't play a trick on us again, because it's not fun anymore.
Cap man was out of country for 5 months. He said, I called you first thing,didn't I?
I said, ok... so? After 5 months of silence, what does that prove anyway?
He said, he is somewhat sick... he feels weird and goes on hide.
He looked sincere.. he always does, but this time.. I don't know... he kind of held me differently, more like if he missed me.
I mean... it's a nice thought, but I don't count on it
unfortunately...
scorp_chic 😄
I knoooow... lol
I was very serious when I said I don't want a relation with you.. get dressed! NO SEX!!
a little bit here and a little bit there and pleazzze a little bit of that... I found myself in his arms in the end.
I knoooow... lol
I was very serious when I said I don't want a relation with you.. get dressed! NO SEX!!
a little bit here and a little bit there and pleazzze a little bit of that... I found myself in his arms in the end.
ellesque -- do i know you under a different screen name? You sound as if you know me 🙂 you are pretty spot on by the way..
snoopy is a dreamer.
LMFAO you got completely fucked over lol!!! and you fell for it? wow and i thought being a scorp you would of predicted this.
LOL it's funny because it from you hating this guys guts because he was calling you again, to him persuading you to come over, to which then a few words got you under his supposed spell?? which by the way i want. to then basically telling you to fuck off by not not picking up? and somehow it goes from you being in the power position to him calling the shots? and poor old you left with a bunch of old feelings you didn't want in the first place?
all because a bunch of nosy cunts here wanted you to find out what he wanted. which lets be honest here, we all knew what he wanted lol. which leads on to my next question, in all honesty FUMRedFairy_tales, did you or did you not have sex with his naked capricorn body that was seductively revealed behind the quilt?
tbh, it was pretty obvious you still had feelings for him, i could just tell. or else you wouldn't of posted. and your heart wouldn't be so racey and fluttery if you had no feelings for him what so ever.
LOL i never respond to relationship stuff on dxp but this made me chuckle from start to finish so i had to 🙂
especially the naked bit, that was pure class! he most certainly is one smooth operator
LOL it's funny because it from you hating this guys guts because he was calling you again, to him persuading you to come over, to which then a few words got you under his supposed spell?? which by the way i want. to then basically telling you to fuck off by not not picking up? and somehow it goes from you being in the power position to him calling the shots? and poor old you left with a bunch of old feelings you didn't want in the first place?
all because a bunch of nosy cunts here wanted you to find out what he wanted. which lets be honest here, we all knew what he wanted lol. which leads on to my next question, in all honesty FUMRedFairy_tales, did you or did you not have sex with his naked capricorn body that was seductively revealed behind the quilt?
tbh, it was pretty obvious you still had feelings for him, i could just tell. or else you wouldn't of posted. and your heart wouldn't be so racey and fluttery if you had no feelings for him what so ever.
LOL i never respond to relationship stuff on dxp but this made me chuckle from start to finish so i had to 🙂
especially the naked bit, that was pure class! he most certainly is one smooth operator
and so you should be!
nah sorry, i no one forced her scorpio chic. she obviously has or had strong feelings for this capricor guy and there was nothing we could or can do to stop it. obviously you guys didn't help the situation but that's not the poit.
i think it's sweet tbh, ths capricorn guy is obviously some kind of genius? because he's managed to wrap fum around his little pinky. but in saying that, iv'e noticed most female scorps adore male capricorns so it comes as no surprise to me really lol.
nah sorry, i no one forced her scorpio chic. she obviously has or had strong feelings for this capricor guy and there was nothing we could or can do to stop it. obviously you guys didn't help the situation but that's not the poit.
i think it's sweet tbh, ths capricorn guy is obviously some kind of genius? because he's managed to wrap fum around his little pinky. but in saying that, iv'e noticed most female scorps adore male capricorns so it comes as no surprise to me really lol.
used to be friends? what happened there then?
if it's because i was never on i can understand, iv'e many of friends on facebook because i hardly ever use it.
if it's because i was never on i can understand, iv'e many of friends on facebook because i hardly ever use it.
and to think scorpio chic you said all shit about elephantitus and cancer and whatnot? shame on you. i bet there's some poor sod out there right now with elephantitus reading this thinking you son of a ...
it's alrite. she said she likes him deeply so it's ok. it's just a shame this capricorn guy sounds like a jerk.
scorpio chic i witnessed you manipulate FUM for your own good. j/k. but you kinda did..
scorpio chic i witnessed you manipulate FUM for your own good. j/k. but you kinda did..
tbh not sounding big headed or anything but i knew straight away he wanted to get her pants. i'm not actually sure what FUM meant by in the end she was in his arms? i assume she meant they had sex? if that was the case i'm just surprised she didn't see it coming. after 5 months without a call and to call all of a sudden out of the blue asking her to come over urgently? there's only one thing on that dudes mind.
i was too late! i only just found this thread i swear!!
or else i would of.
and that's good to hear scorpio chic, but i really can't see why a man would do that in all honesty? he'd have to be a saint. especially 5, 6 or 9 months!
or else i would of.
and that's good to hear scorpio chic, but i really can't see why a man would do that in all honesty? he'd have to be a saint. especially 5, 6 or 9 months!
unless of course they want you know what
Posted by CappyLuv30Posted by tooseriouslolPosted by FUMRedFairy_tales
Then, he threatened that id I won't come, he will never EVER get back with me again.
lmao. you should have told him please be my guest never try again lol. that's exactly what you wanted right FUM? to have him never make your life miserable again right?
Ditto. Rip off like a band-aid and don't look backclick to expand
CappyLuv -- I was just about to leave when he said that and I said, I haven't seen you for the past 5 months. I'm fine. If you want to disappear from my life, go ahead, I won't miss it anymore... 😉
you should have seen his face... but then, darn.. I assured him, I'll be back when I can. I've too many things on my plate... he said, OK 😛 lol
Posted by scorpio_chicPosted by AA
and so you should be!
nah sorry, i no one forced her scorpio chic. she obviously has or had strong feelings for this capricor guy and there was nothing we could or can do to stop it. obviously you guys didn't help the situation but that's not the poit.
i think it's sweet tbh, ths capricorn guy is obviously some kind of genius? because he's managed to wrap fum around his little pinky. but in saying that, iv'e noticed most female scorps adore male capricorns so it comes as no surprise to me really lol.
I knowwwwwww. We're stuck to them like glue. I pledge to NEVER deal with another capricorn again in my life if things don't work out with my current one. They're too damn smooth! I honestly didn't see any redflags but then again I don't know the guy or her history with him. I thought maybe it was something urgent that he needed to talk to her face to face about. Now I feel bad. 😢 I shouldn't have been encouraging her to go find out what it was that he wanted to say. I'm just damn nosey I suppose. :/click to expand
don't feel guild, chic 😉 I couldn't have stopped myself from seeing him anyway. If he had approached me a month ago, I definitely was going to tell him 'OFF', but somehow the timing was just wow... he stirred me up with the help he also got from the universe...
*guilt
Posted by AA
tbh not sounding big headed or anything but i knew straight away he wanted to get her pants. i'm not actually sure what FUM meant by in the end she was in his arms? i assume she meant they had sex? if that was the case i'm just surprised she didn't see it coming. after 5 months without a call and to call all of a sudden out of the blue asking her to come over urgently? there's only one thing on that dudes mind.
AA, I was veeeeery firm in telling him that we should stay friends, he can have sex with whoever he wants. I seriously didn't want to get mixed up with him again...
he was so sweet though. He didn't want to believe my comment... well, he also was firm; a combo of sweet & firm. He lifted me like a dove and the sex was potent.
😉
he called me later in the night, every 15 mins over and over again. I didn't pick up because I don't want to act like a fool running to everything he wants of me.
He can wait! But I couldn't sleep... i'm daydreaming again. BAAAAAAAD NEWS!!!!
He can wait! But I couldn't sleep... i'm daydreaming again. BAAAAAAAD NEWS!!!!
CappyLuv -- sorry to hear your husband's cheating. I never give second chances, even if I want to, there are a couple of men in my life who had decided to move on without me and at their return, eventhough I liked them still... I just couldn't bring myself allowing them back again. It just didn't feel the same anymore.
This one... the Cap, he cheated on me last year. I had just felt something was not quite the same with his behaviour. I saw with my own eyes. I ended and that was it! He wasn't happy of me leaving him, which is quite weird... You know, if you are happy with a woman, why go look further? You can look, but acting upon is unacceptable.
So he tried coming back again... slowly.. after 4 months, he tried building friendship and after 6 months from that time on, he was already calling me in the middle of night to talk things over. I tried to stay friends with him, because I didn't want to get involved again.
Until... one fine day, things turned again to a relationship. 5 months ago, I felt he was pulling himself away from me...
Yesterday (for the first time!), he apologized from me that he is weird in that regard. He has fears. Any guy's *what if* fears that makes him panic being stuck with one woman eternally.
I still believe: If one loves truly, his desire for that woman should overcome his fears.
Yesterday just casually, he told me *I love you*, so do this for me✨
I told him, don't say something you don't believe in. Tell me when you believe you love me.
This one... the Cap, he cheated on me last year. I had just felt something was not quite the same with his behaviour. I saw with my own eyes. I ended and that was it! He wasn't happy of me leaving him, which is quite weird... You know, if you are happy with a woman, why go look further? You can look, but acting upon is unacceptable.
So he tried coming back again... slowly.. after 4 months, he tried building friendship and after 6 months from that time on, he was already calling me in the middle of night to talk things over. I tried to stay friends with him, because I didn't want to get involved again.
Until... one fine day, things turned again to a relationship. 5 months ago, I felt he was pulling himself away from me...
Yesterday (for the first time!), he apologized from me that he is weird in that regard. He has fears. Any guy's *what if* fears that makes him panic being stuck with one woman eternally.
I still believe: If one loves truly, his desire for that woman should overcome his fears.
Yesterday just casually, he told me *I love you*, so do this for me✨
I told him, don't say something you don't believe in. Tell me when you believe you love me.
Posted by tooseriouslolPosted by FUMRedFairy_tales
i couldn't stay long.. he wanted to me come in the evening. I said, I don't know if I'd come again.
Then, he threatened that id I won't come, he will never EVER get back with me again.
I had stuff to do. In the evening I called him to say, I'm coming.
He didn't pick up.
forgive me but i seem to hear similar things from you about him long ago.click to expand
tooserious, may I ask what your previous screen name is?
you are right, I'm being foolish again, because a person -- whoever they turn into over time -- can NEVER change!
I'm not speaking in psychological terms, but rather HABITS. That is why I felt so sick to my stomach to be seeing myself being swept by him again 😢
Posted by scorpio_chicPosted by AA
tbh not sounding big headed or anything but i knew straight away he wanted to get her pants. i'm not actually sure what FUM meant by in the end she was in his arms? i assume she meant they had sex? if that was the case i'm just surprised she didn't see it coming. after 5 months without a call and to call all of a sudden out of the blue asking her to come over urgently? there's only one thing on that dudes mind.
There are men (not only caps) that disappear only to reappear after 6-9 months and call to apologize. It's happened plenty of times with me, and they weren't trying to get the panties or even see me, they were honestly just apologizing. So a man calling after so many months is not unheard of.. and I thought he was going to apologize to her. I thought he just wanted to apologize face to face... I honestly didn't think he'd try to fuck her. The nerve... wow. Smh
So why didn't you jump in earlier and give your two cents?!?! We should be blaming you for negligence!click to expand
Chic -- I blamed myself for the same...
Posted by tooseriouslolPosted by FUMRedFairy_tales
sorry for the typos.
I hope the universe doesn't play a trick on us again, because it's not fun anymore.
Cap man was out of country for 5 months. He said, I called you first thing,didn't I?
I said, ok... so? After 5 months of silence, what does that prove anyway?
He said, he is somewhat sick... he feels weird and goes on hide.
He looked sincere.. he always does, but this time.. I don't know... he kind of held me differently, more like if he missed me.
I mean... it's a nice thought, but I don't count on it
unfortunately...
sincere?? not again. sincere his morning woody puulleeaazzeee lol. ok sorry i need to get rid of this account now lol.click to expand
LMAO 😄 😄 😄
i don't know how this works (i mean the chemistry I have for him)
somethings need to change: moreso with me!
Posted by ellessque
I want to text "i'm still here" so badly.
That would be a big mistake. I'm sitting on my hands.
Don't text him, lovely!
look who is giving you advice 😛
Posted by passinatescorp
Not to take away from the orginal post. @op I feel for you cuz I've been there too, we have such big hearts to turn away from someone we deeply love and they freakin know it. And too, Scorps are very curious; I know myself, i dont like to guess at what he wants to tell me so urgently, i like to hear it straight from the source. He probably pulled you back in with his games but try to flip it on him, you get the last word, and then split.
passionatescorp -- very well said. Time will tell... and this time, I am promising myself for him a NO RETURN... if he ever screws up again.
It's not just my mouth saying, but inside... I am close to fed up. If I ever catch him with dishonesty, I will totally cut him loose this time. Even my 'friendship' will not be available anymore.
I'm dying to hear what he got to tell you.
that's nice CappyLuv30. "Blinded by love"
i like that.
i like that.
LOL!
Man, this entire thread really made me laugh out loud. I gotta hand it to this Cap man. He held all the cards right from the beginning.
Face it, Fum. You enjoyed it didn't ya? It's typical isn't it? Caps...they give you a taste of the forbidden fruit....and then take away the goddamn fruit! This thread validates what I've seen & read everywhere. The scorpio female-capricorn male dynamic is ALWAYS a push-pull one. You want it-don't want it. He wants you-He doesn't want you. You hate the power he has over you- yet you find that power irresistible. You push him away-yet you cannot resist his pull. You want him to go away-Yet you want him to come after you. Push-Pull. Pure drama..lol!
about yesterday... generally it sounds positive BUT
my intuition signals me differently.
We met at late hour. it's difficult to explain in 3 sentences because the energy in between us was quite intense. He pushes me with comments .. I know he tests my limits. It went thus far I didn't like, but he held on to my intensity.. as he caused it and seemed willing to handle whatever the outcome. I observed his glowing eyes.. his insecurities... his true gentleness hiding behind his willed directives.
I regret my reaction, but he seems to have enjoyed it... he was amazing... amazing
in the end, he called me "My Love"... "My Baby" .. wait for me!, he said.
When he called me "My Love", I took off like a jellyfish without brains and 24 eyes... no direction was at destiny... just RUN!! Run for the hills, FUM... he can't be serious...
I think I broke his spirits throughout the night. I told him, forgive me... my hurt makes me do this.
He even commented to meet my parents and bring them out for dinner.
I asked, WHY?
WHY?
... it didn't make sense... is this one of his jokes?
there was a point in time, this sudden strong voice told me, FUM, this is your last night with him... he made up his mind.
He asked me... will you come again? I said, of course...
but somehow.. this voice told me, this is last.
So i'm not sure, it could have been the last time... or my experiences manipulate my thoughts to n'th degree...
my intuition signals me differently.
We met at late hour. it's difficult to explain in 3 sentences because the energy in between us was quite intense. He pushes me with comments .. I know he tests my limits. It went thus far I didn't like, but he held on to my intensity.. as he caused it and seemed willing to handle whatever the outcome. I observed his glowing eyes.. his insecurities... his true gentleness hiding behind his willed directives.
I regret my reaction, but he seems to have enjoyed it... he was amazing... amazing
in the end, he called me "My Love"... "My Baby" .. wait for me!, he said.
When he called me "My Love", I took off like a jellyfish without brains and 24 eyes... no direction was at destiny... just RUN!! Run for the hills, FUM... he can't be serious...
I think I broke his spirits throughout the night. I told him, forgive me... my hurt makes me do this.
He even commented to meet my parents and bring them out for dinner.
I asked, WHY?
WHY?
... it didn't make sense... is this one of his jokes?
there was a point in time, this sudden strong voice told me, FUM, this is your last night with him... he made up his mind.
He asked me... will you come again? I said, of course...
but somehow.. this voice told me, this is last.
So i'm not sure, it could have been the last time... or my experiences manipulate my thoughts to n'th degree...
he said, FUM... if I were rich... I'd get you ANYTHING you want from me. ANYTHING!!!
You would not need to work, he said.
I was so touched. It was so unexpected, my brain couldn't handle the switch.
I took my hurt out of him. He agreed that I hurt him.
He's not the type of guy to give in... so it bothers me even more that I made him a laughing stone for the things he did to me. Love makes you DO pretty stupid things.
I owe him his space.
You would not need to work, he said.
I was so touched. It was so unexpected, my brain couldn't handle the switch.
I took my hurt out of him. He agreed that I hurt him.
He's not the type of guy to give in... so it bothers me even more that I made him a laughing stone for the things he did to me. Love makes you DO pretty stupid things.
I owe him his space.
sorry everyone, I don't mean to ignore your posts. I'm running out for some Expo and more meetings in the evening, but I hope to reply to your comments. You've been all wonderful. Thank you for not bashing me on here 🙂 I appreciate your kindness and times on giving your opinions...
Posted by BeoWulf
LOL!
Man, this entire thread really made me laugh out loud. I gotta hand it to this Cap man. He held all the cards right from the beginning.
Face it, Fum. You enjoyed it didn't ya? It's typical isn't it? Caps...they give you a taste of the forbidden fruit....and then take away the goddamn fruit! This thread validates what I've seen & read everywhere. The scorpio female-capricorn male dynamic is ALWAYS a push-pull one. You want it-don't want it. He wants you-He doesn't want you. You hate the power he has over you- yet you find that power irresistible. You push him away-yet you cannot resist his pull. You want him to go away-Yet you want him to come after you. Push-Pull. Pure drama..lol!
I didn't enjoy it! Moreso because I know the NEXT step. Imagine being shown your favourite food and then taken away before you can even taste it. This 'TAKE AWAY' process is tiring and annoying. I'm glad though you enjoyed the post. My heart is aching. Is a CAP man's heart aching too when he pulls himself away—
Thank you for posting BeoWulf.
Latest update:
haven't heard from him. File temporary closed until it goes to Archives. From there... it will go to shredding.
haven't heard from him. File temporary closed until it goes to Archives. From there... it will go to shredding.
Posted by amethyst2002
The weird thing with these guys is that they take ages to come around and wake the fuck up.
Assuming he wanted to get into your pants, aside, I've seen them come back around long after they fucked up, to make amends. Why? Cause they're slow assholes.
Either he wanted to just get some from you, or he came around and wanted to make up for being a dick.
...Or he wanted some from you. I've seen both. My friend had a chick he was all in love with and shit (also a fwb). Took him 2 years to come around and want to go make amends because he realized what he fucked up and that he missed her. Went about it in the most adorable fashion. She slammed the door in his face. ...I don't blame her.
That's why I allowed him a second chance when he wanted to make amends and shit. Except in my case, he just wanted to give me another test drive in the sack, apparently.
So really, I can see it going both ways. For your sake, assume it was the latter and he wanted nookie. Easier to cope with until he decides to actually show, THROUGH ACTIONS that he means what he says. Assuming you'd want to even bother again.
I say walk away and make him do the work- if he cares enough.
amethyst, I didn't know you went that path with your CAP man... I always thought you are just annoyed with him because you can observe from a distance. Being involved is different. I am going to walk away. Honestly... I used to have thoughts if I should make the first call, but I don't feel that way anymore. I'm just ready to move on. Am sick of repeats that go nowhere.
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I'm a sag. I know that cap men are generally nice. And I don't wanna confuse myself with them being nice and them being
Please list the Do's (Positive things that attracts Capricorn men) Please list the Don't (Negative things that turns Ca
So. I read the board and it seems this is a common trait of the Capricorn male to reappear and disappear. If this consta
So the first time I joined DXP, I joined to get a little insight on my relationship with a cap man (I don't feel like di
I really don't want to come off as being judgmental...But...every Capricorn man I have known (father, other family membe
Lately I've been attracting a lot of Caps. Seems like there are plenty of Cap men in the military and I just came from
I have read alot on the message board about how Capricorn men are slow to commit, but my question is how do you know if
There was this capricorn man I seen a few times at parties and random get together who was friends with my best friend,
I have made a lot of changes for the better with my Capricorn man but he act like he don't trust me very well. He ask m
Ive been dating/seeing my cap guy for just coming up to 8 weeks. Things have been very slow (never experienced anything
What personality traits in woman do Capricorn men open up to? Do Capricorn men like confident and bold women? If you ask
Been dating/seeing my cap guy for about 7 weeks. Everything has been going really well although very slowly and he seem
I was seeing a Capricorn man who was undoubtedly intrigue by me. After 3 months we started getting close and everything
If you are just having sex with a Capricorn man for 8 months, will he eventually get hooked or have stronger feelings fo
A while ago, I posted about a cap male that I was seeing for about five months, but during that time, there were numer
I had posted on here about a month or so ago about a Cap man I was talking to. I wasn't sure at the time if it was goin
Why does a Cap man worried about public image and not able to walk out of a failed marriage when he's clearly in love w
I was infatuated with a Capricorn man. He's 4 years younger than me and it felt so much like love. My biggest mistake wa
to make a long story short a cap guy with whom i had hardly known from college arrives at my home one day and we have be
This cap guy and i (also a cap) have been getting to know each other and flirting for a couple of months now. It has bee
HIM: *be at my house at 7 pm✨
HIM: *call me✨
HIM: *be here tomorrow morning✨
HIM: *why haven't you called yet... call me✨
...
ME: what's the sudden urgency? I don't want to deal with you anymore... have a good life! LEAVE ME ALONE!!!
HIM: NO... you have to be here tomorrow morning!! I will tell you everything tomorrow morning when you are here...
ME: I don't want to have a relationship with you anymore.