to call or not to call?that is the question

Dear Cappy friends,

I have a very practical question 4 U🙂(I know you like practical things🙂
Here it comes: I have read somewhere a seducing tip for the capricorn that says: "TIP: Call him oftan at his mobile phone." Well,is this true? could you be seduced like this?!?
I have a problem with the " who-calls-who".Being a Leo,I like to be the one that gets the attention ,so for me it feels like a humiliation to be the one that calls a man! Really! Sure ,I would like to talk to him,but I'd like to know that he thinks about me and took some of his time to make a phone call.
Does this sound too pretentious?
Please tell me what are your opinions about this calling thing .
PS.As I think more at this,I realize that is some kind of conflict between my generous nature ( and that includes giving calls ) and Cappies economical nature.But there must be balance in everything,so it can't be friendship one in which only one party makes all( ar almost ) of the calls.
PLEASE SHARE YOUR OPINIONS AND EXPERIENCES IN THIS MATTER.Grazie a tutti!

Hi,
I have been the one who calls to restart broken relationships. My men always gaze at me and say "I really,really missed you." I think men are afraid of regection just as much as we are. Call but don't call repeatedly if you don't get a return courtesy call. Sometimes letting it go can be the best decision. You'll be surprised if he does call!

Helloooooooo 😉

I am not a Cappy but I do have a couple of good Cappie guy friemds. They are attached to their cell phones and they love when people call them. I think it makes them feel wanted and needed. They usually will answer their phone too which is very nice and if they cannot (due to work) they will call you back. This is my experience with the wonderful Cappy men. I have not been in any serious relationship with one only great lasting friendships 🙂

If you feel like calling, do it. What do you have to lose?

Have fun, creating your day by the choices you make.

Thx for the enlightening feed-backs🙂
It is true that cappies are atached to their cell phones and it is also true that I'd like to talk to him,but I want him to be the one that calls-to show me that he thought about me and that he considers me important enough to take some minutes of his time and give them to me.
Maybe Cappies have the same problem as Leos: they like to be treated as royalty and be persued , instead of them being the persuers.
I decided that no more freely giving;I want to receive too.And that includes phone calls!🙂
In this case although,there are times when he is not answering call or SMS,living you puzzeled about wether he has died or he is just showing that you are not worth to be talked to!!!
And longtallsally01,I think you are right about men being afraid of rejection too! But I am more afraid of losing my ego!
Freebird,you are so right : create your day by the choises you make!
Anyway,keep them coming🙂 the opinions,I meen
Ciao!

Well hell, I am a cap and sometimes, not often mind you ,I might feel a little rejected. Its not just us capricorn's its all men. when we get rejected We are like a turtle without a shell, we don't know if we are homeless or naked. We need TLC just like you. Of course there are some of us who are asses and just like to dis birds.

I like to get calls ONLY when I am in the mood to respond back. So my mobile is usually either switched off ( no, not to save on batteries, LOL ) or transferred to the pager.
But persistence from the caller, may help revitalize us, as we realize that the person attempting to call us, REALLY wants to talk to us. Even making up can be made then and there.
We also need to feel free to make our own decisions, and not be pressured; well maybe a little bit, but it may go a long way.

Kiwigrl