to hunt or not to hunt...

I think people will either play the game of "the hunt", or not and will prefer to be entirely direct.

Anyone agree with me here? I know for myself that I've played the game before. You all know what I'm talking about... men more often than women will play the aggresive, cunning predator, and women more often than men the elusive, coy, provocative prey. We sometimes change ourselves to lure the game on... ya, men and women. ...not answering the phone when he/she calls just so you dont look so available and such.

No doubt, it's fun to play with and for the right person. But if I had to say, my preference is with the straight forward approach. Hunting.. tactics are endless and the rules are nearly obsolete. Sounds awefully enticing just thinking about it. The most far reaching ones, though, i feel invite tactics and actions of jealousy. Nothing would make me turn my back faster cuz it communicates the wrong thing and how stupid would that be to intentionally give off the wrong idea in front of someone you supposedly like.

It's a tough call. While the game is fun and challenging, I find confidence utterly sexy. Not that flirting is less than. I appreciate and respect a guy that can just say... "i really like you, mind if i called you sometime." And if I were a guy, I'd imagine a girl who could pull off a genuine, "you're a sweetheart. we should hang out more" would make my knees go weak. Granted it takes more to win me over, personally. The last time I played the game, I was actually the predator(its a trick being both femininely appealing AND aggressive) and my prey certainly didnt make life easy for me, but eventually he couldn't help but give in. Resistence is futile. lol. Ahh, fond memories.

So, come come... Who's a player and who is not—?

CreepyPants...you're a trip. That name just kills me. I hate the game and the players. If I play at anything, it's being the "coquette" which is just my true nature- cold, one minute, and hot, the next. I pursue no man... But if they pursue me, I cannot help but return their calls if I am interested. I don't risk running them off by making them call repeatedly. I may inadvertently play games by not being willing to reveal my feelings, particularly early on. I'll ask questions and take it all in, but I'm not one to yackety-yack and chat on endlessly about myself. I suppose I have that mysterious allure. And I seem innocent and sometimes cold and aloof, but behind the outward appearances, I surprise men by being very passionate and sultry. So... all in all, I don't try to play games; it's just my reserved personality that causes me to be rather coquettish.

what can i say... it's all in the pants. you're a cap girl, you know what I'm talkin' 'bout.