Two Caps in my life!!

Hi, I'm a Leo woman and I've been having a relationship to a Cap man for several years. We were very happy together, but I have felt really bored lately, he doesnt talk that much at home and I always try to start a conversation with him and he never keeps going. I've spoken to him many times and tried to explain the situation, how i was feeling and stuff, but he never responds, just be quite....

Well, two months ago I met someone else (another Cap man), I didnt have anything with him, but I just cant keep him out of my mind!! We just see each other in his workplace, and I think he feels the same way i do... He had a girlfriend no long ago, but he told me that they broke up and It seems that he wants to have something with me because he has shown all the signs.... I'm sooo confused because I dont know what to do!!! I really wanted to live a new love, but at the same time I'm not sure if this is worth it because my relationship is steady... I'm just afraid to be by myself...

If someone could please give me some advice would be awesome!!

Actually i'm very faithful, I've never cheated on him and I wasn't looking for anyone else, it just happened!! I really was about to end my relationship so thats way I think I opened a gap in my heart at that time! As i said before, i tried many times to explain the situation but he doesn't listen to me!! He heard just what he wants.... Is it typical of Cap man? And The fact of him doesn't talk so much at home, are Cap man like that? Anyway the other guy is a Cap too, so I don't know if it would be the same with him.... 😢

You're not being emotioinally faithful. Take care of business at home first...lest the karma police come looking for you.

Amber, Caps are not overly chatty, we live in our heads. We're thinkers, not talkers for the most part. There is something to be said for a relationship in which the partners are comfortable in silence. Maybe that's just me though, I can enjoy someone's company without the need for any type of discussion. It can be a little nerve wracking being around someone who has to talk all the time.

On another note, IMO, you should not leave someone just to be with someone else nor should you leave someone and jump right into another relationship even if you feel the relationship had ended long before you went your separate ways.

As for your relationship being steady as you put it, I equate that to security. Would you prefer to find new love that may fail, or sustain a steady relationship that provides security and a good chance for longevity?

As a suggestion, find other ways to fulfill your personal needs for 'interaction'. You don't need to talk to have a good time together! Also, take time out for yourself, go out with friends, enjoy your own life outside of your life with him.