Uncomfortable talking about love?

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I just ran across this old interview from Sade, and as cool as she was thru-out even the interviewer noticed she was uncomfortable with all things related to love. By the way....Sade is such a Cappy lol....I related to her on many things. Anyway, I feel that when the interviewer saw that as her uncomfortable spot she really tried to pry...why do people do this to us?!?!?!

Its a nice interview though...starts off slow, but picks up. I just wonder why she closed herself off to discussing that area of her life? Weird thing is, my Cappy granny doesn't talk about love or her past relationships either, and IRL I get extremely umcomfortable with parts of it too. what is that about?

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@xxo, yes love is a private thing. She should have said "its my private life" instead of brushing it off. Unfortunately that makes people want to pry further. I think in Sades case its the disappointment tied to love in her life that makes it uncomfortable because underneath it all emotion is tied aswell, and we surely dont want to go there do we.

@Balmy, I think its pretty much the same. An emotion theres no control over. Aww@the Aquas. I didnt know it could be uncomfortable for you all too. It took a bunch of years, but I know what my Aqua mom Cap ex loved about her was that he could topen up and talk about any and everything. My mom tries to connect the dots to it all, so she probably couldnt feel what he felt but she'd surely try to make sense of why he felt that way....she'd trace his emotion its source. He'd comfort her when she opened up about her past.There is a deep loyalty that grows with time between the two.