what an egohead!!!! urghhh, I'm pissed and sad at the same time. He said some things that made me feel sooooo worthless. Like what the hell? Sad b/c some of the things are true but at the same time, like wtf?! That mars in leo of his was getting to me and his venus in gemini, urghhhh.....please tell me more about the combination of the two.....
Ascendant in Aquarius: Venus in Aquarius or air turns you on sexually and socially, as does Venus in Leo or fire. Venus in Scorpio or water can be good for your career or finances, whereas Venus in Taurus or Earth will tend to your domestic or private needs. Mars in Aquarius or air encourages you to be yourself. Mars in Leo or fire makes an ideal partner. Mars in Scorpio or water dominates or assists you. Watch out for treachery from Mars in Taurus or earth.
Posted by sagigoat i think it all depends on the compatiblity of your charts.
don't know anything about venus in gem. my libra ex has mars in leo but he has venus in virgo acutally i realized he is infact a libra/virgo cusp haha too many virgos in my life thougtht i managed to escape them lol. anywayz mars in leo would have lots of energy action takers high achievers. i greatly admire what he is capable of. his drive and ability to achieve/accomplish are extraodinary. i have not met another who i was close to who i admire more. however mars in leo can be very jealous at the worst time possible when it does not make sense. i was embarrased in public for no reason he showed hostility towards almost all males i know and you know how capricorns hate public embarrassments. i never flirt in person but it's exhausting for me to need to give him undivided attention all the time when we are out. he was and still is very protective of me tho like a family. very loyal. one other thing i couldn't deal with it well was i recall sometimes in the middle of a nice conversation he would suddently feel threaten by something i said and became argumentative and unpleasant to ruin the whole conversation. i was upset about that sometimes but the interesting thing was he told me i was the most easy going sweet girl coz he had never been on vacations with any girl without having fights. err. i don't fight when on vacations lol. i feel guilty already talking not so good things about him. just tho you want to know how mars in leo can be like. he is like my best friend now a very cool most capable guy. i may hide the post after a while.
awwww, thanks sagigoat...well, I don't have issues with jealousy, I appreciate it. But right now, he's in his "I'm goign to criticize you till there's no tomorrow" and you know how us cappies are when it comes to taking a shit load of criticism. It's fine if he does it once in a while, but geez, put those damn brakes after a while!
Posted by Ike I have a mars in leo . It makes you very passionate and gives you a strong sense of pride and diginity a lot of presidents and CEO,s have this placement . We also tend to feel hurt quickly and if our pride is hurt , then you will not leave until yours is almost obliderated . Strangely sensitive , more than you think .
Yeh, I noticed that actually. Way too much pride. So, it's OK for them to hurt your pride but not viceversa? Seriously....
Posted by sagigoat i think it all depends on the compatiblity of your charts.
don't know anything about venus in gem. my libra ex has mars in leo but he has venus in virgo acutally i realized he is infact a libra/virgo cusp haha too many virgos in my life thougtht i managed to escape them lol. anywayz mars in leo would have lots of energy action takers high achievers. i greatly admire what he is capable of. his drive and ability to achieve/accomplish are extraodinary. i have not met another who i was close to who i admire more. however mars in leo can be very jealous at the worst time possible when it does not make sense. i was embarrased in public for no reason he showed hostility towards almost all males i know and you know how capricorns hate public embarrassments. i never flirt in person but it's exhausting for me to need to give him undivided attention all the time when we are out. he was and still is very protective of me tho like a family. very loyal. one other thing i couldn't deal with it well was i recall sometimes in the middle of a nice conversation he would suddently feel threaten by something i said and became argumentative and unpleasant to ruin the whole conversation. i was upset about that sometimes but the interesting thing was he told me i was the most easy going sweet girl coz he had never been on vacations with any girl without having fights. err. i don't fight when on vacations lol. i feel guilty already talking not so good things about him. just tho you want to know how mars in leo can be like. he is like my best friend now a very cool most capable guy. i may hide the post after a while.
awwww, thanks sagigoat...well, I don't have issues with jealousy, I appreciate it. But right now, he's in his "I'm goign to criticize you till there's no tomorrow" and you know how us cappies are when it comes to taking a shit load of criticism. It's fine if he does it once in a while, but geez, put those damn brakes after a while!
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Sarsa!!! What was the situation actually? Stop being vague and just tell it girlie lol
You know, my ex was a mars in leo and a venus in leo too! Yes, they can say things that would cut you to pieces. Its a well defined good and bad mix with them.
And the whole criticize you until its no trouble thing, well, I think that may have something to do with his venus in gemini.
Remember, gemini venus along with gemini moons feels as if they are owed information about you. haha, its so odd really. And well they get they information about you, they try their best to pick it apart. Here's the kicker, when you refuse to tell them anything, they criticize you even more ... until you start talking that is :/
So that aspect has nothing to do with the leo mars but everything to do with the gemini venus.
Now the jealous and possesive stuff, yeah thats totally leo mars lol
Posted by sagigoat yeah i agree very much that the criticizing thing has nothing to do with leo mars. my ex didn't do much cirticizing of me at all even tho he is a perfectionist (libra+virgo). leo is loyal won't cirticize their loved ones much as long as all attentions are on them lol. i criticized him more lol :/.
OMG!!!! So you're ex was a Virgo-Libra cusper Sagi— For crying out loud, my ex was a Virgo-Libra Cusper!
When I call her on it, she has admitted several times that its probably just her wanting me to be "perfect" (with a bit of a "guilty" facial expression), cause she's fully aware of how demanding she is. But I know it is more of a reflection of the high standards she has for herself and how big her fear of underperforming is. For instance it has happened several times that she's studying hard for an exam at my place, and many times I assist her (because I happen to dominate her field of study), so I can see how hard she has been studying..yet she is ALWAYS, no matter how hard she studies, ALWAYS fearful that she'll screw up her exam, and she never believes me when I tell her "youre gonna do alright, you'll see, no need to worry", but it always happens that she gets a MUCH better result than her expectations. She's too hard on herself, but most of all shes more worried about getting a lower mark than her close classmates (than passing the exam or not) :S, Ive tried to show her that its more important to be satisfied about a job well-done (for yourself) than comparing yourself to others the whole time.
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Okay, I can see the dynamics between you two. Being that I'm a sagi-capricorn cusp too. Yeah 😛 All that you just said about her above is tottttalllly me lol!!
Posted by cappysweetie And the whole criticize you until its no trouble thing, well, I think that may have something to do with his venus in gemini.
Remember, gemini venus along with gemini moons feels as if they are owed information about you. haha, its so odd really. And well they get they information about you, they try their best to pick it apart. Here's the kicker, when you refuse to tell them anything, they criticize you even more ... until you start talking that is :/
So that aspect has nothing to do with the leo mars but everything to do with the gemini venus.
Now the jealous and possesive stuff, yeah thats totally leo mars lol
Yup, I think it's his venus in gemini too. Hell, I tell him one little thing and he has to rip it apart and use it against me😕 It's liek he knows it all, wtf? And yeh, when I don't tell him, he'll use that against me too. Like seriously, wtf?! I actually don't mind the mars in leo so much.....but the Gemini Venus is really getting to me....tell me more about these folks please...
Damn Evan! Stop swearing so much!😛 And Ike, no, I'm not a doormat. I'm anything but a doormat. It's just that some things he said stung a little more than normal b/c they were kinda true. And no, I'm not dissecting his natal chart here even though part of me is very much tempted to (I won't lie, once you learn about astrology and see it for real in people's personalities, you automatically start to decipher). I guess I was just pissed and frustrated with some of the things he'd said earlier, hence the nonsensical venting. My being vague didn't help either and I had to be vague b/c it's all a little too personal to share on here.
Thanks for all your comments even though the thread digressed into a totally new direction😛
And hey sagigoat, sweetie, and sb....😄
much love, Sarasa🙂
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