You Say Cap Men don't like to waste their time but

I've read alot of these posts on here about Cappy men and I've read a few times that Cap men do not like wasting their time.

So my question is this, if that is true, then that means they hardly play games? and are honest usually?
Plus, how could you even tell if a Cappy man is serious about you?

Posted by shaiessence
I've read alot of these posts on here about Cappy men and I've read a few times that Cap men do not like wasting their time.

So my question is this, if that is true, then that means they hardly play games? and are honest usually?
Plus, how could you even tell if a Cappy man is serious about you?

Speaking for myself I don't like playing games and I am honest. I think when I am serious about some one I let them know. When I am on the fence I take it slow and see where it goes. Now I am rhyming.

Great rhyming though.

I am asking because I am a little confused about my cappy love interest . .
I am not sure if he is acting the way he is because he actually likes me
or because he may be lonely?

Do Caps usually lead women on?

Thanks. 🙂

It isn't in our character to lead women on. I can't speak for all the guys out there because I think it is really a guy thing not a Cap thing. It also depends how long you have been seeing him. I would be worried if he flirts with other girls infront of you. If you want to know for sure. Have the talk with him. Asking him what he wants from the relationship. I think he will be honest about it.

well i have already talked to him about the relationship thing, where would we like to see us go. He says he wants to see a relationship between us and has said he feels that he would be happy if we were together (exclusive).
I'll say we've known each-other for about a year and 2 months, minus the 6 months of no communication. We've never been "totally" intimate but intimate enough.
One thing I do notice about him, and we are dating, not exclusive, is that he won't look at other women in my presence. He may notice a chick who he thinks is attractive, but it's no long drawn out stare. It's more of a , Oh she's a cute girl, then back to focus

I dated a Scorp man not too long ago and he had a wandering eye. I didn't like at all and felt inadequate when he would look and stare.

Lol . . i have two diff forums about this, i Should've just placed them together

honesty is always the best policy, and sometimes putting yourself out there can clarify situations up. I would talk to him, and from how he reacts or deals with that will determine for you how serious he wants the relationship to be.

Cappy's aren't the most sophisticated when it boils down to the grind on matters....... my experience has been that cappy's can be relatively unfair when they want to be and see things one sided. Expanding their mind or trying to plead a different point of view is moot with cappy's, both male and female. IF they have made up their mind on something, then that is it...... and sometimes it's a damn shame.

Good luck......

Lol, Mars.In.Aries. I was laughing at your last comment. I think he has made up his mind about me, because everything has kinda turned from being good friends to dating to something more serious, it seems. while we were laying down, he tells me I have something to tell you, but I am not ready, And it's better than like.

I guess I am not used to an actual Cappy man opening up to me. I was with a Cappy when I first had my child(her father) and it was like beating a dead horse to get him to say ANYTHING about how he felt when it came to me. Now after 4 years later, he opened to me. Lol, that ship has sailed.

Although, this cappy gentleman has no problem being upfront, honest and direct with me. Which I like.

Good!!! I'm glad to hear that!!! Cappies are great when they allow themselves to be. Carving through all that marble is worth it if you can appreciate the man that you see in front of you. If you give in too much, then cappies will take advantage of that and not work as hard towards the relationship. It needs to be balanced, from the begining, and don't back down when something has occurred.

Your baby daddy is an example..... they torture themselves!!!! Why wait 4 years and share a child with someone before you decide to open up— They are tortured souls, they deny themselves things in their life because of over-caution. I admire that, but I also feel sorry.

then he says it's to see if we are on the same page and to get inside my head
guess so . . .

yea, caps and their mind games..... they will claim that they aren't playing games, but they are!!!!! I'm an aries, so I rule the head. Caps love intelligence......

You know, Ms.Pisces, that was really interesting and kinda eye-opening . . lol maybe that's what he wants, to be 'adored'

Well, call me Intelli-Chick cuz IM one smart cookie!

Maybe thats why i can tell when he is playing a certain 'mind' game . . but not all the time. My intuition is a lil rusty. 🙂