Anger problems in my chart?

Hi guys! I recently grew aware of how bad I was behaving, and I've been told some aspects of my charts do explain some. But I need advices to "cool it down" since to me I'm just a bubbly easy going girl and it's all these other people that keep on telling me Im actually awfully aggressive. But I don't do it on purpose I don't even notice I'm acting this way so I have no ideo how to get better 😢
I've lost a lot of my friends over the last year, people tell me i'm getting even worse I don't know why or how, I really need all the advices I can get!

I'm Sagittarius (sun in 12th house)ascendant sagittarius
Moon in Aries in 3rd house
Mercury in Sagittarius in 12th house
Venus in Scorpio in 10th house
Mars in Leo in 8th house
Jupiter in Sagittarius in 11th house
Saturn in Pisces in 2nd house
Uranus in Capricorn in 1st house
Neptune in Capricorn in 1st house
Pluto in Scorpio in 11th house

Sun Conjunction Mercury Orb 1??00'
Jupiter Conjunction Pluto Orb 1??47'
Sun Conjunction AS Orb 2??07'
Uranus Conjunction Neptune Orb 2??31'
Mercury Conjunction AS Orb 3??08'
Moon Opposite MC Orb 5??03'
Mars Opposite Saturn Orb 6??39'
Mars Square Jupiter Orb 0??39'
Neptune Square MC Orb 0??44'
Mars Square Pluto Orb 1??08'
Uranus Square MC Orb 1??46'
Moon Square Neptune Orb 4??18'
Jupiter Square Saturn Orb 5??59'
Moon Square Uranus Orb 6??50'
Saturn Square Pluto Orb 7??47'
Moon Trine Mercury Orb 1??29'
Venus Trine Saturn Orb 1??58'
Sun Trine Moon Orb 2??29'
Moon Trine AS Orb 4??37'
Mars Trine AS Orb 7??46'
Sun Sextile MC Orb 2??33'
Mercury Sextile MC Orb 3??33'
Uranus Sextile Pluto Orb 4??25'

T-Square from Jup: 0Sag37'17" to Mar: 29Leo57'50" and Sat: 6Pis36'58"
T-Square from Plu: 28Sco49'36" to Mar: 29Leo57'50" and Sat: 6Pis36'58"

Sorry It's long I didn't want lo leave out anything in case it was important 🙂

No I'm not, but I'm a waitress so I'm running around all day, does it count? 🙂

but, RD, you seem like a reasonable person to me all the time. are you nice in cyber world and a monster in real life?

These are so true!
I want people to be close to me and yet when they are, I can't help but push them away.

How do you cope with this aspect?

when I was part of a charity project, one of my clients was an Aqua woman (now in early 30ies) with a bad Uranus aspect. This is what CA says about it:

-13 Square Mercury - Uranus
... She cannot stay in the same place, likes change even if it means a backward step in her professional career.
-49 Opposition Moon - Pluto
She ... fears change. At the same time, she attracts change and disruptions.


She has been moving form country to country with his son for about 15 years.


Since April 2013 she has a home. seems to be settled. and that is good for her son. but do you know what she asked me for last month? If I can find another appartment for her. This one has moisture. I mean she is right. But damn.......

I, too, am an aries moon with sag merc. Since its a trine, its easier to express our emotions out loud ( moon + merc.) and its fire, so volatile. I'm angry and loud, too.

And aggressive, yes. But i love that about myself, and trying to change would hinder deep expression of who I truly am. Maybe you will find people who love that about you 🙂

You're full of fire and we all know what happens when you try putting out a fire with air. I find that sag and Aries people have that I don't give a F attitude as well. you guys have a very strong personality. Therapy will help you control your anger. It worked for me. 🙂

I've found some people attracted to my temper, but there is always a time when it gets too much and they're like "I can't do it anymore!" lol
I'm not trying to really change myself, just control myself better so when it can't bring anything to fight I can just stay calm 🙂

So yeah some sports and a therapy sounds good!