Newbie to the Charts

Hi everyone,

Is there anyone who can help me read my chart, and just charts in general. I really want to get into synastry and composites for the main purpose of understanding my relationship potential with the special guy in my life. I do understand that astrology is not everything but I am always wowed when I see people who can look at someone's chart and just understand it. Rather than just come on here and post my chart and my guy's chart, I'd like if someone could help me read it for future reference.

I've been trying to find sites to help me understand special terms like conjunction, square, trine, dominant planets, descendant, etc. etc. but I'm just not quite understanding it all.

Any help would realllly be appreciated.

Here is my chart and that of my guys:

(Taken from Astrotheme)

Inner Theme ***My Chart***

Positions of Planets
Sun 16??29' Pisces
Moon 12??12' Aries
Mercury 4??12' Aries
Venus 21??08' Aquarius
Mars 13??32' Aquarius
Jupiter 8??48' Virgo
Saturn 13??30' Aquarius
Uranus 17??08' Capricorn
Neptune 18??25' Capricorn
Pluto 22??55' Scorpio
Chiron 3??57' Leo
Ceres 22??31' Capricorn
Pallas 29??58' Sagittarius
Juno 17??19' Pisces
Vesta 19??29' Virgo
Node 7??02' Capricorn
Lilith 14??47' Aquarius
Fortune 29??56' Leo
AS 4??14' Leo
MC 21??54' Aries

Positions of Houses
House 1 4??14' Leo
House 2 25??11' Leo
House 3 20??29' Virgo
House 4 21??54' Libra
House 5 28??06' Scorpio
House 6 3??32' Capricorn
House 7 4??14' Aquarius
House 8 25??11' Aquarius
House 9 20??29' Pisces
House 10 21??54' Aries
House 11 28??06' Taurus
House 12 3??32' Cancer
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His Chart*** Outer Theme
Positions of Planets

Sun 1??20' Aries
Moon 10??05' Scorpio
Mercury 9??54' Aries
Venus 9??31' Pisces
Mars 25??03' Aquarius
Jupiter 7??00' Virgo
Saturn 15??00' Aquarius
Uranus 17??36' Capricorn
Neptune 18??43' Capricorn
Pluto 22??46' Scorpio
Chiron 3??27' Leo
Ceres 27??18' Capricorn
Pallas 3??36' Capricorn
Juno 24??54' Pisces
Vesta 15??40' Virgo
Node 5??27' Capricorn
Lilith 17??16' Aquarius
Fortune 28??01' Aquarius
AS 19??16' Cancer
MC 0??30' Aries

Positions of Houses

House 1 19??16' Cancer
House 2 8??52' Leo
House 3 1??37' Virgo
House 4 0??30' Libra
House 5 6??51' Scorpio
House 6 15??43' Sagittarius
House 7 19??16' Capricorn
House 8 8??52' Aquarius
House 9 1??37' Pisces
House 10 0??30' Aries
House 11 6??51' Taurus
House 12 15??43' Gem

And this is our Interaspects...I have no clue what this means, and please don't get me wrong, I'm not expecting a FULL reading, just any guidance in how to read this chart fully myself so I may analyze what's going on here...if we are a good fit, would be great...I was told there's a possibility of soul mate connection here, and I sure feel it but who knows

Interaspects
Pluto Conjunction Pluto Orb 0??09'
Neptune Conjunction Neptune Orb 0??17'
Uranus Conjunction Uranus Orb 0??28'
Chiron Conjunction AS Orb 0??46'
Uranus Conjunction Neptune Orb 0??48'
Saturn Conjunction Mars Orb 1??27'
Saturn Conjunction Saturn Orb 1??30'
Neptune Conjunction Uranus Orb 1??34'
Jupiter Conjunction Jupiter Orb 1??48'
Mercury Conjunction Moon Orb 2??17'
Sun Conjunction Mercury Orb 2??52'
MC Conjunction Mercury Orb 3??42'
Lilith Conjunction Mars Orb 3??43'
Lilith Conjunction Saturn Orb 3??46'
Lilith Conjunction Venus Orb 3??51'
Mars Conjunction Venus Orb 3??55'
Mercury Conjunction Mercury Orb 5??41'
Saturn Conjunction Venus Orb 6??07'
Venus Conjunction Sun Orb 6??58'
Sun Conjunction Moon Orb 10??51
Venus Opposite Jupiter Orb 0??43'
AS Opposite Neptune Orb 0??50'
AS Opposite Uranus Orb 2??07'
Node Square Mercury Orb 1??15'
Pluto Square Venus Orb 1??38'
Mars Square Pluto Orb 2??08'
AS Square MC Orb 2??37'
Neptune Square MC Orb 3??10'
Moon Square Saturn Orb 3??24'
Moon Square Mars Orb 3??27'
Uranus Square MC Orb 4??17'
Uranus Square Moon Orb 5??24'
Moon Square AS Orb 5??51'
Neptune Square Moon Orb 6??31'
Node Square Moon Orb 6??44'
Chiron Trine Mercury Orb 0??45'
AS Trine Sun Orb 2??46'
Sun Trine AS Orb 2??53'
Node Trine Jupiter Orb 3??20'
AS Trine Pluto Orb 3??39'
MC Trine AS Orb 3??43'
Mercury Trine AS Orb 5??40'
Pluto Trine Sun Orb 6??16'
Moon Trine Sun Orb 6??23'
Uranus Sextile Sun Orb 1??07'
Moon Sextile Jupiter Orb 1??17'
Neptune Sextile Sun Orb 2??13'
Saturn Sextile Moon Orb 2??48'
Mars Sextile MC Orb 3??09'
Mercury Sextile Saturn Orb 3??36'
Mercury Sextile Mars Orb 3??38'
Neptune Sextile Pluto Orb 4??12'
Pluto Sextile Neptune Orb 4??20'
Pluto Inconjunction MC Orb 0??52'
Mercury Inconjunction Jupiter Orb 1??05'
Node Inconjunction AS Orb 1??13'
AS Inconjunction Venus Orb 1??51'
Moon Inconjunction Moon Orb 2??06'
Node SemiSquare Venus Orb 0??40'
Jupiter SesquiQuadrate MC Orb 0??05'
Chiron SesquiQuadrate Sun Orb 1??57'
MC Quintile Neptune Orb 0??04'
Sun Quintile Neptune Orb 0??54'
Node Quintile Sun Orb 0??58'
Moo

Thanks for commenting, I am a bit emotional but its never without logic. I'm very trusting, I rather trust someone first and then look objectively to determine how much of that trust that person gets to keep...I don't like secrets, especially with emotions because I feel a person is hiding when they choose to stifle even that bit of them self. He hasn't shown any abusive tendencies... I had an ex bf who was abusive, not physically but emotionally and verbally so, very controlling and so far this guy hasn't shown any of those red flags or signals. He does seem to like to keep things to himself but he's always been open and honest with me which has made it so easy to trust him, because he's been transparent. One thing that I don't like about him is that he can just close off, and by that I mean I have never known someone who can just complete wipe a person out of his memory. He can just completely recycle a person and so that's the bit that concerns me is that he may just do away with me, I know he's serious about commitment because he's a very religious guy and so by his religion and the morals that provides him he does try to look for strong commitments, but its like a push and pull. I can see him doing either or, committing or just completely treating people like recycled objects because he's very "out of sight, out of mind."

And I'm not quite sure what apsects you mean in terms of soul mate potential here.

Anyone?

Here's our composite chart:

http://s1370.photobucket.com/user/malloryor/media/compositesynastrychartjpg_zps5f11f1a8.gif.html?sort=3&o=2