Hey guys I need some advice. I had met this particular gemini and we had some HOT stuff going on. We are definitely attracted to one another, i.e the sex is great. I still want him, but I am not sure anymore if he goes with another woman, as he uses no protection,and it didn't make any difference to me. How can I let him know that I want him to use protection NOW when I never did before. We are just a couple wanting to have some fun, ..with no regrets ( at least I know this about me ).
Attracted to a gemini
Girl....we all do the no condom thing...to retrace your steps and try to get him to use one...well go buy some and be like...baby I got these condoms for us to use...that's it....just put it on and all is safe
But don't they say gemini guys like to play the field heaps more than other guys? if he's not into the condom thing, do you reckon he's gonna go off and find someone else? well, if he does i suppose he should go get stuffed, condoms are very important these days but what about other issues that he may not be interested in?
What are those 'other issues that he may not be interested it', can you please be more 'specific'?
Oops, 'interested in' not '...it'
I'm not sure what specific things, i guess talking to this recent gemini i've noticed that there are so many things we can sit and chat about, on the phone and on-line chat, but sometimes i find myself continuing the conversation and then he changes the topic. I don't notice when it happens but afterwards i think about why he may have done that. Right now i can't really remember the specific topics...but the general thing about Gem (guys) playing the field usually creeps into mind...! 🙂
While we were together I noticed that we both shared the same vision of 'wanting to have some fun'.
Funny thing is that he gets so passionate, and 'bit too personal, like wanting to kiss me full on the mouth, and expressing LOVE, and 'longing'
. Now, I am not saying that it is me who wants to 'play the field', but ...., well
How do I explain to him that it is FUN I am interested in, with no regrets ( not that I don't like his very intimate, personal gestures )
Is he trying to make me 'fall in love with him', anyone?
And why?
Funny thing is that he gets so passionate, and 'bit too personal, like wanting to kiss me full on the mouth, and expressing LOVE, and 'longing'
. Now, I am not saying that it is me who wants to 'play the field', but ...., well
How do I explain to him that it is FUN I am interested in, with no regrets ( not that I don't like his very intimate, personal gestures )
Is he trying to make me 'fall in love with him', anyone?
And why?
woah..this is sounding familiar.I had my amazing gemini on booty call only. It was great-he loved it but then saw it more as a challenge and while i don't think he's THAT manipulative he liked it when i wanted to spend more time with him & went out of his way to ensure i did. They're great on loads of levels but they love you the more you're 'hard to get' be forthcoming and heavy-they'll like it for a while then soon scarper, they need their freedom too much and who can blame 'em
And always use condoms with them because even the most seemingly trustworthy and sincere one will keep things from you"for your sake" I'm not dissing them -i love one but Don't believe the hype.
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