Completely and Utterly obsessed with him...

My heart is full of emotions...Gemini man has captivated my mind with his give and take attitude. One moment he is calm and distant then the next he is affectionate and energetic. I love him...but I wish he would say it back...we first started talking he complimented me all the time and now he has pulled back saying he just wants to be friends because he is busy with school and work. Blah, blah, blah. I don't mind giving him space but hurts not talking to him everyday. When we are together its like fourth July so sweet and sexy. Yet giving him his space is hard to do. I honestly know he isn't talking to any other women however its like he doesn't trust me when I give him my love....Geminis always gotta be an enigma. Smdh

I'm an Aries Sun/Capricorn Moon

I over analyze but because my nature I tend to do a lot of chasing. However I want him to want me...to chase me..uggh lol

I feel like the reason I attract so many gemini men is because I don't have time for them, seriously these guys like the chase and the harder you make it, they just double down. They must win you. So get busy living your life and he'll hate not knowing what's going on. Like what was posted above, pull back and he'll come running.

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Posted by TaurusinTexas
I feel like the reason I attract so many gemini men is because I don't have time for them, seriously these guys like the chase and the harder you make it, they just double down. They must win you. So get busy living your life and he'll hate not knowing what's going on. Like what was posted above, pull back and he'll come running.

Seriously: does this ever work?

Yeah, he´ll "come running" and then get distant again, because that´s the way he wants it.

At least that´s all I heard, and I don´t understand the logic of this tactic at all.

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Yes, he'll get distant again if you let him back, like everything is fine. But it wasn't fine or you wouldn't have been hurt to begin with. When he comes back and in my experience all men come back, (unless is was something awful but we're just talking distant behavior) you have to be honest about what you want and expect and if he can't do that, then walk on and if he says he can, you let him prove it to you.

Thanks everyone. There is truly some other world magnetism with us however alls fair in love and war so I'm going to put myself on communication probation with him. Although I have to admit I'm not to fond of it. All I have to say is...if he doesn't get it together I'm gone. I don't want to play games. It seems he likes the high school romance/drama but....I'm grown lmao I need a more mature love..so we will see. Wish me luck my loves!!

I am going insane with my Gemini male but had history where our love was established once before... This time around I show him I love him and I care. I tell him and one evening when telling where to put his stubborn ass attitude he said I love you too. And I want you. I was consistent. I am Aquarius so my persuit is like a mission to accomplish getting him to trust me with his heart. I make sure he understands that and wham he opens up with his good & negative feelings towards me. Although, most of the time I already knew he love & hated me it was refreshing to hear him say it and that he is trying to work through the negative thoughts before moving forward. It wa a true battle to say the least. But ever since he has taken distance but he ensure he contacts me 10 times a time to talk about whatever is on his mind and find a lame a excuse to get me in his face for about an hour... (Which leads to more excessive talking). So I don't know about the "chase" per say because I did the chasing here (hehehehe) I took the good with the bad and broke some ice. Now I am ready to melt his walls he has built up and "secure" his emotions because he is truly a beautiful person. I say trust your instincts. That is what is used.

Allow me to add I barely ever contact him but when he contacts me, I am available. Any question he has, I am able to answer it. He calls me his personal Google. When he can't find the words to say, I say them. I correct him when he is wrong. We have a great time going through stories of our day. But I allow him to come to me. I only contact him to say I love him or I miss him. And I send words of encouragement... Trust me Gemini men need tha because their minds are all over the place and they just need to know that they have someone to turn too... Like a best friend. These are some things I did but I mean it. So u have to mean it. I keep things light and we do bump heads and he come back like everything is ok... I say I still feeling like tearing your head off but what is it you need. He finds it funny that he can do that. It's natural for me but I hope this helps. They know they are driving u crazy but they don't understand how much until u tell them. Don't fuss or yell just communicate how, what, and why u feel this way. If he care he will listen and say or do something to address your emotions (although they suck at it. The attempt makes me chuckle). I thought I should add these details. Make sure you are preoccupied and u have interesting things going on in your life he will come back for more.

Posted by ToxicSituation
My heart is full of emotions...Gemini man has captivated my mind with his give and take attitude. One moment he is calm and distant then the next he is affectionate and energetic. I love him...but I wish he would say it back...we first started talking he complimented me all the time and now he has pulled back saying he just wants to be friends because he is busy with school and work. Blah, blah, blah. I don't mind giving him space but hurts not talking to him everyday. When we are together its like fourth July so sweet and sexy. Yet giving him his space is hard to do. I honestly know he isn't talking to any other women however its like he doesn't trust me when I give him my love....Geminis always gotta be an enigma. Smdh

that's the air signs. play him like he plays you but project a lot of strength and mystery. don't let him know what you're thinking keep him excited.

be unpredictable and ditch him when he least expects it and he'll come running to you.