Gemini men and the ignoring game they play

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by MissCenterFold on Thursday, October 6, 2016 and has 10 replies.

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@MissCenterFold
10 Years

Why?

One day YAKITY YAK YAK, and another day... SILENCE! Like he'll stare at me, and say hi to me, but other than that he'll just act like I'm not there at all.

What am I supposed to do? Should I try to talk to him anyway when he does this?

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@Aquistorm
10 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Im an Aqua and most of the time I am quiet, but sometimes I can be talkative. I find it annoying when people jump to conclusions and think I am being cold or ignoring them when I am quiet.

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@MissCenterFold
10 Years

Posted by Aquistorm
Im an Aqua and most of the time I am quiet, but sometimes I can be talkative. I find it annoying when people jump to conclusions and think I am being cold or ignoring them when I am quiet.

But he conversed with everyone else but meeeeeeeee!

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@Aquistorm
10 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by MissCenterFold

Posted by Aquistorm
Im an Aqua and most of the time I am quiet, but sometimes I can be talkative. I find it annoying when people jump to conclusions and think I am being cold or ignoring them when I am quiet.

But he conversed with everyone else but meeeeeeeee!

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Can you elaborate more about this situation? It seems to me that you are leaving things out such as this.

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@misslissa
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by MissCenterFold
Why?

One day YAKITY YAK YAK, and another day... SILENCE! Like he'll stare at me, and say hi to me, but other than that he'll just act like I'm not there at all.

What am I supposed to do? Should I try to talk to him anyway when he does this?

Maybe, he just has nothing to say... So, don't "do" anything. I love comfortable silences!!

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@aNEWday
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by MissCenterFold
Why?

One day YAKITY YAK YAK, and another day... SILENCE! Like he'll stare at me, and say hi to me, but other than that he'll just act like I'm not there at all.

What am I supposed to do? Should I try to talk to him anyway when he does this?

Ignore him. He'll come to you eventually they hate that

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@questionoflustquestionoftrust
12 Years

Posted by MissCenterFold
Why?

One day YAKITY YAK YAK, and another day... SILENCE! Like he'll stare at me, and say hi to me, but other than that he'll just act like I'm not there at all.

What am I supposed to do? Should I try to talk to him anyway when he does this?

Ok. Gems socialize/associate themselves with different people.

Coworkers, family, friends, dates, spiritual group, book club, etc.

We like to keep them separated,

because there is a time and place for everything.

If you call and text him everyday he will get bored of you.

Trust.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

You sound like a 5-year old.

Adults are self sufficient ... they are actually capable of managing through life without having to have constant attention from others.

don't worry .... when you get out of elementary school, things will be different for you, and you should be able to manage through life by nurturing and approving of yourself.