Depressed, meh. Something going around?

I've been in a funk lately. It's off and on, I don't mope and stay inside all the time etc. I work out, have a 4.0 average in school this semester, and have a very active social life and go out with friends all the time. I am very lucky to have such great people in my life!

However, there is something missing. I hate dating. I want to eventually find someone, but the process sucks. Plus it's been 1 fail after the other, either on my end or theirs. I don't NEED a relationship, I guess I just like the idea of someone being there. Especially with the holidays mood etc. it's just been so hard to find someone I really click with, and I'm very picky.

Just in general too. I love hanging with my friends, but even surrounded by loved ones I feel out of place, an emptiness and a void. Not fully content. What is the deal, is anyone else feeling "funky" lately?!

Yeah? I'm allowed to still be here. You are, right?

I've just been busy. I don't live on here.

Must be in the air. =/

I've been fighting my funk for a few weeks now. I FINALLY feel like I am coming out of it though. Yay!

Usually I am upbeat, positive, needing to be around people. The past few weeks I've been irritable, had a negative outlook, and just wanted to be left the hell alone. Sooo NOT the norm for me.

Absolutely understand the 'pickiness' of dating. I'm the type, I'm either attracted to you or I'm not...it ain't gonna change. I know within minutes of meeting a guy if I am attracted or not. Gets annoying after a while.

I don't NEED a guy, but I like having one in my life. I hate being alone, but I don't like being smothered. Why is it so damn hard to find a really great guy, who's hot, kind, respectful, likes to have fun, and knows how to leave me alone--but not TOO alone?

I really don't think it's too much to want.

I'm also supposed to start my period this week.

Idk, I've been irritable too. Especially with people I'm not close to, little patience for men. I can be really clingy (dat cancer venus/mars and libra moon ugh), and I love it when guys give me attention that I like. But if it's too much, even if it's how I usually do, I'm just ugh.

Idk. Lately the trend has been (and yes, online is the way I've been going) is I have things in common, physical attraction but not romantic chemistry. Ugh.

The 2 guys I could have totally seen myself serious with and they liked me just as much, moved out of the state. So there goes that.

Posted by Agentgem24
I've been in a funk lately. It's off and on, I don't mope and stay inside all the time etc. I work out, have a 4.0 average in school this semester, and have a very active social life and go out with friends all the time. I am very lucky to have such great people in my life!

However, there is something missing. I hate dating. I want to eventually find someone, but the process sucks. Plus it's been 1 fail after the other, either on my end or theirs. I don't NEED a relationship, I guess I just like the idea of someone being there. Especially with the holidays mood etc. it's just been so hard to find someone I really click with, and I'm very picky.

Just in general too. I love hanging with my friends, but even surrounded by loved ones I feel out of place, an emptiness and a void. Not fully content. What is the deal, is anyone else feeling "funky" lately?!

Oh wait until your thirties. 😉 And the seeds of desparation set in. This is nothing. Chalk it up to becoming an adult. The grind starts much later.

Oh and if you have kids and are single... Boy then it really is a challenge.

So quick moping and go do something and chill. The real disapointment hasn't begun yet (if you let it.)

Oh shoosh miamivirgo!!

I AM in my thirties, single, with THREE kids, and while it IS challenging, Lord knows I am not a bit disappointed NOR am I desperate.

Quite the opposite, I refuse to settle for any less than I deserve. Wish I'd been this damn secure in my 20's, but better late than never.

So no worries Agentgem, there is no disappointment...life is what you make it.

And if you wanna be in a funk for a bit, be in a damn funk. Just don't stay there 😉

Posted by miamivirgo

Posted by Agentgem24
I've been in a funk lately. It's off and on, I don't mope and stay inside all the time etc. I work out, have a 4.0 average in school this semester, and have a very active social life and go out with friends all the time. I am very lucky to have such great people in my life!

However, there is something missing. I hate dating. I want to eventually find someone, but the process sucks. Plus it's been 1 fail after the other, either on my end or theirs. I don't NEED a relationship, I guess I just like the idea of someone being there. Especially with the holidays mood etc. it's just been so hard to find someone I really click with, and I'm very picky.

Just in general too. I love hanging with my friends, but even surrounded by loved ones I feel out of place, an emptiness and a void. Not fully content. What is the deal, is anyone else feeling "funky" lately?!

Oh wait until your thirties. 😉 And the seeds of desparation set in. This is nothing. Chalk it up to becoming an adult. The grind starts much later.

Oh and if you have kids and are single... Boy then it really is a challenge.

So quick moping and go do something and chill. The real disapointment hasn't begun yet (if you let it.)

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OMG

F'ing Virgos.

I kid, but WHY you DO that? o.O

Honestly, I think most of the time, it's self-fulfilling prophecy.

😛

I suppose I could always get a cat? Lol

One of my Aquarius best friends is helping me clean my closet and then Olive Garden date Sunday. So there's that!

And the last dude got called into work so we missed the movie, but he ordered the tickets so now I have free movie passes, a full tank of gas, and was able to go to a favorite eatery? Not a full waste lol

Posted by Agentgem24
I suppose I could always get a cat? Lol

One of my Aquarius best friends is helping me clean my closet and then Olive Garden date Sunday. So there's that!

And the last dude got called into work so we missed the movie, but he ordered the tickets so now I have free movie passes, a full tank of gas, and was able to go to a favorite eatery? Not a full waste lol

If I lived in TX I would totally hang out w you gemi!

I would love to hang out with you! 🙂