Gem Girls: Cancer or Aquarius Men

For us Gem girls...from past experience, please tell me...which are better for us? Cancer or Aqua guys?

Aqua hands down

why o why?

I'm sorry girls. Maybe I'm missing something painfully obvious to everyone else.

Never dated an aqua but dated three cancers in a row ! There's a kit good about them but the last one really broke my heart you just have to be careful what you allow men to do ! There are good cancers out there just got to break past that shell

Cancer is an emotional sign which might be good for a logical air sign. However, the constant whining would bug us to fucking death so that's definitely a good reason Aqua is better for Gem. All the Cancers I know are whiners but I do like that they can be just as unedited as I am--love that bluntness. However, they can dish it but cannot take it. Gems and Aquas won't give a fuck. We'll think about it for half a sec and then move on. Moody Cancer wants to whine and complain to whomever will listen and wallow in self-pity. Yep Aqua is Definitely better for Gem girls.

Wow it's hard to be a Gem sometimes seeing both sides of an issue...you think I'm for one side and then WHAM! I hit you with the "however". Wish I was boring as some earth signs and just saw one side of an issue...hee hee. Just kidding...sorta...

Aquas

But idk though b/c half of a Gemini is looking for something familiar to him & the way he ticks & goes about things (Aqua personality), while the other half is looking for something completely foreign & out of the norm to keep him stimulated (Cancer being his opposite) which is why either pairing would be interesting

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Posted by GemStar05
Cancer is an emotional sign which might be good for a logical air sign. However, the constant whining would bug us to fucking death so that's definitely a good reason Aqua is better for Gem. All the Cancers I know are whiners but I do like that they can be just as unedited as I am--love that bluntness. However, they can dish it but cannot take it. Gems and Aquas won't give a fuck. We'll think about it for half a sec and then move on. Moody Cancer wants to whine and complain to whomever will listen and wallow in self-pity. Yep Aqua is Definitely better for Gem girls.

Wow it's hard to be a Gem sometimes seeing both sides of an issue...you think I'm for one side and then WHAM! I hit you with the "however". Wish I was boring as some earth signs and just saw one side of an issue...hee hee. Just kidding...sorta...

I personally know of two successful long term marriages between:
Cancer man - Gemini woman
Scorpio man - Gemini woman

I've also met some very "emotional" Gemini women who while they may be intelligent they weren't very "logical"
and some logical non whinging cancer men...
*shrug*

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I really think that not all cancers are the same. Maybe it is the age and life experiences that make a difference on how they can be, I do not know. I am a female cancer, age 25. I am not being bias because I look back on how I used to be the whiney clingy emotional wreck everyone seems to lable us and wish I could slap the hell out of my younger self. After a lot of hard times, I changed. Now, I am very independent and if I feel someone else is too clingy I will pull away, love my space! I deffinetly will not take crap off of any one ESPECIALLY a man. I have a gemini boyfriend of 6 months now and he will tell you Im fast to put my foot down when it is needed, and will not take his crap. I will not whine, beat around the bush or freak out when there is a issue, I wil be direct about it and not afraid to do so, once it is worked out it is never brought up again. I do have a softer side but I am not emotional like I used to be, my boyfriend even thought I was emotionless from the start. I had to explain to him that they are there but it takes so much more than a stupid arguement to make me get upset. I am not clingy because I do not need him, he knows this because I take care of me and everything I have If he were to walk away right now I know that I will still be okay. I make it known that I want to be with him tho so he doesnt feel unwanted lol. Even tho I am all the above I still love deeply, I am caring, and would do anything for him or anyone else I could.