Flighty geminis....

Hey! So I have a flighty gemini male on my hands. When he writes to me, he is super sweet and seems very interested. Then he'll disappear for quite some time, return again and be full of sweetness. Does it ever toy with my mind! I've read a lot about the Gemini and this seems to be a very consistent trait. However, being a much more passionate person myself, I have a tough time figuring out his behaviour. Part of me says he isn't that interested, the other says, he's just being a gem. Should I not worry about it and just accept it as a being a part of him?

I'm a scorp myself. I know, sensitive and emotional!,ahaha We're not suppose to be the best match, but it's all the opposite qualities that he posesses which I find myself attracted to. I just finished say, I wish I could meet someone who takes things light and in stride. And he certainly does!,hehe I really like this guy and I'm trying to be super careful in remaining respectful to him. Thank God I've been reading up more on astrology because if I didn't know this prior to meeting him, I would have thought differently on the situation. The thing is, if there's nothing up and that's just the way he is, I can completely accept that and I like I said, I'll respect his needing space.
He also has difficulty in fully expressing his feelings, I can tell he obviously likes me but he won't completely come out and say it, there's a lot of reading inbetween the lines. Gemini trait?
Thanks, gals!

Yes dis ...i think it is due to our nervous system and us trying to keep a delicate balance lol

Disjules,

My Gemguy just made me a tape of a foreign language song. It must have taken him two hours, and he painstakingly went through every word so I will pronounce it correctly. Even though he has a cold, he sang through it numerous times and played it numerous times.

His gifts...poems, notes, songs, emails...are the best. How many men are like this...so refined, tender, and artistic?

With men, especially Gemguys, actions speak louder than words. I wanted to cry, and inundate him with appreciation, but I know better. Yeah, keep reading between the lines, and love him for who he is...evasive, hard to pin down, but very creative and full of love.

Evaisive, hard to pin down" oh boy! did you ever hit the nail on the head. Do they ever become easier to read? Or do they ever clarify what's going on. I would like to ask him straight out but I'm scared of scaring him away. He's a very, very shy boy. Though he can come off as very confident in other areas, but when it comes to girls he's a wreck. I know he's never had a girlfriend and so this is all new to him. Just not sure how to handle the situation without having him run off on me.

geminifox, I'm confused by your post. But I'm the scorp and he's the gem? Or do you mean he won't be able to keep his hans off me 😉,hahaha

gems are flexible people and can adapt to different environment and people very well... if he's in your love interest.. he'll go miles and miles and miles to please you and to make things work. but you also have to do your part. communication, be creative, compromise, trust, .... wish you well

"So I have a flighty gemini male on my hands. When he writes to me, he is super sweet and seems very interested. Then he'll disappear for quite some time, return again and be full of sweetness. Does it ever toy with my mind! I've read a lot about the Gemini and this seems to be a very consistent trait. However, being a much more passionate person myself, I have a tough time figuring out his behaviour. Part of me says he isn't that interested, the other says, he's just being a gem. Should I not worry about it and just accept it as a being a part of him?"

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