Gem male and Taurean girlie: Can it work—

I'm attracted to this Gemini male w/Arian rising. I've read soo many sites that gave 50/50 on us (just SUN SIGNS): YAY--you 2 can work, or NOOO!!--COMPLETE OPPOSITES. Thing is, I'm his friend and well, I want to be with him, but the other half of me (probably my Cap rising) is sayin "NO--Gems are not for you."

This is MOI:

Sun: 20?11' Taurus Jupiter: 17?09' Pisces
Moon: 14?34' Gemini Saturn: 07?40' Sagittarius
Mercury: 06?50' Taurus Uranus: 21?35' Sagittarius
Venus: 17?27' Gemini Neptune: 05?31' Capricorn
Mars: 18?29' Capricorn Pluto: 05?33' Scorpio

HIM:

Sun: 04?59' Gemini Jupiter: 16?49' Aquarius
Moon: 19?24' Leo Saturn: 24?04' Scorpio
Mercury: 20?57'Taurus Uranus: 16?28' Sagittarius
Venus: 20?35'Aries Neptune: 02?58' Capricorn
Mars: 20?30'Gemini Pluto: 02?29' Scorpio

Think we can work?

Sounds hot. 😛

You think, Taurusgoddess? I'm not so sure......I mean, we dated in the past, and things didn't really work out--but he's affectionate (which is good for me)....and QUIET. He doesn't talk much (which is what I also need: Communication).

Ahh, you'll break him in. He'll talk. One of my best friends (HOT male) is a gem & he used to be super shy, and I have that side too, but over the years we've grown super good communication. Hence why I'm never talk about him on here, there's never any problems. But it's afun rewarding friendship. We've both thrown out the idea of a relationship, but we don't wanna lose our friendship, plus I think we kinda want different things in life, so it's good how it is. 🙂

So what keeps you guys trying this again?

I dunno...I can't really explain it. It's like, in so many ways we could never get along, but at the same time, he's intriguing...he has things that I don't have and vice versa, I suppose.....

But I'm afraid of getting involved b/c I'm looking for a relationship, but him--I dunno what he's looking for, lol. 🙂

Ya that's the drift I get with gem males - don't know what they're looking for. Maybe they too are trying to figure out what they're looking for, he11, SHOW them what they're looking for!

SHOW them? Lol, what exactly? Any tips?

I meant SHOW them, as in, make him get to know YOU. Show him you, a gem male wants to see your personality. (a little skin don't hurt either) JOKING! lol, or am I?

LOL!

Alright I'll write the final answer to the forum's question, seeing as how i seem to have the most knowledge about the area...no offense to the rest lol

Plain and simple. gemini's are mutuable, and are in CONSTANT need of variety, and mental stimulation, that is why, whenever you see a male gemini in a serious relationship iALMOST gaurentee she is either a Libra,Aquarius or gemini as well

Your a taurus, fixed, romantic, and sad to say predictable...Now don't get me wrong INITIALLY everything is going to seem great,but He's going to get tired with youmht emoment her realizes that your stuck in your ways.He has NOO emotional capacity for your needs, and will never understand you or make the effort too.Ultimately laeving you VERRY hurt.i know what I'm talking about becuase female taureans are my specialty hehe AANNDD I have a LAARGE social network, and every failed combination was ALWAYS a taurus and gemini, whether it be your scenario or vica versa, it will NEVEr work !!!!

usually, this is a very BAD combination. HOWEVER, i see that Yonna has her moon AND venus in gemini, and her guy has his mercury in taurus. therefore, there's a high possibility of them making it work.. (i don't know the exact probability, but they aren't too shabby)

but gemini's can be happy in a secure relationship when it is time for them. i know a gemini guy who has a crush on this taurus girl, who also has her moon in gemini. it was pretty intense, too -- he liked her for four years, and that made him go into depression (he was scared to tell her, but he watched her from afar and thought about her every day).

sidenote: i don't get why taurus's admirers always like them from afar! that always happens, that i know of -- the onlookers never reveal themselves, and we tauruses always learn about it when they happen to be sloppy or accidently lose their cover -- but i just never understood that. t'is weird, indeed....

but yeah, it is possible with THIS combination.

look at donald trump and melania knauss, or liam neeson and natasha richardson (same moons)!

(well, donald just wanted someone hot who made life easy for him, but still.. like i said.. it can work when they're ready to settle down, or if the chart is favorable for you guys)

but ok, i've said what i could. don't take my word for it, though.. i'm just telling you that there is a very good chance..

take care, Yonna =D

Wow...Gemini dude had it bad for miss Taurean there! LOL. Thanks so far for the ingsight ppl!! 🙂 Greatly appreciate it. 🙂

whenever you see a male gemini in a serious relationship iALMOST gaurentee she is either a Libra,Aquarius or gemini as well

-that's not true, i never been with another air sign....

- i looked at their charts, and their moons and venus (the emotional and love planets respectively) look compatible....worth a shot.....

-keep in mind though, i think the vixen from venus said that gemini's aren't ready to settle down until they feel it is time for them.....this is very true.

Hmm...well NEWSFLASH: He wants a relationship with me, but just has a hard time "emoting".....so, I think it's worth a shot. Hell, I'll try anything once, including Geminis! LOL