Gem girls

How do gem girls attract a guy? Strategies etc..? How do they act if they really like a guy and how do they try to approach him in order to make him fall in love and keep his interest?

It all depends on the guy, how i act around them if i like him. If he's quiet... i'm more mellow.. if he's loud.. i step it up.. do things to get his attention.. it all depends on him. But honestly.. i don't do much that's special. Me being me is enough. Ususally i don't have to.. men are drawn to me. And i definitely don't have to do anything to 'keep' his interest, when the charm is on.. its just on.. i am ALWAYS the one to lose interest first.

if they like a guy, they're ready to shower him sooo much attention, he'd be overwhelmed... .. (vote plz,, how many of u agree with this gemmies?). they sure wud put in lots of hard work to "get him"... but leave alone keep his interest, they'll make him worry abt them keeping their interest in him for long.. 😄.. (now vote again, gals.. .. )....

Nah.. that's now how it goes for me.. but that's just me 🙂 I never shower attention.. i'm a flirt.. a huge flirt and there is a major difference.

m&m and me were detatched at birth, and lost along the way ..lol bc that is EXACTLY how i am....

emeraldgem.. exactly!!! Ya know it's gotta be the age thing...

m&m: my little chicke-e-dee :-p

sometimes, there are possibilities, that we might even make a conscious effort of ignoring that particular person.. coz he makes us blush.. or stutter.. we cant jus be ourselves around him.. then mayb he's totally out of the picture when we're in the same group as him. (thats the case with me, i wudnt even dare glance his side)..

I don't know what ya mean here i don't think.. I'm ALWAYS myself. It's the whole..t his is me and i'm not changing who i am.. lol so my mentality with men is just that.. I'm myself around them and thats what gets em', maybe it's cuz how carefree i am.. i no longer worry if they will like me or not. i act like they all will...LOL hell why not? They should!! LMAO

how's it goin' e-gem—? seems like it's me and you again 🙂

I have been there before, isn't that crazy.. totally discribes my style . 🙂

My venus is in Gemini 🙂 I got this from that site.. but it's not in your format.. what's the link for yours?

If you have Venus in Gemini in your birth chart, when you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in some of the following ways:

Sweet-talker. You have a way with words. You're very good at flirting and teasing, and can charm or cajole anyone with that "silver tongue". You might also be tempted to be devious and "speak with forked tongue" (as the Native American Indians used to say). You are adept at adapting your style to suit the seduction.

Witty. When interested, you can turn into a quick-witted and clever conversationalist, and you love witty banter and the inviting innuendo. Double meanings and puns are the tricks of your trade when in "flirt mode". You are perceptive of details and notice the response you are getting, so you can swiftly switch style to sustain interest.

Raconteur. You can relate endless stories about people or events or experiences to arouse the interest of one you desire.

Writer. You like to write notes, poems, or long letters to the object of your desire. You may even send love notes by fax, or a romantic email greeting card. Internet chat rooms may also suit your style of flirting with written communcations.

Phone-mate. You love long romantic phone calls, or Internet meeting-by-modem (and may even enjoy "phone sex").

Reader. You love to share or give books, and to discuss books or ideas. You could shamelessly flirt in a book store or library or lecture hall.

http://www.cafeastrology.com/zodiacgemini.html<BR>
check this out.. i have my birthchart... ya know.. i'm stil learning about this stuff. it's kinda cool. I have quite of few in Gemini, so this site is giving me a little info about each of the.. hmm not sure what you call em'..LOL but like my mooon sun rising.. blah blah 🙂

hahahah so i like to get my "freak on" on the phone.. hahahaha they enjoy it :-p LMAO

Here ya go Emerald.. your NOT innoccent either!!!

If you have Venus in Aries in your birth chart, when you go into "flirt mode" you tend to "act to attract" in some of the following ways:

Impetuous. You are easily infatuated, then may lose interest if you get bored. If someone sparks your interest, your "rapid response" can get you involved too quickly when caution could be the better approach.

Direct and bold. You make your interest or intentions known, and are rarely subtle or shy about it. You can risk rejection, and recover from a rebuff. You'll flirt fearlessly and make overtures overtly.

Challenging. You present a challenge, acting coy or cocky or "hard-to-get". And you like a challenging conquest too. You may engage in sports or a game of chance to attract the attention of one you desire.

Competitive. You love to be chased, to elude, then let yourself be caught. Flirting is a game, and you play to win.

Ardent. You seem passionate, and love to be "swept away" with desire. You can be enthusiastic and energetic, and seem "full of fire" to one you desire.

Independent. You seem self-reliant, and you appreciate self-assurance in those you choose to flirt with. A wimp wouldn't win your warmth and affection.

Another trait of Venus in Aries involves your head (since the head is associated with the Sign of Aries). Your way of showing affection may sometimes be to push your head into someone or rub your face or hair against them - similar to the way a dog will push at you with his nose.

"Another trait of Venus in Aries involves your head (since the head is associated with the Sign of Aries). Your way of showing affection may sometimes be to push your head into someone or rub your face or hair against them - similar to the way a dog will push at you with his nose."


SOOOOO I'd rather sex someone on the phone then be caught humping their leg... .LMAO HAHAHAHAHA

hahaha damn.. we have been exposed...

You started it :-p Pointing out my phone fetish... LMAO

Hey E-gem.. you ever date an Aquarius??

Exactly!!!!! I'm grown and i do grown up things.... LMAO nah i don't do that phone sex stuff.. but i wish someone would explain this phone bill!!!! LMAO

I know i read that too.. that they are our most compatable sign.. i haven't dated one.. but i got one in the radar.. so i was just curious.. hope he isn't like yours were 😢

hahahaha they have make-up for those ugly eyes.. and i must say.. i have pretty eyes.. no bags.. no circles... :-p

hahahaha no kidding.. but i did warn him.. so it's not my fault. 🙂

Gem girls are wrongly portrayed as flirts, actually they do not brood much over a male if he ditches her .They may feel initially shattered as gems are sweet innocent kids actually , but they come out of depression sooner or later and start searching her new love of life . they keep on trying till they find their real soulmate .Gems attract men due to their innocence ,intelligence , sense of humour and twinkling in their eyes .Acquiring a gem girl is similar to having a Harem full of queens with different qualities .Is this a bad deal ?

hmmmm i don't think we are wrongfully portrayed as flirts.. cuz i flirt my ass off.. we are wrongfully portrayed as cheaters...

i also kinda disagree with the getting shattered by a male that ditches us. It's a smack to my ego.. LMAO and it rarely ever happens.. but i get over it real fast.. and on to the next.. that doesn't get me depressed. I am not too sure what gets me depressed when i go through that.. but it definitely isnt a man.

Other than that yeah i concur.

And Hi there Lovelorn 🙂