Gemini Gay-dar

This might be odd but I have a question... Do you gems have "gay-dars" like gay radars? How do you know if someone is gay?

Here's the thing. There is this sagittarian guy friend of mine. Initially, we hated each other. Block each other when we fight and all crazy stuff then we makeup. People in the office thinks his gay because he is vain. However, we are very close and I asked him on several occasions if he is gay and he would say he's not.

We go out together. Just the two of us but we never kissed or held hands. He messages me almost everyday. Greets me "good morning gorgeous" and was telling me that I should find a better man than my aqua since I am very young and single and that I am beautiful. He supplies my daily positive energy and makes me laugh often. He told me he likes a girl who is of the same age as I am. But he never showed me a pic. He showed me pics of women he liked in the past but never this one. And he invited me to come with him for a vacay in Korea. Just me and him. I told him to invite other friends as it would be boring to just go about-- you know, just him and me.

I dunno... Is he gay and just making me a front? It's weird. They think he's gay but we've been friends for too long and he never admitted it. But if he's not... Then does that mean he likes me?!

@carlos: he is very vain. He gets a facial every month. Loves to smell good. But he doesn't talk about gay stuff. He started to develop abs which he told me about. He takes pictures of himself because he travels alone all the time and sends me HIS pics. Like his face and asks me what I think about the picture!

He doesn't walk like a gay guy but he aint too masculine either. He's the boy next door type... or could it be gay next door?! It doesn't matter if he's gay. I'm gonna love him as a friend even more. But if he's a straight guy.. That's when I dunno what to do. It could be a good option to date him but then, we are close friends and we talked about every single dirty secret we ad in mind... Oh-oh.

I don't have feelings for him yet. Lol. So you think his vanity is pretty normal? 🙂 you know how women are good at chasing the wrong men and putting the good men in the friend zone? It crossed my mind that I might be doing that to him unconsciously. He is really nice and caring towards me and he is very honest. He tells me I'm beautiful but tells me whatelse I should work on without making me feel bad about myself. 🙂

I definitely have a gay-dar, but im a total f** hag so LOL! I love my main gays!!!! Even though I'm straight myself but I have never been wrong yet on anyone. This includes being bi. Not sure how I know I just do, kind of like this vibe I just pick up on.

He might be bi-sexual which isn't uncommon these days.

I prefer guys getting their hands/feet done or like getting a facial cause I mean damn sometimes they look so rough. And noooo ones caveman feet are going to be touching this lusciousness with that!

Posted by Xin
I definitely have a gay-dar, but im a total f** hag so LOL! I love my main gays!!!! Even though I'm straight myself but I have never been wrong yet on anyone. This includes being bi. Not sure how I know I just do, kind of like this vibe I just pick up on.

I used to know quite fast too until I met a friend and him! My other friend now has a girlfriend so I started doubting my gaydar. Now this sag man! Lol I love gays too! I mean, they have this amazing sense of humor and nothing beats a night out with them! 🙂

Posted by Xin
He might be bi-sexual which isn't uncommon these days.

I prefer guys getting their hands/feet done or like getting a facial cause I mean damn sometimes they look so rough. And noooo ones caveman feet are going to be touching this lusciousness with that!

Lol. Hahaha. I like "dirty" guys. With the facial hair and tanned skin. He is not like those. He looks fresh everytime. Even if we get drunk! Lol. What are signs that he's bi?

I had a good male friend who slipped right under my gaydar! Once he came out, I thought back and realized that he had never given me any of that energy that females feel from heterosexual males (even when there's no intention to date). Do you know what I mean by that? There's a certain energy that passes between heterosexual men and women, and I never felt it from him. I think that's why I always felt so comfortable around him. My husband figured out he was gay, but all of his female friends were surprised.

I had another male friend I thought was gay. He was very concerned with clothing, grooming, cooking, and such, and was definitely in touch with his feminine side. Turns out he was just a metrosexual and completely into females. Maybe your friend is like that?

Metrosexual! Lol. Hmmmmmmmm that is a good one! His vanity kills me sometimes hahaha. He is more vain than me. I get dirty and all. Don't care about my face (though he would always compliment me that I look exceptional specially my face) so does metrosexuals like girls or they like boys? I'm confused! Lol

Here's the dictionary's definition of metrosexual:

A usually urban heterosexual male given to enhancing his personal appearance by fastidious grooming, beauty treatments, and fashionable clothes

Now I know he is metrosexual! Lol. Gawd. I spent days thinking.

@Gem20: I have once had the wrong judgement about a guy being into me. So since then, I had my doubt about my ability to read men. Waaaaaaa. I got busted before! BOOM.

I LIKE BI SEXUAL WOMEN