Gemini girl

i know a Gemini girl from school and
she told me that she is pushed by her girlfriends
to finally get laid.. cuz her friends tell
her that she is missing out on somehting.

Now last week she told me she lost her virginity to
a guy she doens't even know well enough......

That really shocked me !. i told her how i thought about
it. But she things it's no big deal.

Later in class she accuses others from being childish,
even thou, she is still 18 ....

She is a lovely girl, but i think it was bad that she did it this way ..

i even ALMOST asked her if i could help her
with it... is that wrong?

I honestly think to some people, losing your virginity isn't that special of an event in your life. Nothing's wrong with the fact that you wanted to sleep with her.. since you never actually made any move.

I honestly think there are more girls out there that had it happen that way. Peer pressure is so hard for teenagers to deal with. there are far more followers then leaders... I think it's great when as a teenage you can stand fast to what you beleive in. Not all teenagers can. She felt the pressure and gave in. i lost mine young but on my own accord, not by pressure.. just plain ol young and dumb... curiosity killed the cat kinda thing lol "if i only knew then what i know now"..lol

Her story sounds more or less like mine. concur

I was with my boyfriend for a year but i was still young....younger then most. i also think i matured alot faster then my peers. I never pressured people as i thought that was so personal, who am i to put that on anyone.
Just to let you all know.. just cuz you loved someone.. didn't make it that something that was surreal. you have expectations and realizations. I do not regret it but do wish I had i waited till i was older, more life's expereinces, all that blah blah blah story... lol

mmmmm.......ditto. I was waiting to "fall in love"....jeeezuschristmas........finally gave in just to get the damn thing over with.



LMFAO EM GEM you always crack me up..How the hell are ya—

at 18 you are about explode anyway...just need someone to bust that cherry

Dward, that's just not true! LMAO

it still could be how she was raised. Alot of women after leaving the nest or doing their first "bad girl" experience go "buck Wild". some of it is natural some not so natural... some of it is just say NO! lol but for some people, sex is a drug.

I married the man i lost mine too, I was young, dumb and full of C*M! LOL, I also got prego the first time we did it................My son is now 23 and his dad is my biggest regret of teenage stupidity and peer pressure..........

I was with my Aquarius ex for about three months when I got RIDICULOUSLY drunk on New Years (I was 17, he was 19), to the point where I couldn't even talk or hold my head up, and definitely not walk, and we "had sex". I don't remember most of it, I just know I felt icky and the next day I hated him even though I swore I loved him the day before. After that, I never attached good things with sex, and I really loathed oral because I could remember that gross feeling. I tried it again with a friend, not wanting to be emotionally attached beforehand and after it was over, I ended the friendship. Never wanted to talk or see him again, was glad he was in another state. Same thing happened the third time. So now I just don't have sex. Had sex 3 times, 3 different guys, and I hate it all the same. I think it's me lol.

But my Cap, I have a feeling he'll be the one to take the negative parts away. He plays into my need to TALK about stuff and get aroused over a long period of time. He stimulates me mentally, and isn't all wrapped up in just having sex. He realizes that its an EXPERIENCE and not just thirty minutes of my night. I actually look forward to being intimate with him, whereas my virginity was practically stolen because I wasn't aware enough to say my own name, and the following two times were just to see if I'd gotten over the first one.

I'm alive. That's what matters now lol. I'm alive and I'm holding no grudges to the man who tainted my view on physical intimacy. I don't want to be his friends by any means, but I no longer detest him.

GEM - i hope this CAP takes his time and is gentle with you so you can experience healthy intimacy. My bestfriend was molested by her uncle when she was 12 and she was so messed up from it all. its' different, but kinda the same. she was the same way with men. she finally met a guy that cared so much about her, he took the time (and it was a LONG time) to ease her mind. he let her lead when she was ready and she becase a changed person. it's so much more than just about sex. it's the intimacy and connection and being able to have that with someone that was detroyed. and with how you said your first time went, i can see how that would devestate someone. I wish you the best with your cappy 🙂

I lost my virginity at 16 and honestly I could wait to lose it.... I've always been extremely horny. lol
I don't know about other gemini women, but i'm very sexual and to me, I didn't feel pressured by anyone but myself and my libido!