Gemini, I need some serious help here!

Ok. I have an Aries friend (Capricorn moon, Venus in Aquarius) who I always get on her nerves. I form relationships where I want/crave TO KNOW EVERYTHING. Simple accuantance relationships I greatly dislike. I know that might be crazy, but I just want to always know what's always going on. (Saw a post about that eariler too) I know this might just seem like a regular life qestion, but what's your way Gemini to keep out curiousity? My friend and I end up setting boundries of when she'll tell me things or she'll let me know if she wants me to, but the lines after a while end up fading with me and I'm right up against her after a while. Always digging and talking to her and other people about it. I really need a way to set boundries up without them falling. Plus, just a way to keep out of people's business when appropriate. I'm guessing it's my Venus in Cancer, but I'm not sure. Can anyone help?

I dont really understand what your question is....

Something about boundaries? lol sorry. Maybe rephrase and i'll be able to help? Or at least understand a lil better 😉

Well, have do Gemini handle boundries or does anyone have how to stick to people's privacy? Cause for me who's a Gemini, It's extremely frustrating and difficult to stay out of people's business. Any cures, comments, What do you do? I just practially want to know everything that goes on in everyone's life.

Ahh yes now I understand 🙂 lol. Dont worry im exactly the same although these days (or as i've gotten older) I dont really care all that much about what goes on in others' lives apart from the ones who are closest to me such as family and my close group of best friends.

When I was younger (im still young only 21) but when I was in my teenage years I was a big sticky beak lol. Had to know EVERYTHING and ANYTHING about everyone and if I didnt know or someone wouldnt tell me and fill me in, id crack the sh***ts and get peed-off that I wasnt being informed or knew everything. I guess I just wanted to feel as though I knew everything and wasnt missing out on anything. I like to be informed.

Nowadays I just think half of the things about people dont concern me so I just really dont care. When I was younger I lived my life through other people and everything that was going on for them. I got over being like that and now I pretty much only think of myself and so I dont really care what happens with other people apart from the closest to me. I mean don't get me wrong when I talk to people I still ask 101 questions to get all the information I want and need to satisfy my curiosity.

I??ve just learnt to restrain myself from getting too much into someone's business. If they tell me then okay good and I??ll subtly try and squeeze out information otherwise I??ll ask them to tell me and if they don't I wont push for it. As you get older you will learn that most of what people tell you is pointless or that's what I??ve learnt. If it doesn't concern me or isn't a major drama then I just don't care. And when you stop caring about everything everyone else does, and be concerned about YOURSELF then you??ll feel much better.

I also noticed that knowing too much about people stressed me out. Like I posted on another topic recently on the gem forum that im a high strung Gemini and even facebook gets to me. Just reading everyone's posts, comments, etc etc gets to me and stresses me out, I don't only think 105 things a second of my OWN personal thoughts but then I have thoughts of other people who I barely even know circling my mind and it stresses me out so I de activate my account here and there for a week or so, and keep on the downlow until I feel ready to face everyone's issues etc.

Your just super curious, but with time your curiosity will calm down.

I've got venus in cancer and mars also and I dont think those placements have anything to do with it. Its just being a gemini I guess..

Yeah. I hope it passes. I mean sometimes I feel my life can sometimes end up as "boring" so I just get interested in people's life. I'm not sure. I try not to care, but then I feel that I'm never involved with friends and makes me slightly depressed or whatever.

Im with ya on that one too if I start "not caring" too much then it makes me depressed because I feel like im missing out on something or on people's lives, im not involving myself enough etc and I get sad about it.

Right now im super stressed with work and my brother just rung me up telling me his moving on the weekend far away from my place and that just hit a nerve big time and I think im so stressed im going to cry because as soon as he told me my eyes got watery and I got angry and just told him I was busy and couldnt talk at the moment. Lol. Dont know whats going on I feel like SCREEAAAMMMIINNNNGGGGGGGGGGGG.

You know its just about finding a balance. A balance between "wanting to know" and "needing to know". If its not something that will affect you and you NEED to know then honestly dont worry about it. Try and calm your curiosity and the feeling of wanting to know everything. It takes time though.

And I know what you mean about your life feeling boring. If im not out there trying knowing everything I get bored and restless also.

Its hardwork being a gemini and trying to be a GOOD one.

True true. So, true o.o