men with venus in aquarius

hi,
this is my first time on the aqua board. i'm curious about men with venus in aqua, any insight would be greatly appreciated!

do your research about this placement and then go read any and everything that explains commitment phobia....

There are girls on here that got there Aqua to commit but not very many, maybe someone will mentor you if you decide to give it a go

Nothing could be worse than venus in gemini. I don't want commitment necessarily just some sign of emotion. Here's some of what I found:

MOON or VENUS in AQUARIUS

The type of woman who attracts you is intelligent, independent, free-spirited, and a good conversationalist. Should she keep you guessing, or be a bit off-beat or unconventional, she'll fascinate you - but if she's too emotional, you'll pass.
Especially while young, you may be drawn to women who are not really available for a lasting relationship (because of distance or inability to make commitments, or a prior commitment to someone else).To some degree, what you see here also applies if you have the Sun in this Sign. But for a man it is his Moon and Venus Signs which best indicate the types of woman he is most attracted to, or may choose for a mate, especially the Moon.This is usually because you may not yet be ready to make lasting commitments, and value your "space" and freedom more than emotional bonds or truly intimate relationships.When you are ready to commit, you will. Meanwhile, you may be attracted to "free spirits", "space cadets", or even somewhat "strange" women.Idealists or rebels also have a particular appeal to you. Politics may play a part in the attraction. Political foes might make strange bedfellows.

Hi starfish,
thanks for the response. His sun is in cap and mars in virgo....something tells me that's not soft.

I have a love/hate with this placement. I can't settle down to save my life yet I can detach myself from everything.

Aqua placements for a woman is excellent. If I were to have a daughter would definitely want her to be aqua.

😕 someone loves thyself too much to wanna subject the rest of the world to more of that? ^ 😛

omg shoes!!!! we need a dedicated thread.

Well of course. I think everyone should love thy self a tad bit too much....apart of my Self-Awareness campaign🙂

I just like the woman I have grown up to be and I see that in a lot of my aqua female friends, I'm not saying it's not present in the other ladies of the zodiac, but I find them to be more strong minded/individual thinkers, which is good for a young lady in this day and age.

My upbringing had a lot to do with it as well, but that coupled with a good aqua placement I think I could produce a pretty quality female offspring. 😛

I'm still iffy on the male kid; it is already hard for a guy emotionally so I dont know if I want an aqua boy and subject that upon some poor woman.😛

I've been checking "Tarj-ay" online and looks like there gonna do summer sandals nicely. Its good, because last 2 summers have been weak in terms of summer sandals and such.

hahahaha M - I find that Aqua women talk about (and possibly think about) their individuality or strong-mindedness more than any other sign for sure - but talking it and living it? two different POV for me I guess...

lol evan - virgo is very much better for those eh? 😛

You know last year it was all gladiator sandal this and that all over the place... this year, there're some differences... gonna try find some pictures

Well I have venus in cap....I'm still unsure what an earth sign placement anywhere is good for...??

"I find that Aqua women talk about (and possibly think about) their individuality or strong-mindedness more than any other sign for sure - but talking it and living it? two different POV for me I guess..."

True, talking and living are two different things, and I find we live more than my other female counterparts.

true that - living in the head or future more I have definitely noticed more with Aqua females 😛

oh well,

See you at the crossroads, crossroads
So you won't be lonely, And I'm gonna miss everybody
And I'm gonna miss everybody when I'm gone
....

We keeps it real yo!

Stay tru to sign fo shizzle😛

now that's living^

My Pisces bf has both moon and venus in aquarius --> COMMITMENT PHOBIC! He has been in many relationships but he says that the women always give up on him and leave him in the end b/c they feel like they are banging their head on the wall/he won't let them in...

Can you imagine how it is to live your life constantly in fear of letting people in yet constantly hurting others because you are naturally flirty/friendly/detached? Pisces already have trouble ending relationships b/c they are afraid of hurting people and having the guilt on their mind, and now add onto that the Aquarian need to be friends/good terms with everyone...even those you hurt. Needless to say, his exes don't understand his need for freedom and soon grow suspicious/jealous of all his other girl friends...their own insecurities driving them to give up.

Its a fine balance to achieve intimacy with these people, but it is possible. He recently told me out of the blue that I was "perfect for him" that "he and I fit" together...something he says he hasn't told anyone else before. I am actually a major commitment-phobe as well to be fair...and have actually distanced myself quite a bit upon hearing that...go figure. Now I feel like he is being clingy...

Ideally I would like to spend forever with someone holding them at arms length...too close is akin to not respecting my boundary as a person.

It's those that don't give up and or have patience...

I'll admit I'm an odd one...I embrace a kind of live your life the way you want to and on your own terms attitude.

Pisces remarks about how I'm the most interesting/unique person he has ever met. He likes how I can hold my own in witty banter and how I surprise him with the most random impulses...and most of all I have this fearless attitude towards life. It is precisely this fearless attitude he lacks, he has in effect lived his life driven by his intuition of fear.

I am fully aware of the dangers of this relationship, so you should be as well if you want to try it...it is not for faint/weak heart...you have to almost TRUST blindly and know he is with you because he chooses to be... And it doesn't hurt to be dating other guys as well...keep that in mind...sometimes I sound like such a dude.

Lady M is spot on. Must have infinite patience and love without expecting anything in return...naturally most people shun that kind of risk...

And honesty...I run everything by him...never hide anything, always listen, that's how you SLOWLY build trust.

dunno if it's patience as much as understanding that everyone will be different...

I've found people that are patient but not really understanding as in they have an intended outcome mostly that patience will make the other see their way...

--- but they're not mutually exclusive? so understanding must be a counterpart to patience

is that BS? 😕

So true!

I think the ideal is always to love someone perfectly as they are...and to do that well you need to have SELF AWARENESS first and foremost. Know who you are and what your needs are otherwise you are just catering to someone else. (past lesson for me) Thats why everyone on this thread is advocating that you need to make sure you are being who you are normally and not forcing a fit where it would normally not occur.

patience for all the "unexpected" things they like to do just for kicks and giggles... 😛

True. Understanding is necessary.

Alot of the aquas ways dont step from malicious intent. I dont know a single person who doesnt want to be loved by at least one other person. You know?

Pisces always did say, please give me the benefit of the doubt if you are ever confused about my actions. I would NEVER intentionally hurt you. I believe him.

Pisces guys are sweet.