Gemini Needs Advice About Aquarius Boyfriend

Hey Guys!
Im new to this website. I made an account because I have an AQUA Boyfriend for the past 4 years (Im a Gemini) and ofcourse of rollercoaster of a relationship makes me come on this forum all the time to relate to others.. I need your guys help asap!!
Background: Weve been together for 4 1/2 years.. He absolutley loves me (actually shows and expresses it to me) He even told me whilst drunk that we hoped we'd be getting engaged next summer.. etc.....
Problem: 2 nights ago, I kept text messaging him and he couldnt reply.. I got really angry because I thought he was ignoring me, so I said "Alright, NVM.." he knew I was angry......he replied: "OMFG, IM treetrunkING SLEEPING" and then I got the point and never bothered him again...and its been two days and he hasnt even messaged me or spoke to me!! I msgd him yesterday saying what are you doing and he replied: Moving Furniture... i even said Goodnight last night, and he didnt reply...........im going crazy. i always cant help but think the worst.. i hate these moments...whats he thinking??
Please help.......THANKS!!

Nothing drives a Gemini crazier than if you cut off all lines of communication. Find something or someone else to communicate with. Reverse it.

I agree with GM. But sweetie I think you overreacted. If someone did that to me, when everything was going great, I would have replied the same as he did. You just handed him your weak spot on a silver platter. Yes we lose our shit when we communication is cut off...but don't ever let them see you sweat!

Posted by GeminiDahl
...but don't ever let them see you sweat!

NOT EVER!!!

Thanks so much to the both of you for your replies. Unfortunatly, it is too late because I have showed him that its affected me. I think I have a problem keeping quiet because Im very expressive in my emotions... Im also very resilient. I did msg him and ask him if hes busy or doesnt want to talk to me-because I dont think its fair to leave me in the dark.. I also said,Im very understanding and that he can talk to me. i do think hes very busy however, he has exams (truck driving) and a wedding coming up of a cousin and helping his sister move. Its just so hard 😢 I know our lvoe is way too strong for this to tear us apart, we will be ok! but its just waiting.......im so impatient!!!!!!!

move on, they never get better. he's aloofness will have you at wits ends. I spend 10 years with an aqua and he manipulated me and made me tap dance as he pleased just because by nature I want to keep people happy. I can honestly tell you that what you have right now is what you will always have - he is not going to become someone different and also if he loves you so much why is he ackting this way? why is he treating you like a dormant and playing up moodiness? nvm freedom to breath, regardless of sign, if you care for someone, you do not leave them hanging - there has to be some communication going. he's being an ass. and if he wants to propose to you - why next year why not now? I think he's just stringing you on.
it's a cold fish aqua syndrome.

than they move on as fast as we do.

i wouldnt date another aqua again. and also all aquas I have ever known all proved to be cheaters, not just mine, but also friends bf, gf, husbands, wives, you name it. Gems have a wondering eye, but if they are into someone they will not stray, Aquas do.

I would take some space and let him come back to you with some substance, not this spinning wheels for 4.5 years. I guy knows if he wants to be with you for ever or just for now in a matter of few months...

Ah! Aquarian aloofness! That's why I would never be with one. This is when I love my Bullish moon.

try a Sag - it's a wonder ride for me 🙂

true that too!