Gemini - Scorpio: What Are We Really?

Gemini females are quite gifted verbally. You'll know your Gemini when you get paragraphs or even books in your feeds or texts. We love to communicate because we are gifted at it - blame Mercury. But what others fail to mention is that Geminis are natural empaths. I hear a lot about how superficial (to some degree we can be) but how we lack emotional depth. Not true. We can mimic another zodiac sign especially when we are involved with them on a romantic level. We can and sometimes loose ourselves though to that sign but at some point we will have to revert to our true selves but we will always go back and forth because we need to relate to you on some level. We have a gift of making you feel like we are in your head and that we can understand and relate to you because of this ability.

I have dated many signs: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Cancer, Pisces, Gemini, Aquarius, and Virgo but the one that has me hooked is my Scorpio and I can tell you that I have never felt such a deep and passionate sign in my life. Sags come close but are much more light-hearted and airy than the broodiness of the Scorpio. I'd prefer a Sag because they are freedom fighters like Geminis but they are so concerned about being held onto. Scorpios need that, they need to be shown that they are the one and only person in your life because that is what they are giving you. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. As maturity and age set in for Geminis, we become more emotional, caring of others, and actually the perfect combination for the Scorpio. Scorpios love to figure people out and they have a hard time figuring out Geminis because we are all over the place. I'm sure it drives them absolutely bonkers but at the same time they love that they can't and focus on trying. I"ms gets tiring but, as we all know ,Scorpios are obsessed with what they want and this can definitely become an obsession to them. They are focused, determined and driven. They are also extremely, extremely sensitive, jealous (because they care) and possessive and protective of the ones they deem worthy enough to let in their circle. They have a high set of standards for themselves and rightfully so and Geminis hold the same values. We are just more outgoing than Scorpios.

We can be superficial and only skim the surface of people and I can vouch for that. We have no reason to go deep because we either don't care enough about that person or they haven't reached those depths in us. We are an air sign for God's sake. We live up in the clouds where the sun shines and birds chirp and the eagles sore. I can definitely say that since I've been with my Scorpio, I have been able to reach those depths and it is quite scary. The depths Scorpios go are extreme and have no boundaries but the ones that they create for you inside the dungeon they call love. But we have to learn to trust them and a mature Scorpio is not going to steer you wrong especially if they trust and love you. A lot is at stake for both parties. Geminis are such an independent sign and don't do well with being controlled. Scorpios love to control because it makes them feel safe and secure and that is what they need to thrive in a relationship. A Gemini will ONLY allow a man to control her surroundings if she truly loves and cares for him. And even then there are limits she will set to his controlling behavior. And this will make him try harder and harder to achieve these goals. They dive in. There is no limit to his depth and he will possess and protect what he believes is his. He cannot be wrong about his choice in you so he will do what it takes to ensure that he was right. He can be manipulative to get what he wants but it doesn't work so well with air signs because we are quite aware of mind games, since we too are very good at them.

I've learned that if I want to flirt with anyone, I will flirt with my Scorpio and boy does he love it. Practice yoga in front of him, walk around with a butt-hugging t-shirt on with no underwear on and you will have him eating out of the palm of your hand. Tell him your fantasies; he will fulfill them. He wants to feel like he is your king, your protector and provider, give him that chance, you can't go wrong. Please comment and ask me questions if you are in a relationship with a Scorpio or a Gemini and I will do my best to help. And, if you have any insightful information, please feel free to tell me. No one is perfect and we are all different. We just have to learn to accept those differences and focus on the positives but be aware of the negatives. His moon is Leo and mine is Libra. Perfect love match.

Posted by WarAngel1
I wonder what the Scorp man would say about you.

lol



i know.



what's your man's mercury, OP.



i saw your man has the same sun, moon rising as mine. Although my man's rising is close to Leo rising.

where's your man's rising? close to Leo or Libra?

and i saw your man has Virgo Venus.



that's Enoch's territory. 😛



edit -- where is your man's mars??

Ive never seen scorpio male and gemini female relationship before but the other way around

@sbellalbany

You are like my sister in sin!

Yes! I agree with a lot what you said.

I was told Linda Goodman died before she could finish Gem/Scorpio chapter and everyone is devastetad by that fact!

They saying Scorpios got irritated by Gemini talkative character!

Hell no! They embrace it and open up! And enjoying every moment of it!

Of freaking cause - if for some reason those two have no chemistry - you can BE ANY sign irritated by anything in sign you don't feel attracted to!

Gem W/ Scorpio M is a majic energy!

We feed each other with exactly what each of us missing!

Scorpios need distraction from their merry-go-round thoughts 24/7!

We are here for! I will talk my head off so you will forget what you were worried about...for time I talk anyway...

My mature Scorpio always says 'why does it feel so good talking to you?'

I say because you know I am 'the truth' and he laughing and saying 'sure'...

He comes to me to tell him how it is!

He knows I will not sweeten the pill!

But if I am feeling I have to - intuitively - I will! Then he will call again to thank me for not being harsh because he just needed a pep-talk!

We are the best combo - of both parties have some brains!

But it is tru for any signs couples.

Nobody can change stupid!

Great thread! Thanks! ?

Posted by yung_wisegem
Ive never seen scorpio male and gemini female relationship before but the other way around

Look again! It's not a norm but if both are true and with feelings - there is no other couple like us!

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by yung_wisegem
Ive never seen scorpio male and gemini female relationship before but the other way around

Look again! It's not a norm but if both are true and with feelings - there is no other couple like us!

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Trust me i know. Its the best pairing imo

Posted by yung_wisegem

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by yung_wisegem
Ive never seen scorpio male and gemini female relationship before but the other way around

Look again! It's not a norm but if both are true and with feelings - there is no other couple like us!

Trust me i know. Its the best pairing imo

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Brother! ?

Tell more. I need some answers...

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Posted by blackphase
Why does everyone tell me to stay away from them then? 😢

I always thought with my Scorp placements it'd be a good fit..

Because Scorp men are like a death sentence! You've got to count your steps and be smart walking the path!

There is tons of hurt. And 10 tons of pleasure! You have to know if you want THat! Are you strong enough? Then go for it!

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by blackphase
Why does everyone tell me to stay away from them then? 😢

I always thought with my Scorp placements it'd be a good fit..

Because Scorp men are like a death sentence! You've got to count your steps and be smart walking the path!

There is tons of hurt. And 10 tons of pleasure! You have to know if you want THat! Are you strong enough? Then go for it!

That doesn't sound that great really..

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I know. So stay away all you can!

My advice from the bottom of my heart!

I've posted it a lot! Because it's the naked truth! Just read and remember...in case you get one of the 'horror'

http://ashlleylove.tumblr.com/post/333536846/silly-scorpio-bastard

Scorpios-Gods gift to God!

This topic is interesting indeed, lovely & full of details . I met a scorpion while ago....he matched my personality & intellect a lot. . Things didn't work out between us due to circumstances of life ..we both have complicated life. I know how dangerous scorpions can be before u mess with

one u need to be mentally ready😂.

Maybe in another lifetime we met again😏