is he INTERESTED?What should i do??

i need help from all of you regarding Scorpio man.I'm a Gemini, but not your typical one ..i'd like to think so...:-) I have this thread on the Scorpio message board, but think I would like to listen to other Gemini who understands Scorpio more:-)

I met this guy on his business trip here in my country, for 2 weeks. He talks to me every single day, and he sat sooo close to me, leaning forward and never breaking eye contact. He's a Scorpio, and i was firstly uninterested, but he kept finding excuses to talk to me, his penetrating gaze is scary but great as well. He loves making me laugh as well.

the last night he was here, I had some problems with my bf (which is my ex now), and needed a friend to talk to, so we talked and he kissed me,somehow it eventually led to sex. He said he's a one-minute man, but it took him around 1 hour to complete the act!he said it depends on the woman involved , and yes, he took the time to satisfy me and not just himself. He even held me close after that.

Thing is, he's gone back to his country (military guy), and we talked on the phone and email each other and stuff. He said, if it's a one night stand, he won't even talk or see that person again.

I just need some opinion, IS HE REALLY INTERESTED?or is he just playing with me?his colleagues who were here with him says he talks about me all the time...

i wanna know what i need to do before i fall too deep.

p/s: now he's in hibernating mode..I HATE THAT!!!!

He said, if it's a one night stand, he won't even talk or see that person again.

believe him.

I do believe him, cause Scorpios are honest (that's what I read), just I don't want to believe that just because that's what I wanted to. And since you can relate to this, I am soooooo glad that u said that :-)

IS HE REALLY INTERESTED?or is he just playing with me?

How often does he calls you or e-mails you?

The last day he was here wason 26 July, we talked every day after that for 3 days on the phone (then he went back home for holiday, so could only email him), he replies to my emails every week, until the last email which was on the 8th August, then NO NEWS from him at all ( i emailed him twice after that) and today 1st September, I GOT AN EMAIL FROM HIM!!!

says he's been busy and jet-lagged (cause home and work place is in 2 different country) from holiday and getting back to work left him tired and absentminded.... and his email today seemed more personal than before. Previous emails sounded so nonchalant like we're acquaintances, but todays' email sounds more like how he talks to me in person..

Am i confusing u with my English??sorry, sooooo happy!!

now he's in hibernating mode..I HATE THAT!!!!

we all hate things like this but you have to accept it. He is far away he cannot do anything else. Just hibernate.

yup, cause he went home for holiday for 1 month!!and now he's back in his office (another country), and he emailed me back.....

his colleagues who were here with him says he talks about me all the time...

Only a man in love can do this

i hope you're right...i miss him so much rite now

he pays attention to you---> he is interested
he makes you laugh--> he cares about you
he listens to your problems---> he is there for you
he makes love to you-->he sees you unique and certainly he has feelings about you
he reassures you that you are not a one night stand--> he is sure about what he is doing
he colegues say he is talking about you all the time-->he must be in love

Where are the negative things in your story?

i know.....i'm just insecure i guess...cause he;s so far away, and it's not like i can see him often

I think you are really insecure or afraid that there won't be any possibility you will see him again right——

Just think that normaly guys don't give that much of themselves. There is nothing else you can do except from wait for him to come there or..... to go and find him there

thanks so so so so much....i know i'm afraid of not seeing him anymore, and i'm scared cause of the distance, he'll slowly forget about me....

I really wanna go and vsit him, but he's going thru a divorce rite now (not because of me, they had problems waaaaay before that), which i know is hard, and i don't wanna be a rebound girl, if u know what i mean. I emailed him about it saying i needed a vacation instead of telling i wanna meet him, and he's ok with it, he mentioned that he might not be able to hang out with me, but he'll show me the places to go and what to do.

I am very loyal (at this age), my last relationship lasted for 7 years, till I couldn't take the violence and abuse from my ex anymore. And I think it's not because I'm a Gemini, nobody deserves to be treated like shit in a relationship.

This Scorpio guy makes me feel like an equal, without being judgemental, and makes me feel like a woman again ( my ex talked to me like i'm some creature who's beneath him) and he really listens to everything I say. He evokes a feeling in me that I never knew existed, and I am at that point in my life where I'm not looking for a man to be with, but he came into my life!

I'm taking control of my life again, gonna go back and study, and its really liberating, things I never could do before, I'm doing it for myself, and I am happy!My Scorpio guy keeps sending me words of encouragement and advice, and somehow it's true that he made sure I stick to my guns and not do things halfway like most Geminis do :-)

He told me to take care of myself first, before others (I worry about other ppl that I love A LOT!!Worry-freak, that's me)

Well,it sounds like you need a tender heart massage & some good Gem advise!
The Scorpio guy seems to truly care about you,so maybe all he needs is some
time to get his head cleared? maybe he's been hurt by all the drama of the
divorce,& so on?

I know he needs time, and I am willing to be patient if that means having him for who he is, and he accepting me for who I am. When we talked about our past relationship, it seems we're the ones who were always apologising to our exes, even if it means saying you're wrong when you're not, just for the sake of saving the relationship. I hate arguments, and if i can solve it there and then, I would.

He told me he married his childhood sweetheart, they were together in college for 5 years, then married for 2 years. He said it's a done deal, just waiting for the papers to be signed and all.

My Leo ex is sooooo egoistic that he thinks he's Mr Know-It-All. I became a doormat, with no self-worth or self-esteem, and no opinions of my own. I'm always surrounded by Leos, and most of them are like this....urrggh!!

Gemini girls can believe they are in love one week,then the
next it's someone new they are impressed with!

Not all of us.... Once I am in love I am straight in a passionate one that lasts until he hurts my feelings!....

and the last one is a big no-no!lol I take revenge later....

I agree with you!!

Surprizing thing is,"He had been there all along"!!!

isn't that sweet?