It takes a saggi girl to...

make a gemini girl understand about love...."

I have read this some where in some book but forgot. Does anyone seen this line or almost similar one where saggi girl plays a role in moulding the vibrant gemini girl(young ones)?? I am trying to recollect the excat phrase.

Thanks for all replies in advance.

I have a very dear female Sagittarius friend who is a little older than me. I can definately say that she has been my number one support in my love life since I've met her. She doesn't ever judge anything I do or say or feel, she understands how quickly I change my mind or choose to analyze something differently, and she points out all of the very subtle, yet very meaningful things my Libra does for me that I might otherwise totally miss.

wow... tats the same thing going on in my world. I was telling a gem that a saggi girl will squeeze all gem personalities into one and catch them on their leg and stop them from running away while talking.

Are you seeing a Gem these days Libran? It is a sweet combo!

Every time there is a new development in my relationship, I go to my Sag friend. She is also of a similar cultural background as my boy so she has a lot of insight on a lot of different aspects.

Actually, I think Geminis analyze a LOT, but maybe after we act. We are very much into the moment, acting on what feels good now, which changes constantly. Then there is the reflection back, BUT it does not go extremely deep or last extremely long.

UNFORTUNATELY I am in love with a gem over the net. lol... 😢 She is scared to meet me since she thinks am nuts and a total psycho but deep under that she is in love with me. She goes away scared when i push my words a bit strong and later analyze and figure out things r not that way inside her and comes back. Now recently my saggi real life friend caught her and made her see things which she never botherd to see or choose to ignore. So from that day she is taking an effort to read herself than running away. Anyway she is just 21 and the word love is still meaningless for her.

Make sure you do the typical Libra thing and make her feel totally secure one week and then disappear for a few days. Leave her wondering a bit. If suddenly you seem uninterested, she'll wonder what happened to you and bite the bait. TRUST ME, my Libra does this and it drives me crazy (in a good way). If he didn't do this, I'm not sure I'd still be around. Everytime I get a chance to miss him, the passion fire flares up again and then when he comes around, I feel so incredibly in love with him it's scary.

mmmm... tat definitely looks like the perfect advise i was just waiting for. Going to play that. I know she always gets way curious and sensitive whenever i hv accidently missed her for few days. Normally i dont avoid her deliberately. Thanks ammo. Will try this new weapon. 🙂

Yes, just make sure you don't disappear for too long. If your average might be two days that you are not in contact, go four or five and then come back and just chat like nothing happened. If you've been bold with your feelings for her before, try holding back on that a bit too. Act like a friend a little bit and then throw in a semi-ambiguous compliment that could be interpreted as your interest in her, but is not obvious. You've really got to work the curiousity if you want a Gemini to stick around. Let me know what happens with this.

After thinking about this disapprearing act for an hour, i got a bit confused. Normall I stay online in messenger and i dont hide my status. There are other imp friends with whom i keep in regular touch. I guess i will have to stay invicible to play this drama on her. And when i chat with her again, if she ask me something, i know i cannot fake reasons. 😢 I may openly say i did it for so and so. 😢 am worried abt how well i can lie. wat to do??

about the pulling back side about feelings - yes i hv been doing that every now and then and that has definitely brought difference. Main factor which worries me is her age. She still think love means stupidity. Never admits what she really feels. But then suddenly one fine day she is all emotional and romantic.

There is not really a way to tell if someone is fibbing a little bit over the internet. I don't think it could hurt. If you tell her that you did it to cause drama, she will run. So if that's what will happen, then don't do it at all. As soon as you admit you are purposefully trying to manipulate a Gemini, that's it. We are all about fun and games, but the games have to be fun for us as well as for you.

In terms of how she's acting about love, it may not be an age thing, it may be a Gemini thing. Remember, when one of our personalities doesn't serve us well, we put another one on. For example, if I am feeling all lovey dovey about my Libra for a few days and then I don't hear from him in a while, I promptly switch and decide that I'm not in love, I don't need him, etc. It's our #1 defense mechanism. Of course, once we reconnect, I'm like silly putty in his hands.

Gems do that in all areas of life. If I get depressed, I'll feel that way for a few days and then figure out that it's not working for me to feel that way and get over it. If I quit smoking for a few weeks and then suddenly I'm with someone who's smoking and being a non-smoker no longer looks like the best option, I just switch back into being a smoker.


I swear my twin sides are my best friends AND my worst enemies at the same time. But remember, if you are true to your Libra nature, you have the ability to balance the Gemini, and that is truly a treasure to behold.

I would say just take it easy on the love declarations or anything that might resemble one for a while. Keep it casual and fun and you might hook her.