Posted by spicaPosted by thelibran
So in the eyes of a libra female, aries female will always come across as a big pain in the butt. Its purely NATURE. thats all I was saying. And if any libra girl get close to Aries men, then they would know how different Aries can be. Libra girls can only understand Aries women in an objective fashion by learning and Aries man.
something not so right with dxp today. its the 3rd time i had to post and something missin
DXP cuts you off when your word limit reaches its maximum for a post.
I think this discussion should end here. It's getting nowhere.
Just note that everyone's original stance still stands.
And that's INCLUDING yours, thelibran.
On a side note,
Have a happy marriage..
don't think so much. Just do it.click to expand
Posted by BelovedAssata
No I understand and have no problem with your overall theory, looking for one's compliment is fine. Not going to engage in a pseudo-psychological fruedian analysis with you, trying to keep on topic. I just refuse to entertain the notion that one sign is of less intelligence than the other and that one sign is incapable of "going against the grain" of they're 'original programming'.
Its one thing to talk about perceived flaws that one sign has vs. another..that's all well in good. It's another thing to say that this sign can't get over their flaws because their brains are not evolved enough to allow them to. THAT I take offense to.
When i made the jest that I consider all Aries men to be like Johnny Bravo, I was in no way trying to say that I thought they were stupid. I thought they were oblivious. Maybe oblivious can be interpreted as stupidity to some people at first glance but I just think that it's just (again) stemming from their overall selfish nature(and frankly every sign is a bit self serving so this point is prolly just moot anyway.) They act that way, not because they can't..it's cuz they don't know or sometimes(prolly most of the time) don't care.
Posted by spica
"Spica, i already mentioned in my earlier post that its only natural for you to hate an aries women. and you still dont buy that. "
I already told you my closest friends since 11 and 14 were Aries and you didn't buy that. My tolerance for them was very high. I ignored their bad traits of always putting others down to seem superior. I don't hate them BECAUSE they are Aries, but I hated them AFTER their bad traits came to light and I found out they were Aries.
And your theory of opposites attract in this case is flawed. I don't think I will ever find matrimonial bliss with an Aries man; and did you read Assata's post? She concurs.
Although I do have a liking to and can gel well with Aries men (case in point, my father), I know that we dont do well in personal relationships, at least after the intial flame/ act has died down.
Posted by aquagirl24
hey this is degenerating what does it mean, uve spent years findin an aries as a partner lol, thats a lil bit crazy isnt it??? maybe we are speaking about obsessive-compulsive disorder now, lol, account surely to be deleted, i like to know what my partners sign is, but i wudnt choose a person for its sign, this is a little stupid lol. as i said this is no longer place for me lolol. its interesting to know how ur birth chart influences your personality and how astrology affects everyday life, but i wudnt put my life in the hands of stars lol. i have my life in my own hands. what i do on monday, its moon-day so i do this? no i programme my life due to what i need in that moment, not due to the stars lol.
Posted by Cleverboy
I heard that Libras and Capricorn usually don't like each other, but if it was a 2nd decan Libra would that be different? Because I read that the planet in 2nd decan libra is the same as Capricorn.
Posted by BelovedAssataPosted by thelibran
You failed to read the part where i mentioned that Aries is the only other Zodiac which can truly Challenge a Libra in every way. They are as smart as a libra once u look past their arrogance(usually to hide their fears).
No, I read it, but I'm not convinced that you still don't share that view..but no matter, do you.click to expand
Posted by amethyst2002Posted by thelibran
Yea my spelling sucks. I hardly care abt spelling or grammar since its not an exam.
Please don't use the, "it's not school/a spelling bee/an exam!!!" argument on poor grammar/spelling. It really reflects badly on you and makes you appear ignorant as treetrunk. Just say you don't care. :p I'm a total grammar nazi and I'll admit I don't give a damn when I chat if I capitalize or use apostrophes.click to expand
Posted by bluemoon2Posted by thelibranPosted by bluemoon2Posted by thelibranI did comprehend everything you said. What makes you think I didn't?
None of what u say has anything to do with what i was trying to tell u. tats why.
Sure it does. It's just what you do not want to read or hear.
I would say that judging by this response and everything in this thread, I can safely bet the biggest mistake your mother ever did to cause any of your hostile/abusive behavior towards women, especially Aries women who you believe to be inferior. She enabled your behavior if and when she catered to any of your whims. Thus, you now believe that all Aries women should do the same thing.
Are you just plain stupid or what?? I married an Aries babe. I got way tooo many Aries female friends. Dont you ever care to read whatever I typed in the last few pages?
Your spelling is atrocious and you are a "victim" who compares himself to Ghandi. LMFAO! And I am to take you seriously? You're hostile, abusive, and mean... your Aries woman checked out of the relationship already and is taking you on a road to perdition. Look that up while you are at it and profess to know everything about Aries woman. Simply look up "Aries woman road to perdition". You're on it. LMFAO.click to expand
It has nothing to do with having small intelligence or an un-evolved brain, what the treetrunk is that about? Spica doesn't like aries, but at least she doesn't think they have sparkle motion pea brains, where the hell are you making the implication that one sign is less intelligent than the other...that is ridiculous. God, does your wife know about this 'revelation' you seem to have. Because if I ever caught that butter coming out of my husband's mouth we'd have an altercation that he wouldn't believe, sensitive ego be damned!!!
Posted by JOJOJO
Aries are selfish ass hell. Aries never really love you, they own you and through ownership they love you. Get it???
Posted by spicaPosted by sozen
I think this gets to the crux of the issue between Aries and Libra . Its not Aries and Libra as much as it is Aries and Libra of the SAME sex.
no, just no.
Kris, you don't understand libras as well as you'd think..click to expand
Posted by spica
"For Aries its simple - just black and white."
Did thelibran say this?
Are you sure???
Damn I find it hilarious you see Aries as such Neanderthals.
It goes to show you know nothing about Aries women..
And that's why you married one. You think they're so simple..
..ad so easily controllable.
You're wrong, dude.
Aries are smarter than Libras in more ways than you think.
Posted by BelovedAssataPosted by sozen
Assanta we are trying to stick to a opposite sign theory here
I know..but I just can't agree. I'm sorry. I can see opposite sign theory work in a business partnership, a work relationship, a 'tolerable' friendship or even a great "one-night-stand" sexual relationship, but not a love relationship, marriage. etc.
Of course other factors come into play but still...I see elements of what spica and thelibran say about aries as true..like..
I do think aries work on instinct and jump and don't think of planning, anything..but at the same time they are good at thinking on their feet...As a warrior, not having a good battle strategy doesn't mean you couldn't be a good swordsman. And the 'cloak n dagger' technique is still a 'warrior strategy'. Feel me?
So they could very well both be right.
Now I don't think Aries are stupid or malicious, I just think they are selfish at heart, which isn't a bad thing. It's just annoying when you're around them and have to live with them and have to choose whether you want to 'accomodate them' or not. Which is why I think they could be okay as friends, business partners, work associates, and no strings sex partners but only at arms distance, so if they decided to swing an ax at you, you have sufficient space to duck, dodge, etc.click to expand
I blame that on ignorance and immaturity, really. I've only seen butter like that in reeeally immature Libras. I can think of a few that I worked with that behaved like this also. Lived in their own little world, and refused to face the reality of a situation or only wanted to see it their way because THAT'S HOW IT IS.