Leo and Gem FWB

Hello my kindred Spirits!

Im in a FWB thing with a Leo man.... ive posted about it on the Leo Forum yet i would like your opinions in general.

Basically we have known each other for a long time, were FWB 3/4 years ago... then we cut it off cause he start a relationship, then when it end a year later he reached me out but i was in a relationship by then... another year went by, we talked a bit more by then, as 'friends' and he asked me to get together again during that time few times but again i was in a relationship so i declined each time.

I got single about 3 months ago, 3 weeks ago he again said that he was available, so we are back on track.... have seen each other twice so far.... all super fun as usual, amazing sex.... i dare say the best sex ive ever had.

I really like him, so i was wondering if there is any chance to change things around.
So gems, have u ever turned a FWB relationship around, should i gamble upon this?

Sometimes i think he is rude, other times he is kinda sweet and cuddly... and sometimes im super aloof with him, like if i dont want to get any closer... i dont want to get hurt again.... any advice?

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Hello my kindred Spirits!

Im in a FWB thing with a Leo man.... ive posted about it on the Leo Forum yet i would like your opinions in general.

Basically we have known each other for a long time, were FWB 3/4 years ago... then we cut it off cause he start a relationship, then when it end a year later he reached me out but i was in a relationship by then... another year went by, we talked a bit more by then, as 'friends' and he asked me to get together again during that time few times but again i was in a relationship so i declined each time.

I got single about 3 months ago, 3 weeks ago he again said that he was available, so we are back on track.... have seen each other twice so far.... all super fun as usual, amazing sex.... i dare say the best sex ive ever had.

I really like him, so i was wondering if there is any chance to change things around.
So gems, have u ever turned a FWB relationship around, should i gamble upon this?

Sometimes i think he is rude, other times he is kinda sweet and cuddly... and sometimes im super aloof with him, like if i dont want to get any closer... i dont want to get hurt again.... any advice?

Either go all in or bounce........my advice.

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Thanks for the advice Ssupes 🙂
Make sense, im single now.

How can i address this with him, i know Leos appreciate straight forwardness.... yet it is hard for me to openly say how i feel, im afraid of rejection 😢

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Posted by Ssupes

Posted by Tete
Hello my kindred Spirits!

Im in a FWB thing with a Leo man.... ive posted about it on the Leo Forum yet i would like your opinions in general.

Basically we have known each other for a long time, were FWB 3/4 years ago... then we cut it off cause he start a relationship, then when it end a year later he reached me out but i was in a relationship by then... another year went by, we talked a bit more by then, as 'friends' and he asked me to get together again during that time few times but again i was in a relationship so i declined each time.

I got single about 3 months ago, 3 weeks ago he again said that he was available, so we are back on track.... have seen each other twice so far.... all super fun as usual, amazing sex.... i dare say the best sex ive ever had.

I really like him, so i was wondering if there is any chance to change things around.
So gems, have u ever turned a FWB relationship around, should i gamble upon this?

Sometimes i think he is rude, other times he is kinda sweet and cuddly... and sometimes im super aloof with him, like if i dont want to get any closer... i dont want to get hurt again.... any advice?

Either go all in or bounce........my advice.

Thanks for the advice Ssupes 🙂
Make sense, im single now.

How can i address this with him, i know Leos appreciate straight forwardness.... yet it is hard for me to openly say how i feel, im afraid of rejection 😢

I dont know why the struggle with some people about taking a risk in admitting feelings. People withhold and withdraw and then wonder why their guy/girl gets shaky and wont commit

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It has always been hard for me to open up about my feelings, cause im afraid that i might be rushing in and because im afraid about being rejected. With him it would be the first time i do any emotional contact, so i would like to see how safe it could be.

Hey Tete, my gf is Gem sun, Virgo moon, and I'm Leo Sun. Happy to offer comments if this is still on your mind?

Leo's can be lovely individuals, just don't push them over the edge, they tend not to like that.

I've only ever had FWB situations with Leos now that I think of it. One of them I thought maybe I wanted to turn into a relationship, but I had no idea how to do that and it turned into way too much game playing and cat and mouse so I just gave up and by then the sex wasn't even appealing anymore either.

I would maybe just casually mention to him "you know, I'm kind of thinking I might have an actual crush on you now" and then just giggle. If he feels the same, awesome, if not, you were just flirting anyway for all he knows.