Leo Male Sincere with his Feelings? Super Confused

This topic was created in the Leo forum by ElfofLorien on Monday, July 27, 2015 and has 13 replies.

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@ElfofLorien
11 Years

I'm attracted to a Leo Male with Cancer Moon with Virgo in Mercury and Mars placements. I met him at work and it's been 2 and a half months since we've met. He's a notorious flirt and popular with the women, but confessed to me that I'm his "favorite gal to hang around" and he likes me since we play fight, play video games if work is slow,getting really to know each other, and compliments me all the time. He loves playing with my hair, picks me up on his back, gets me food whenever I feel ill or bad, when we hug...he hugs me for a long time. Anyways, I have a boyfriend who I'm losing feelings for because during 6 months in our 2 years, he was distant and I hate having to keep pushing him to do stuff with me while the Leo was giving me everything I wanted. Though, the Leo knows I'm in a relationship and barely text me(I'm guessing he's backing off til I figure it out). He told me one time that he doesn't text me because he wants to save it for our next meeting. Yesterday I visited him with a friend at work(to see how he was) and he was happy to see me. I texted him if he wants to hang out(as friends since we already confessed) on his last day from work since he's leaving for an intern job and I have yet to get a reply. I can't tell these things and it drives me nuts because he's awesome to be around with. I want to poke at him to get a reply, but that'll make me desperate. I'm an Aries female with Scorpio Moon, Venus in Aries and Mars in Pisces. Any help is appreciated! Leos are fantastic!

Oh, he visits me and brings me food on days off when heading to Austin since it's along the way and recently kissed me on the cheek.

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@ElfofLorien
11 Years

I guess I could call. I'm just afraid of looking so desperate. If anything doesn't go right, I'm afraid of losing him since he's been very kind to me. Thing is, with other advice I've gotten, I was informed that he was playing me and treats me as an output so he can flirt. I have no one to talk to about this 😒

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@leo500
11 Years

He barely text u because u are in a relation. U should go for it first in this case. Also you need to do correctly. If i was him and like you like u think he likes, and i agree because of what he does for you, i won't repect and wont trust you of uou pass the line and betrayed your boyfriend with him. Of course he isnt think on this now but if things go well and you both start a relation he will always think that if u betrayed once you should do that again. So be carefull, if it is only sex well no problem. Btw, what sign your boyfriend is and yours? If you want him seriously, solve things firstly with your boyfriend and then go for the leo. You ll have his respect for life

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@ElfofLorien
11 Years

Thing is, I haven't been responding to the Leo's flirting and just said, "okay" and merely observing what he's doing for me. I didn't ask for the Leo's help when I had a headache,feeling hungry sleepy or being sad. He merely just does it anyway. Leo500 that's what I'm doing. My boyfriend is a Cancer(July 22) with Scorpio Moon and I'm an Aries(April18) with Scorpio Moon. I'm trying to fix it first before anything. It's the right thing to do after all. If the Cancer isn't budging then yes, I will move on.

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@leo500
11 Years

Yes. Thats it girl. U have my respect already with those words. He prob ia enjoying your story every day and dont mind if u are in a relation or not. We leos often thonks with two heads if u know what i mean lol but loyalty is our first rule πŸ˜‰) keep the news and gl

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@JROI
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Whether you get with the Leo or not you should break it off with your boyfriend, if you're having such strong feelings for somebody else and 'losing feelings' for your boyfriend, really you're only stringing him along.

... and then just go for it with the Leo, F it!! What do you have to lose? πŸ˜›

If the Leo I like was single, I would not hesitate for one minute. Siiiiiigh

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@leo500
11 Years

Posted by JROI
Whether you get with the Leo or not you should break it off with your boyfriend, if you're having such strong feelings for somebody else and 'losing feelings' for your boyfriend, really you're only stringing him along.

... and then just go for it with the Leo, F it!! What do you have to lose? πŸ˜›

If the Leo I like was single, I would not hesitate for one minute. Siiiiiigh

Hey JROI

Did you found a leo out there? lool nice to ear that πŸ˜„
knew it :p

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@JROI
11 Years500+ Posts

Posted by leo500
Posted by JROI
Whether you get with the Leo or not you should break it off with your boyfriend, if you're having such strong feelings for somebody else and 'losing feelings' for your boyfriend, really you're only stringing him along.

... and then just go for it with the Leo, F it!! What do you have to lose? πŸ˜›

If the Leo I like was single, I would not hesitate for one minute. Siiiiiigh

Hey JROI

Did you found a leo out there? lool nice to ear that πŸ˜„
knew it :p

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hahaha not exactly. He's already taken -sadface- ... But it's for the best, I travel a lot, no time for men... maybe when I come back he'll be single πŸ˜‰

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@sunnygirl
16 Years

Posted by Ssupes
Posted by ElfofLorien
I'm attracted to a Leo Male with Cancer Moon with Virgo in Mercury and Mars placements. I met him at work and it's been 2 and a half months since we've met. He's a notorious flirt and popular with the women, but confessed to me that I'm his "favorite gal to hang around" and he likes me since we play fight, play video games if work is slow,getting really to know each other, and compliments me all the time. He loves playing with my hair, picks me up on his back, gets me food whenever I feel ill or bad, when we hug...he hugs me for a long time. Anyways, I have a boyfriend who I'm losing feelings for because during 6 months in our 2 years, he was distant and I hate having to keep pushing him to do stuff with me while the Leo was giving me everything I wanted. Though, the Leo knows I'm in a relationship and barely text me(I'm guessing he's backing off til I figure it out). He told me one time that he doesn't text me because he wants to save it for our next meeting. Yesterday I visited him with a friend at work(to see how he was) and he was happy to see me. I texted him if he wants to hang out(as friends since we already confessed) on his last day from work since he's leaving for an intern job and I have yet to get a reply. I can't tell these things and it drives me nuts because he's awesome to be around with. I want to poke at him to get a reply, but that'll make me desperate. I'm an Aries female with Scorpio Moon, Venus in Aries and Mars in Pisces. Any help is appreciated! Leos are fantastic!

Oh, he visits me and brings me food on days off when heading to Austin since it's along the way and recently kissed me on the cheek.

Why dont you just flat out tell him how you feel? Best way to get the answer you seek.

Lay it all out there.........nothing sucks worse than not knowing

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Exactly. After going out with a Scorpio, the Leo man I am currently dating is refreshingly good at handling it when someone just plain and direct tells them how they feel. I have never felt so understood and listened to in my life. For real. Even though I didn't get "my way", I felt like we both understood each other's side and came to a respectful compromise. And this is before we even started going out! Amazing. So in short, yes, sit

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@sunnygirl
16 Years

him down, be direct about your feelings (don't guilt him into needing to reciprocate), and let him take it from there. Hopefully it will all just be a nice calm conversation and one way or the other, you will know where you stand. Good luck.

PS: Ssupes, I've been reading a couple of your posts lately since I got interested in this Leo man. You seem a lot like him. Very chill, fun and serious at the same time. I've had Leo friends before but never a Leo special someone. Loving it so far.