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@cancer12
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Moon in SAGITTARIUS or SCORPIO
my moon is in leo by the way - I seem to be drawn to anything uplifting and positive and happy. proud indeed, lover of life and new adventures - lol - cancer sun keeps me humble and human - lol
so a few days ago i found an excuse to contact him (i know - shameful-shakes head), i want to learn to ride a motorcycle and he has one so I started a convo about it. so he ended up giving me a lesson yesterday (bikes are awesome!) - and afterward as we said goodbye he opened his arms for a hug. i thanked him and we parted. i have to wait till next monday for my next lesson. 😢 a little help please?
so a few days ago i found an excuse to contact him (i know - shameful-shakes head), i want to learn to ride a motorcycle and he has one so I started a convo about it. so he ended up giving me a lesson yesterday (bikes are awesome!) - and afterward as we said goodbye he opened his arms for a hug. i thanked him and we parted. i have to wait till next monday for my next lesson. 😢 a little help please?
th a Scorpio rising and a water moon, but I don't know if that helps you.
1) Do you guys hate being told 'NO' or HATE not getting your way?.
A "no" doesn't mean I won't ultimately get my way. It just means I need to go about it differently and strategize a bit. Still, I don't always mind hearing "no", and I never mind compromise.
2) Does it bother gemini's when the person they like isn't basically running after them, or drooling at their feet?.
It's puzzling, not bothersome. It attracts my curiosity about WHY you don't think I'm awesome. I also enjoy a bit of a chase (ME chasing YOU, that is).
3) Do you find you will be intensely into someone for a short period then lose interest?
Yes. And there's no way to anticipate what might turn me off. It could be as simple a thing as the way you tie your shoes that blows my image of what I thought you were. Sorry- it sucks.click to expand
I agree with AEG- just give time. It's ok to convey your expectations to him (like expecting him to be a man of his word and show up for dates), but Gems need things to be very casual at first.
Aries rising, Sagittarius moon.
1) Do you guys hate being told 'NO' or HATE not getting your way?
Nope. I deal with it in a mature manner. Not everything in life goes your way.
2) Does it bother gemini's when the person they like isn't basically running after them, or drooling at their feet?
It's always nice to have the object of your affections return them. I think most people of any sign would like that.
3) Do you find you will be intensely into someone for a short period then lose interest?click to expand
No, when I set my sights on the woman I like it's rather difficult for my attention to be swayed. I do however have zero time for women who play hard to get. I'm not into stupid games. If I make my intentions clear, they're clear, and I appreciate women doing the same. I recently came out of a 4 year relationship with my ex (Cancer sun, Scorpio rising and Virgo moon) and she was the one who got bored and couldn't remain faithful. Once I commit myself, I commit myself. This who Gemini superficiality and "relationships on the side" holds no water with me.
Aries rising, Sagittarius moon.
1) Do you guys hate being told 'NO' or HATE not getting your way?
Nope. I deal with it in a mature manner. Not everything in life goes your way.
2) Does it bother gemini's when the person they like isn't basically running after them, or drooling at their feet?
It's always nice to have the object of your affections return them. I think most people of any sign would like that.
3) Do you find you will be intensely into someone for a short period then lose interest?click to expand
No, when I set my sights on the woman I like it's rather difficult for my attention to be swayed. I do however have zero time for women who play hard to get. I'm not into stupid games. If I make my intentions clear, they're clear, and I appreciate women doing the same. I recently came out of a 4 year relationship with my ex (Cancer sun, Scorpio rising and Virgo moon) and she was the one who got bored and couldn't remain faithful. Once I commit myself, I commit myself. This who Gemini superficiality and "relationships on the side" holds no water with me.
Thank you ALL for replying! I really appreciate it! i've replied to each of you separately.. I'm so clueless about gems...
last time he was the one to initiate contact was June 15th!!!!! Keep in mind that since he had gone distant on me, it's me that has been initiating contact mainly asking about motorcycles cus i don't want to seem clingy (us cancers get a bad rep for that one) or pushy. and during these attempts he does indeed reply but it doesn't go beyond that. he doesn't ask anyhthing else. i take that as lost interest no? if he was interested wouldn't he at least attempt so make convo or make contact? am i misinterpretting his behaviour?
@anearthygemini must
slow to the burn - i like that 😄 and you're right i do ignite powerfully! i tend to generally know what i want, i suppose gemini just seems so fickle. in the last part of your comment, are you advising that i come straight out and ask him what's going on? why he went cold on me? sorry i just want to make sure i'm not misunderstanding 😄
@Whimsy
thank you honey! see that's perfect, i love being chased!lol - shoeslace?...omg, maybe that time we went bike riding he thought i'd be badass and i wasn't so he lost interest! i swear it was my asthma! seriously - but i know i was kinda sarcastic with him too in our convos, maybe i hurt his feelings - sheesh gems are a tough crowd but you're all so damn hot! heehhehe
i have no problem giving him time, but i'm not sure if he's even interested anymore..😢 - any tips?
@SapphireGem
i think it's that sag moon that makes u deal with things so maturely- sorry about your relationship, i'm glad that you have freed yourself from that kind of negativity so you can grow and find peace. i'm very much that way too, i make my intentions clear and i proceed. i detest infidelity. i'm straight up, if i want out then i simply muster up the courage to have the talk. i lay my cards on the table no matter how much i love them, would rather walk away than create pain.
@DG
ADD? oh no! i'm ADD too...is that trouble? lol - -DG, he doesn't make contact anymore tho, in our texts he doesn't even ask me how things are...nada -i'm at a loss bc i'm wondering if he's lost interest. still think i'm doing fine?
last time he was the one to initiate contact was June 15th!!!!! Keep in mind that since he had gone distant on me, it's me that has been initiating contact mainly asking about motorcycles cus i don't want to seem clingy (us cancers get a bad rep for that one) or pushy. and during these attempts he does indeed reply but it doesn't go beyond that. he doesn't ask anyhthing else. i take that as lost interest no? if he was interested wouldn't he at least attempt so make convo or make contact? am i misinterpretting his behaviour?
@anearthygemini must
slow to the burn - i like that 😄 and you're right i do ignite powerfully! i tend to generally know what i want, i suppose gemini just seems so fickle. in the last part of your comment, are you advising that i come straight out and ask him what's going on? why he went cold on me? sorry i just want to make sure i'm not misunderstanding 😄
@Whimsy
thank you honey! see that's perfect, i love being chased!lol - shoeslace?...omg, maybe that time we went bike riding he thought i'd be badass and i wasn't so he lost interest! i swear it was my asthma! seriously - but i know i was kinda sarcastic with him too in our convos, maybe i hurt his feelings - sheesh gems are a tough crowd but you're all so damn hot! heehhehe
i have no problem giving him time, but i'm not sure if he's even interested anymore..😢 - any tips?
@SapphireGem
i think it's that sag moon that makes u deal with things so maturely- sorry about your relationship, i'm glad that you have freed yourself from that kind of negativity so you can grow and find peace. i'm very much that way too, i make my intentions clear and i proceed. i detest infidelity. i'm straight up, if i want out then i simply muster up the courage to have the talk. i lay my cards on the table no matter how much i love them, would rather walk away than create pain.
@DG
ADD? oh no! i'm ADD too...is that trouble? lol - -DG, he doesn't make contact anymore tho, in our texts he doesn't even ask me how things are...nada -i'm at a loss bc i'm wondering if he's lost interest. still think i'm doing fine?
@anearthygemini
hmm...what would be considered 'not going easy'? or better yet, what does go easy really mean? i'm pretty straight up, whichis weird cus cancers are supposed to be tactful :}
hmm...what would be considered 'not going easy'? or better yet, what does go easy really mean? i'm pretty straight up, whichis weird cus cancers are supposed to be tactful :}
Agreed. I often truly don't know how I feel or what motivated me to do a certain thing. I was just following an internal impulse. Asking a lot of questions about it just confuses me, and I may wind up giving a lame answer just because I understand that an answer is required. I need time to analyze myself and come up with the real answer.
@anearthygemini
@Whimsy
sooooo...before I got a chance to read your replies or take your last advice I texted him.
We started flirting by text (lame-lol) and a little sexual talk. i acted dumb and suggested that since he had a gf (which he doesn't), that he shouldn't be flirting like this with me. he corrected me and told me he didn't have a gf. i expressed that i thought THAT was why he was so distant lately, he said work had him busy and alot of weddings were going on. :O - we continued to flirt and i playfully told him that he knew that he prob just wanted to sleep with me (not in those words)- he denied - then i told him we're adults so it's okay - he then replied he's not admitting that - i attempted once more and told him nothing was wrong with admitting the truth, why pretend he wanted something more if sex is all he wanted (again not phrased in that way) - he admitted it saying he wasn't ready to be in a relationship.
so i guess i got my answer.
i just don't get it though, initially all he talked about was relationships and being in one and now he's done this 180 flip on me. sooooo frustrating.
I suppose since he's admitted it, i should move on. 😢 bummer - he's giving me a motorcycle lesson today, now i gotta detach my from my emotions and how i feel towards him - really sucks
@Whimsy
sooooo...before I got a chance to read your replies or take your last advice I texted him.
We started flirting by text (lame-lol) and a little sexual talk. i acted dumb and suggested that since he had a gf (which he doesn't), that he shouldn't be flirting like this with me. he corrected me and told me he didn't have a gf. i expressed that i thought THAT was why he was so distant lately, he said work had him busy and alot of weddings were going on. :O - we continued to flirt and i playfully told him that he knew that he prob just wanted to sleep with me (not in those words)- he denied - then i told him we're adults so it's okay - he then replied he's not admitting that - i attempted once more and told him nothing was wrong with admitting the truth, why pretend he wanted something more if sex is all he wanted (again not phrased in that way) - he admitted it saying he wasn't ready to be in a relationship.
so i guess i got my answer.
i just don't get it though, initially all he talked about was relationships and being in one and now he's done this 180 flip on me. sooooo frustrating.
I suppose since he's admitted it, i should move on. 😢 bummer - he's giving me a motorcycle lesson today, now i gotta detach my from my emotions and how i feel towards him - really sucks
thanks earthy...gosh i want him to be interested,...it's like whimsy said previously, i'm puzzled as to why he doesn't think i'm awesome! he's driving me crazy, he's got me soooo confused with his behaviour that i'm now a little intimidated, i get a little nervous b/c i'm not sure how to act. should i be flirty or will that make him feel uncomfortable or should i just be chilled out and friendly? well i act like i would with any other person, polite and cool. i don't flirt with him when i see him now, i don't want to push him away, but i also don't want to feel even more rejected.
see i figured he told me he didn't want a relationship bc he wanted to make it clear to me not to expect anything from him. i mean if you liked someone, would you want them thinking you're not interested—? isn't that besides the point? they would just move on cus you pretty much told them to.
btw he cancelled the lesson but offered to take me for a long ride with a buddy of his. as we rode, the michief in me allowed my hands to fall to rest naturally on his thighs at times during the ride...oh so innocently...trust me there is no way he knew. as much as i wanted to hold onto him i didn't do that much, only when he went super fast. the time we spend together is always so short, he always has to go 😢 - all i have is moments, the time with him is so fleeting.
gosh you gems make us cancers go crazy! lol
see i figured he told me he didn't want a relationship bc he wanted to make it clear to me not to expect anything from him. i mean if you liked someone, would you want them thinking you're not interested—? isn't that besides the point? they would just move on cus you pretty much told them to.
btw he cancelled the lesson but offered to take me for a long ride with a buddy of his. as we rode, the michief in me allowed my hands to fall to rest naturally on his thighs at times during the ride...oh so innocently...trust me there is no way he knew. as much as i wanted to hold onto him i didn't do that much, only when he went super fast. the time we spend together is always so short, he always has to go 😢 - all i have is moments, the time with him is so fleeting.
gosh you gems make us cancers go crazy! lol
HUGS ARE AWESOME!!! i've been looking at our charts, i'm no expert only guessing...doesn't seem too awful but then again what do i know. kno anyone that can read it?
when he first saw me, i was my confident, positive, excited self...i was super happy and talkative...now with his wishy washy behaviour it's brought out the nervous, cautious delicate cancer (whom i am not very fond at the moment btw, i tend to let my leo moon control alot of my life - i'm much happier this way.)
when he first saw me, i was my confident, positive, excited self...i was super happy and talkative...now with his wishy washy behaviour it's brought out the nervous, cautious delicate cancer (whom i am not very fond at the moment btw, i tend to let my leo moon control alot of my life - i'm much happier this way.)
@CRABMOON
well my guy is completely cold, i'm the one making ALL the contact now and it's mostly by text which i find lame, all i get is breadcrumbs from this guy. in the first week he was on me like i was gold... gem or no gem, i doubt he's even interested anymore.
getting tired of this...
he doesn't seem controlling, he just seems aloof more than anything.
@earthy
i think i'm just tired of his behaviour, not worth it. texted him today and invited him to go skydiving with me and friends next weekend for my birthday, he said it was too sudden, he wasn't sure, then proceeded to ignore me - i thought gems were adventurous and loved trying new things. thanks for helping me out, hugs 😄
well my guy is completely cold, i'm the one making ALL the contact now and it's mostly by text which i find lame, all i get is breadcrumbs from this guy. in the first week he was on me like i was gold... gem or no gem, i doubt he's even interested anymore.
getting tired of this...
he doesn't seem controlling, he just seems aloof more than anything.
@earthy
i think i'm just tired of his behaviour, not worth it. texted him today and invited him to go skydiving with me and friends next weekend for my birthday, he said it was too sudden, he wasn't sure, then proceeded to ignore me - i thought gems were adventurous and loved trying new things. thanks for helping me out, hugs 😄
@CRABMOON
well my guy is completely cold, i'm the one making ALL the contact now and it's mostly by text which i find lame, all i get is breadcrumbs from this guy. in the first week he was on me like i was gold... gem or no gem, i doubt he's even interested anymore.
getting tired of this...
he doesn't seem controlling, he just seems aloof more than anything.
@earthy
i think i'm just tired of his behaviour, not worth it. texted him today and invited him to go skydiving with me and friends next weekend for my birthday, he said it was too sudden, he wasn't sure, then proceeded to ignore me - i thought gems were adventurous and loved trying new things. thanks for helping me out, hugs 😄
well my guy is completely cold, i'm the one making ALL the contact now and it's mostly by text which i find lame, all i get is breadcrumbs from this guy. in the first week he was on me like i was gold... gem or no gem, i doubt he's even interested anymore.
getting tired of this...
he doesn't seem controlling, he just seems aloof more than anything.
@earthy
i think i'm just tired of his behaviour, not worth it. texted him today and invited him to go skydiving with me and friends next weekend for my birthday, he said it was too sudden, he wasn't sure, then proceeded to ignore me - i thought gems were adventurous and loved trying new things. thanks for helping me out, hugs 😄
@lonewolf
thing is he LOVES texting, his phone is always in his hands. about a week ago and he hasn't contacted me and i'm tired of always being the one contacting him.
BUT today as i'm waiting to make a left turn at the lights, i saw him in opposite traffic trying to make a right turn facing me. I know he saw me for sure under his helmet but he didn't acknowledge me, he just drove off.
i'm all into being friends, but how can we even try if we don't even hang out.
btw I'm not even sure what self promoting means, i've just always been myself sometimes i'm calm and comfortable and sometimes i'm like a kid at a candy store...it's like i'm two people...like you gems - lol
@earthy
thanks so much..love and light to you 🙂
thing is he LOVES texting, his phone is always in his hands. about a week ago and he hasn't contacted me and i'm tired of always being the one contacting him.
BUT today as i'm waiting to make a left turn at the lights, i saw him in opposite traffic trying to make a right turn facing me. I know he saw me for sure under his helmet but he didn't acknowledge me, he just drove off.
i'm all into being friends, but how can we even try if we don't even hang out.
btw I'm not even sure what self promoting means, i've just always been myself sometimes i'm calm and comfortable and sometimes i'm like a kid at a candy store...it's like i'm two people...like you gems - lol
@earthy
thanks so much..love and light to you 🙂
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