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I made it.. what are we talking about😁

Virgos tryna get some spice 🌶 in their life 🔥

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Well guess I'm not missing much then😁. I already have wayyyy more than I can handle

I made it.. what are we talking about😁

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@ELIGAB also idk what it is but this aries spoils me. he got to meet my brothers when he came over for dinner (and i've already met his cousins). it's only like the 3rd date but i'm already getting emotional thinking how i could've possibly hit gold nearing the holidays. he is such a beautiful man 😭😭

tbh i feel like a princess 👑

How's the peen??

Lol


🤨🤔🙃

soon 😉😉

lol

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🤣🤣
So you guys havent yet?....get ready for the " woah!!!"
I'm excited like I'm reliving our first couple months all over again🤣🤣🤣

Pro tip: after the initial "woah factor" dont allow him to just dominate the situation ( they'll try) Throw ur own lil moves in there.. they love it🤣🤣🤣

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Block and pretend you never existed. So I heard at least and saw them do that. But in order for that to happen they must be fed up with all sorts of bs they forgave before

He hasn't blocked me though. He deleted me off social media instantly which I thought was slightly pathetic. Then took a month for him to delete my number. He's never blocked me.
See when we originally broke up I said to him I'm sorry if I have done anything. I couldn't figure if I had because he was being so closed off with me. He told me I had nothing to be sorry for. He told me he didn't want me involved in butter that's happening with him... surely as his girlfriend I should have a small amount of involvement especially if it effects the relationship and his mental health which at the time I was concerned about. He told me everything previously but for some reason he said if I was involved I would be hurt... But he was hurting me by pushing me away.

I am a gay male myself, but I would give anything to have a person as devoted to the person you loved as you were. I tried to do the same to an almost boyfriend Libra guy, and then the bullbutter started. Here are things I HATE HATE HATE as a Virgo:

1 - Lying or Trying to Get Around Sore Subjects Using Flowery Language and Innuendos: This Libra guy would do this a lot. He would never ever go straight to the point, but rather say stuff like "I think we're not on the same vibe", meaning "I am not in love with you". However, Libras and their wish to look pretty ALL the time and avoiding to tackle subjects that are difficult by not communicating properly drives me MAD. I have found out a couple of lies he told me by comparing utterances and finding contradictions. The worst one was: I gave him only two pecks on the lips, but he would be awkward afterwards and blame this on being afraid of homophobia. However he said to me that when he was younger he would hook up with guys and such. How in the world is he ashamed of pecking on the lips due to "homophobia" but was perfectly fine making out with guys he barely knew in the past? This is our way of finding out BULLbutter that is thrown at us. This shakes our trust in others and we will second guess your actions and find out a lot more stuff you did.

2 - Ignore Us, Throw our Devotion in the Trash Can: You did not do this, OP, but this was fone to me. My almost boyfriend would always be busy with work, and never wanted to meet me no matter how much effort I made. This was aggravated as he did not tell upfront he thought we were not a good match, so I grew more attached and only after I was literally declaring my love for him out pois was that he decided to stop the bullbutter and bem HONEST for once. In your case, you did not do anything wrong. There are dickheads everywhere, in every sign. It seems to me this guy you dated is nothing but a dickhead who took you for granted.

The worst thing you can do to us is betray us, lie to us, to be sneaky and beat around the bush instead of speaking your mind, to take our love and Trust for granted and to ignore us. You will get a nice dose of a non-existing pill forever. That is what I am doing.

You did nothing wrong. I wish that I either was straight or that you were a gay guy for us to know one another. Be happy, for you are a jewel amongst humankind.

libra here is trying to "leave" a virgo man, feel prompted to respond to your points.

1 - yes, i'm hardly direct, especially when it comes to something serious, don't want to fight or the like, instead, i've been holding the things that bother me for a long time and suffering.

2 - i've started to ignore him, and it's not fun for me. his words and actions triggered my such reaction, and he's the one who doesn't seem to be interested in talking it out.

" trying to leave" a virgo??

Try this with ur virgo.." I dont want to be with u anymore becuz ur USELESS in my life"

Tell the virgo how much butter he did wrong in Detail. I promise you will have ur freedom.
Then leave block his number and if he contacts u another way say " what exactly is it you didnt understand"

The virgi will defly leave u alone after this...I mean if ur "TRYING" to leave 🤷‍♀️

I've been trying to not get affected by him anymore without revealing too much.
Won't say that to him, no need to hurt him, especially he's done good things for me, though it's also why I can't make up my mind to leave for good.

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Oh ok i get it now..
Well dont do any of what I suggested. Saying those things will defly have mr.virgo gone forever. My first love was a libra he couldn't make up his as to if I was what he wanted or not...15yrs and a kid of that bullbutter🤦‍♀️...
Eventually the Aries came and shut that butter down becuz he stole my heart.
Goodluck with ur situation.

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@ELIGAB also idk what it is but this aries spoils me. he got to meet my brothers when he came over for dinner (and i've already met his cousins). it's only like the 3rd date but i'm already getting emotional thinking how i could've possibly hit gold nearing the holidays. he is such a beautiful man 😭😭

tbh i feel like a princess 👑

That's exactly how they make us VIRGOS feel...like princesses.
I was so emotionally scared of mine at first. My virgo mind said " this cant be real"...I doubted it so much.
We get married next July 😊😊
Hes exhausting sometimes but somehow I love every minute of it...
Good luck girlie

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virgo

so nooo

yes yes

yes yes yes

This is what a Virgo does to an Aries
Virgo to Aries fire

i'm doing well with an aries right now and i'm a first houser

so yes yes yes yes

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Another virgo f Aries m relationship 🙌🙌🙌

I'm so freaking happy😭😭

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Block and pretend you never existed. So I heard at least and saw them do that. But in order for that to happen they must be fed up with all sorts of bs they forgave before

He hasn't blocked me though. He deleted me off social media instantly which I thought was slightly pathetic. Then took a month for him to delete my number. He's never blocked me.
See when we originally broke up I said to him I'm sorry if I have done anything. I couldn't figure if I had because he was being so closed off with me. He told me I had nothing to be sorry for. He told me he didn't want me involved in butter that's happening with him... surely as his girlfriend I should have a small amount of involvement especially if it effects the relationship and his mental health which at the time I was concerned about. He told me everything previously but for some reason he said if I was involved I would be hurt... But he was hurting me by pushing me away.

I am a gay male myself, but I would give anything to have a person as devoted to the person you loved as you were. I tried to do the same to an almost boyfriend Libra guy, and then the bullbutter started. Here are things I HATE HATE HATE as a Virgo:

1 - Lying or Trying to Get Around Sore Subjects Using Flowery Language and Innuendos: This Libra guy would do this a lot. He would never ever go straight to the point, but rather say stuff like "I think we're not on the same vibe", meaning "I am not in love with you". However, Libras and their wish to look pretty ALL the time and avoiding to tackle subjects that are difficult by not communicating properly drives me MAD. I have found out a couple of lies he told me by comparing utterances and finding contradictions. The worst one was: I gave him only two pecks on the lips, but he would be awkward afterwards and blame this on being afraid of homophobia. However he said to me that when he was younger he would hook up with guys and such. How in the world is he ashamed of pecking on the lips due to "homophobia" but was perfectly fine making out with guys he barely knew in the past? This is our way of finding out BULLbutter that is thrown at us. This shakes our trust in others and we will second guess your actions and find out a lot more stuff you did.

2 - Ignore Us, Throw our Devotion in the Trash Can: You did not do this, OP, but this was fone to me. My almost boyfriend would always be busy with work, and never wanted to meet me no matter how much effort I made. This was aggravated as he did not tell upfront he thought we were not a good match, so I grew more attached and only after I was literally declaring my love for him out pois was that he decided to stop the bullbutter and bem HONEST for once. In your case, you did not do anything wrong. There are dickheads everywhere, in every sign. It seems to me this guy you dated is nothing but a dickhead who took you for granted.

The worst thing you can do to us is betray us, lie to us, to be sneaky and beat around the bush instead of speaking your mind, to take our love and Trust for granted and to ignore us. You will get a nice dose of a non-existing pill forever. That is what I am doing.

You did nothing wrong. I wish that I either was straight or that you were a gay guy for us to know one another. Be happy, for you are a jewel amongst humankind.

libra here is trying to "leave" a virgo man, feel prompted to respond to your points.

1 - yes, i'm hardly direct, especially when it comes to something serious, don't want to fight or the like, instead, i've been holding the things that bother me for a long time and suffering.

2 - i've started to ignore him, and it's not fun for me. his words and actions triggered my such reaction, and he's the one who doesn't seem to be interested in talking it out.

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" trying to leave" a virgo??

Try this with ur virgo.." I dont want to be with u anymore becuz ur USELESS in my life"

Tell the virgo how much butter he did wrong in Detail. I promise you will have ur freedom.
Then leave block his number and if he contacts u another way say " what exactly is it you didnt understand"

The virgi will defly leave u alone after this...I mean if ur "TRYING" to leave 🤷‍♀️

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Posted by Earthy
Virgo sun cancer moon here

I do this all the time. I do better if the person pretty much just adds me to the thing. Then I feel like I cant let them down. Then i end up so happy they did becuz i have a great time😊

See I would but I planned it with a friend & we’re all flying in from different places. He has to buy his flight. He knows I’m willing to find him cheap flights & I told him he’s welcomed to come. If he buys his flight I can plan the rest 😩

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Honestly in that situation I wouldn't go.

Idk just feel like if you planned with a friend and not me fron the beginning-than I'm just a second thought. So i might suggest but never really have intentions of going

Virgo sun cancer moon here

I do this all the time. I do better if the person pretty much just adds me to the thing. Then I feel like I cant let them down. Then i end up so happy they did becuz i have a great time😊

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Runs into the next room and looks up sex tips on Reddit.

This guy has had some virgos🤣🤣🤣

I mean virgo women suck

Why would you want that. Waste of time🚮

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Fetus deletus

Sorry, not to be rude, but that’s kind of insensitive. These kind of events cause great emotional trauma for women. I was pregnant and choosing to terminate the pregnancy was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do in my life. I still regret my decision 100 % to this day. Terminating a pregnancy can have long term emotional and psychological effects on the women enduring it. I can tell you that most women who do end up having to baby don’t regret their decision at all. It will be hard, but she can do it. People find ways. She’s a strong woman with whatever decision she chooses.

I had an abortion and it didn't cause me any trauma because I knew it was the right thing to do for the child. I made the decision based on my ability to raise a child at the time and I do not regret it in the least. We are all different. As long as you are doing what feels right for yourself AND the child.. most importantly the child.

Soooooo
Your thought process is that destroying the baby was " what felt right to the child" 🤣🤣🤣

I mean if it was best for you...do wat you have to. But let's not pretend the baby would have grown up to say " you should have just killed me mom" 🤣🤣🤣 bullbutter

You completely misunderstand the point. If you can't provide for a child financially, are not in a good place mentally or don't have support to raise a child, it's selfish to have one PERIOD. It's not about what's best for me.. I was not in a good place financially and I was in an abusive relationship. Tell me how bringing a child into an abusive relationship was going to benefit it in any way at all.. Clearly I was not managing myself to the best of my ability if I was staying in a butterty relationship.. what kind of mother could I be if I didn't even have my own butter together?? What kind of role model would I be clinging to someone who abused me?? Sad that women don't even think about who they are as a person before reproducing.. casue it's super fkn important.

But okay, lets pretend like suicide never ever happens. People are depressed as treetrunk these days and most of it stems from a poor upbringing. If I can't provide a child with a decent upbringing then yes, they are better off not being in this world. Not to mention that the state of the world isn't a great place to bring a child into anyways..

I didnt miss the point at all I dont think?🤔

I believe in women having the choice so watever was best for you. But wat I was saying is do u believe people that's extremely disabled or people that are in poverty better off dead!!!!
I'm a product of a rape...my mom was 14
I also grew up in very hard situations. My mom kept me. Did the best she could.

I grew up to be very successful, and emotionally well balanced becuz I was loved.

My point is death gives the child no chance. Which would be better for you not to have to go thro the hardship. But not the child
My opinion is that it's a cop out but watever🤷‍♀️

I'm pretty sure majority of people living in poverty even want and strive for better for themselves.. so No, in no way am I saying they are better off dead. I am saying why bring a child into this world knowing they will face hardships and struggle.
I'm not about to just throw the dice and take a chance.. Life is hard enough on it's own. Children need proper support and guidance, they need a good role model and they need to be instilled with proper morals and values or they are going to struggle in life. That's awesome that you had a good Mom who did her very best for you, you are lucky! Being a parent is the hardest and most serious job on the planet, yet anyone is able to do it. Heck ya can't even get a job at MacDonalds without proving yourself worthy and being interviewed, but to be a parent, shiiit all you need is a reproductive system. That doesn't mean people shouldn't consider how they will effect the life of another human being. It's a big deal, not something you just gamble on and say, we'll see how it goes.. I'd want my children to have a happy and successful life, not just a chance at it.. So I'd be damn sure I had all my ducks in a row before trying to pave a path for someone else.

Thank you for all of your input guys, I decided to abort my pregnancy for now. Ive given thoughts about it and wavering btw aborting it or not but I think its best to not having a baby for right now. I know I made mistakes and its not fair for the baby to pay for it, but I think its best. I do not want to put my baby in poverty situation because ive been there and I grew up in malfunction family. I don't want my baby to say what I said to my mother, "I wish I would've never been born." To the single mother out there, I just want to say, "I'm proud of you and youre doing a good job. I wish I could be more like you."

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*cyber hugz*🤗🤗🤗
Your gonna be just fine😊....learn from this and dont allow unwanted pregnancies to happen again.

I believe aborting must be a hard decision as well. I cant imagine doing it!!!! But I may just be to weak to go thro with it😔...that said I'm proud of you. For making a choice that was best for you, and hopefully no matter (how heart cringing it maybe) following thro with it.

Good luck

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Hugzzz @Earthy

I dont know why but I love hugs
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

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Posted by Whorpio
Fetus deletus

Sorry, not to be rude, but that’s kind of insensitive. These kind of events cause great emotional trauma for women. I was pregnant and choosing to terminate the pregnancy was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do in my life. I still regret my decision 100 % to this day. Terminating a pregnancy can have long term emotional and psychological effects on the women enduring it. I can tell you that most women who do end up having to baby don’t regret their decision at all. It will be hard, but she can do it. People find ways. She’s a strong woman with whatever decision she chooses.

I had an abortion and it didn't cause me any trauma because I knew it was the right thing to do for the child. I made the decision based on my ability to raise a child at the time and I do not regret it in the least. We are all different. As long as you are doing what feels right for yourself AND the child.. most importantly the child.

Soooooo
Your thought process is that destroying the baby was " what felt right to the child" 🤣🤣🤣

I mean if it was best for you...do wat you have to. But let's not pretend the baby would have grown up to say " you should have just killed me mom" 🤣🤣🤣 bullbutter

i dunno, i tell my mom all the time she shouldve just aborted me 🤷🏻‍♀️

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🤣🤣 idk then....that probably has something to do with deep mental issues going on there

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Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

Posted by Whorpio
Fetus deletus

Sorry, not to be rude, but that’s kind of insensitive. These kind of events cause great emotional trauma for women. I was pregnant and choosing to terminate the pregnancy was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do in my life. I still regret my decision 100 % to this day. Terminating a pregnancy can have long term emotional and psychological effects on the women enduring it. I can tell you that most women who do end up having to baby don’t regret their decision at all. It will be hard, but she can do it. People find ways. She’s a strong woman with whatever decision she chooses.

I had an abortion and it didn't cause me any trauma because I knew it was the right thing to do for the child. I made the decision based on my ability to raise a child at the time and I do not regret it in the least. We are all different. As long as you are doing what feels right for yourself AND the child.. most importantly the child.

Soooooo
Your thought process is that destroying the baby was " what felt right to the child" 🤣🤣🤣

I mean if it was best for you...do wat you have to. But let's not pretend the baby would have grown up to say " you should have just killed me mom" 🤣🤣🤣 bullbutter

You completely misunderstand the point. If you can't provide for a child financially, are not in a good place mentally or don't have support to raise a child, it's selfish to have one PERIOD. It's not about what's best for me.. I was not in a good place financially and I was in an abusive relationship. Tell me how bringing a child into an abusive relationship was going to benefit it in any way at all.. Clearly I was not managing myself to the best of my ability if I was staying in a butterty relationship.. what kind of mother could I be if I didn't even have my own butter together?? What kind of role model would I be clinging to someone who abused me?? Sad that women don't even think about who they are as a person before reproducing.. casue it's super fkn important.

But okay, lets pretend like suicide never ever happens. People are depressed as treetrunk these days and most of it stems from a poor upbringing. If I can't provide a child with a decent upbringing then yes, they are better off not being in this world. Not to mention that the state of the world isn't a great place to bring a child into anyways..

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I didnt miss the point at all I dont think?🤔

I believe in women having the choice so watever was best for you. But wat I was saying is do u believe people that's extremely disabled or people that are in poverty better off dead!!!!
I'm a product of a rape...my mom was 14
I also grew up in very hard situations. My mom kept me. Did the best she could.

I grew up to be very successful, and emotionally well balanced becuz I was loved.

My point is death gives the child no chance. Which would be better for you not to have to go thro the hardship. But not the child
My opinion is that it's a cop out but watever🤷‍♀️

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Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

Posted by Whorpio
Fetus deletus

Sorry, not to be rude, but that’s kind of insensitive. These kind of events cause great emotional trauma for women. I was pregnant and choosing to terminate the pregnancy was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do in my life. I still regret my decision 100 % to this day. Terminating a pregnancy can have long term emotional and psychological effects on the women enduring it. I can tell you that most women who do end up having to baby don’t regret their decision at all. It will be hard, but she can do it. People find ways. She’s a strong woman with whatever decision she chooses.

I had an abortion and it didn't cause me any trauma because I knew it was the right thing to do for the child. I made the decision based on my ability to raise a child at the time and I do not regret it in the least. We are all different. As long as you are doing what feels right for yourself AND the child.. most importantly the child.

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Soooooo
Your thought process is that destroying the baby was " what felt right to the child" 🤣🤣🤣

I mean if it was best for you...do wat you have to. But let's not pretend the baby would have grown up to say " you should have just killed me mom" 🤣🤣🤣 bullbutter

Posted by libraman20
Don't wanna be overdramatic but the love of my life was a Virgo Woman, and we haven't seen each other in 2 years. She also had Libra placements and Pluto prominent in her chart (Leo Moon sq Pluto), while I also had Virgo placements and Pluto prominent in my chart (Scorp Venus conj Pluto)...we were the same age so our outer planet aspects overlapped.

In a vacuum, I'd say the biggest issue is the Virgo tendency to be critical and the Libra's sensitivity. And with Libra's indecisiveness, Virgo is bound to criticize and Libra will be knocked "off balance".

Another criticism I've heard (and experienced to some extent) is that Virgo needs to feel needed, and Libra feels the need to fill whatever void is in the other partner...so this could end badly, as Libra is usually the one in the relationship that sacrifices, but since Virgos legitimately NEED to feel needed, they can become more selfish in a relationship like this (which Virgos will call out, and starts the cycle all over again).

On the plus side, both signs are intellectual, like art/aesthetics, are socially conscious (usually), and are communicators.

My 15 year experience with a libra exactly😭😭
It ended so painfully...first love as well. We were so good together yet also a treetrunking disaster as well🤦‍♀️

I think most are curious but kinda dont wanna know.

It's like imagine your guy doing what he does to you...to the other 10000 women he has had.

That's a lot of kitty to mouth action!!!...no thanks I rather not know