Posted by HippeeGemPosted by Earthy
I'll post more tomorrow
Apparently I write alot😂😂
You write so freely, I think that’s admirable and shows your bravery. I love to write and can’t share. I did once, I wrote a book and was almost done and shared a bit of it with a few friends, my kiddos, and my ex husband. I never finished it. I always want to, though I make excuses and am my own worst enemy some days.
I only shared the prologue and every person in there own way told me they got chills or cried. Which is what I was completely going for.
You’re writing about your own personal experiences is a beautiful thing. It’s honest and real. And meaningful.
Congrats on your engagement 🙏click to expand
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Omg... are you engaged to the Aries ? 🥰😍😍😍😍😍😍
Posted by saggurl88
These are beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Are you engaged to the person you were writing about?
Posted by Aniesha23Posted by Earthy
I have a scorp bestie,
And I love what ur describing about them.
Not what ur sister has done ( that's extreme) but more the "sneaky" thing ur describing. I love people who keep parts of themselves/their lives private. That's how I see it..."private" not "sneaky"
Everyone isnt entitled to know EVERYTHING about you....this includes family as well.
And have u ever asked her if she ran drugs? Doubt it! So why wouldn't u call it not freely giving info
Why do u immediately go to sneaky...lol
Seems it says more about u and paranoia,distrust,and insecurities that u may have.
Yes she's ur sister but u dont get to just know everything about her....and like u said...you guys aren't that close.
Also: even if shes a cookiemonster ( she could be: scorps ya know🤷♀️) dont use her downfall as a reason to have a " shes not all that" moment
Do better Aries🙄
I don’t care that I did not know everything, people are entitled to not share every detail about themselves. But when you’re living under a roof with other people and a minor, you would expect a little more consideration on the decisions everyone makes, especially big ones like that. This ordeal has affected us badly, social services got involved.
She had a boyfriend who she used to lay down with who never knew what she was upto, maybe deal with a situation like this first before deflecting and claiming it is paranoia and insecurities.
But like I said my mother is a very understanding woman, any issues that she was having that lead to her making those decisions could have been stopped.
Apparently I should be the one who should do better when she has never owned up to what she had done, didn’t care how that affected me, my future. She’s a grown woman, my older sibling it never occured to her explain what had happened because she did not care to. I saw how my mum treated me for it, so in the end kept it to myself to not allow the same to be done to her, yet I am the one who needs to do better. Ridiculous.
And why would I even sit there and think to ask her about if she’s ever run drugs, when someone holds themselves to a high standard and judges others for doing so called “stupid things” It would be the last thing to cross my mind. Like how does that even make any sense?!
I was only only trying to give background information on our family history in general, to explain dynamics and if there would of been a route to her to hide something like this. I’ve never made her feel like butter about this, I was just more hurt about this made my mother feel about her parenting skills, like she failed her.
At this point I was only trying to figure out how I can assist my mum in maintaining a relationship with her, my mothers always done her best by us I just want her to have a peace of mind.
anyways thanks for your opinion.click to expand
Posted by virgoopPosted by Earthy
Deftly feeling that divide as well
i don't know if it's a mutable thing or whatever but in many other interactions i've been feeling this. i've had this fwb with a Cap sun/Leo moon. it was purely sexual and whenever he tried to start convos, i just hated every minute. i prefer he does NOT talk to me. i don't wanna know anything about him on a personal level. and if i dig a little deeper, i probably will NOT like him.
but then this Pisces sun/Libra moon is different. we've been talking for some time now. i've been very honest about dating other men but he seems to accept this and he shares a lot about himself to me. i LIKE this guy, genuinely and on a personal level. but oddly enough, i'm not really in a hurry to bang him.
in fact, he's fine with me dragging on and on topics that last for days and weeks.click to expand