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Posted by zmegma
__5_ I can become entirely absorbed in thinking about my personal affairs, my health, my cares or my relations to others.

_2__ My feelings are easily hurt by ridicule or the slighting remarks of others.

__4_ When I enter a room I often become self-conscious and feel that the eyes of others are upon me.

_1__ I dislike sharing the credit of an achievement with others.

__2_ I feel that I have enough on my hand without worrying about other people's troubles.

__5_ I feel that I am temperamentally different from most people.

_2__ I often interpret the remarks of others in a personal way.

_2__ I easily become wrapped up in my own interests and forget the existence of others.

3___ I dislike being with a group unless I know that I am appreciated by at least one of those present.

__1_ I am secretly "put out" or annoyed when other people come to me with their troubles, asking me for their time and sympathy.

_1__ I am jealous of good-looking people.

_3__ I tend to feel humiliated when criticized.

__5 I wonder why other people aren't more appreciative of my good qualities.

__2_ I tend to see other people as being either great or terrible.

_1__ I sometimes have fantasies about being violent without knowing why.

_4__ I am especially sensitive to success and failure.

__2_ I have problems that nobody else seems to understand.

__4_ I try to avoid rejection at all costs.

__5_ My secret thoughts, feelings, and actions would horrify some of my friends.

_2__ I tend to become involved in relationships in which I alternately adore and despise the other person.

_4__ Even when I am in a group of friends, I often feel very alone and uneasy.

_1__1 I resent others who have what I lack.

__3_3 Defeat or disappointment usually shame or anger me, but I try not to show it.

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Posted by Earthy
Hey there you ARies people👋🏼

Got a question for you....how easy Is it for you to lose trust in someone you once trusted?

Like in a relationship

Is the first sign of dishonesty turn you guys off forever even after years of trust? Or are you able to sustain if it’s only slightly dishonest but no betrayal happened per say?

Any thoughts are appreciated

Once lost, your ass is done.
And don’t believe me if I say otherwise.
But half my chart and my Venus are in Earth, so that’s probably why.

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Damn fire signs with earth placements 🙄

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Posted by Earthy
🙄 he’s really gonna make me work for it isn’t he.

I feel like he’s such a baby!!! Walking around sulking. I tried talking until he melts but that blank unresponsive look is driving me mad...
Just say “ I don’t give a butter” Becuz that’s wat his face is saying😠😠

I’m really getting pissed Becuz he isn’t responding at all....he rather ask me questions and when I answer ....just blank looks. 😑😑😑😑

I WANT HIM TO STOP PUNISHING ME!!!

I know exactly wat he’s doing.he wants me to beg, or cry....
Not a treetrunking chance!!!!!
😪
I’m seriously having a melt down....🙈

You won’t beg or cry because of pride?

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Maybe

But really I’m not gonna beg or cry Becuz one I’m not good at faking my emotions and I don’t really feel the need to cry or beg

And also Becuz if this situation makes him want to move on I don’t believe nor would I want him to stay

That would mean we have a foundational difference in the perspection of wat loyalty is.
For me I know that’s not something that can be corrected so I’d rather know sooner than later.

So I just refuse to display emotions that I don’t teall feel in a effort just to make him happy

Tho I would totally cry if I needed to

Posted by Ariesf
As an aries (female, though), it sounds like he’s acting like a baby. I don’t think you did anything wrong. Sounds like he’s insecure, which makes him a bit jealous and paranoid - and that doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with you.

Okay, yeah, if my bf started receiving texts from his ex, I would want him to tell me. Which you did, right? But not make a big deal out of it, just ‘My ex texted me, he/she wrote this and that.’

As for ‘trust in a relationship’ - I don’t trust a lot of people (honorable mention to gemini moons for being the best secret-keepers, if any of you are reading this). But I’m not sure it’s even in my vocabulary, I never think about the concept of ‘trust’ at all. It’s more like... whether you’re good to me or not. Hurt me bad once, okay. Hurt me bad twice, we might have to do some serious damage control. After that, if I’ve already told you what hurts my feelings, but you continue to do it, then I’m over it for good. You’ve proven you don’t care about my feelings.

Are you a virgo? I get that impression. As an aries, I definitely think that mercury-ruled virgo and gemini are the best at handling conflicts and taking care of my feelings. What I like about you guys is that you want to talk it out, no power fights (I’m looking at you, leo), just being open about how you feel, listening to how I feel, and find solutions on how to solve the problem. You’re very humble and solution-oriented, and I admire and appreciate that. That way we can move on quickly after the fight. So yeah, I would advice you to try to get him talking. Focus on his feelings and on finding solutions. ‘How do you feel, why did it hurt your feelings, and what can I do to make sure I don’t hurt your feelings again?’. So you can move on together.

I realize I’ve mentioned ‘feelings’ a lot, so I guess the cat’s out of the bag. We do have feelings. Sorry, guys

I absolutely loved reading this...it was full of ur personality🙂

But yes I’m a Virgo an I’m super solution driven. I also felt I did nothing wrong ( maybe I should have said something sooner) but if his feelings were hurt I deftly wanted to address my mistake so it won’t happen again in the future.

It’s weird he said the same about trust... where as I’m all about trust with my partner. I literally fall in/out of love depending on how much trust I have for the person. So I was worried I broke it and wanted to fix that of course.

I finally got him talking ( I actually didn’t do anything) and he expressed that he felt I hide it intentional or I wasn’t going to tell him. We seem to be slowly getting past it I guess.

Thanks again for you input I enjoyed readings it

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Posted by CancerAquaSagg
Oh I see many haters on this thread. All of them are women. Wonder why 🙄

☝🏽🙂 hi yea

Actually I wasn’t hating just to be clear.

Just restating “ facts” you alreAdy stated and giving a reason why a man might choose one partner or another

Usually the one they reject just isn’t “ good enough”

That’s all 👋🏼

Also wats the damn point of texting me all night. Why not just come home? Or Leave me alone and stay out???!

treetrunk this I’m gonna go bake something

🙄 he’s really gonna make me work for it isn’t he.

I feel like he’s such a baby!!! Walking around sulking. I tried talking until he melts but that blank unresponsive look is driving me mad...
Just say “ I don’t give a butter” Becuz that’s wat his face is saying😠😠

I’m really getting pissed Becuz he isn’t responding at all....he rather ask me questions and when I answer ....just blank looks. 😑😑😑😑

I WANT HIM TO STOP PUNISHING ME!!!

I know exactly wat he’s doing.he wants me to beg, or cry....
Not a treetrunking chance!!!!!
😪
I’m seriously having a melt down....🙈

Maybe the not prettier than u.....fat chick had more to offer him than you🤷🏽‍♀️

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Wait... wyd

It’s a struggle Sis.....

I think I treetrunked up for real

HUH-
YOU BETTER SUCC HIS DIC AS AN APOLOGY WYD oh dear no, you can’t lose ur Aries man I’ll crie 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

You know I already tried it -but he wasn’t in the mood 😵😵😵
He’s always in the mood!


He played the game all night and never even came to bed....this morning he gave me a yuck peak and off he went

Wat happened to my booty grabs😭😭😭

WHAT-

Oh dear Neptune

I was thinking if I could get him to express how upset it is we might can work it out.

But I hate confrontation so I don’t even know how to get it out of him....

Wondering if I push the issue about the way he is acting with me maybe he will explode with his feelings......

Idk if that’s a good idea tho😪

NOT a good idea.

If you are the cause, take ownership of the situation from communication to repair.

I tried to at least talk about it

But he seems to wanna shy away from the convo. He has shut down ( hopefully temporarily) and I have no idea of how to get him back engaged. Maybe just wait until he’s more open to discuss it?

If you caused it, why does he have to speak?
You talk until he melts.

I agree with this

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Me too

I just never thought of it that way.

Idk my Virgo mind says having a convo involves BOTH people adding to it. So this frame of thinking just isn’t natural to me.

But that’s why I’m asking these ARies ppl

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Wait... wyd

It’s a struggle Sis.....

I think I treetrunked up for real

HUH-
YOU BETTER SUCC HIS DIC AS AN APOLOGY WYD oh dear no, you can’t lose ur Aries man I’ll crie 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

You know I already tried it -but he wasn’t in the mood 😵😵😵
He’s always in the mood!


He played the game all night and never even came to bed....this morning he gave me a yuck peak and off he went

Wat happened to my booty grabs😭😭😭

WHAT-

Oh dear Neptune

I was thinking if I could get him to express how upset it is we might can work it out.

But I hate confrontation so I don’t even know how to get it out of him....

Wondering if I push the issue about the way he is acting with me maybe he will explode with his feelings......

Idk if that’s a good idea tho😪

I get where you’re coming from, but I know virgos and we HATE tension. It messes with our tummies. The best thing to do would be to talk it out. That’s what we’re good at.

A silent, angered Aries is a scary one. He needs to react, yell, throw a temper tantrum. But silence? Oh dear Neptune

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Exactly wat I was thinking. He’s reactive usually. If he doesn’t like something I’d deftly will hear about how he feels. And his tantrum throwing I can handle

But this just nothingness is freaking me out😖.....he is just giving me this look....like I’m new to him or something

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Wait... wyd

It’s a struggle Sis.....

I think I treetrunked up for real

HUH-
YOU BETTER SUCC HIS DIC AS AN APOLOGY WYD oh dear no, you can’t lose ur Aries man I’ll crie 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

You know I already tried it -but he wasn’t in the mood 😵😵😵
He’s always in the mood!


He played the game all night and never even came to bed....this morning he gave me a yuck peak and off he went

Wat happened to my booty grabs😭😭😭

WHAT-

Oh dear Neptune

I was thinking if I could get him to express how upset it is we might can work it out.

But I hate confrontation so I don’t even know how to get it out of him....

Wondering if I push the issue about the way he is acting with me maybe he will explode with his feelings......

Idk if that’s a good idea tho😪

NOT a good idea.

If you are the cause, take ownership of the situation from communication to repair.

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I tried to at least talk about it

But he seems to wanna shy away from the convo. He has shut down ( hopefully temporarily) and I have no idea of how to get him back engaged. Maybe just wait until he’s more open to discuss it?

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Wait... wyd

It’s a struggle Sis.....

I think I treetrunked up for real

HUH-
YOU BETTER SUCC HIS DIC AS AN APOLOGY WYD oh dear no, you can’t lose ur Aries man I’ll crie 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

You know I already tried it -but he wasn’t in the mood 😵😵😵
He’s always in the mood!


He played the game all night and never even came to bed....this morning he gave me a yuck peak and off he went

Wat happened to my booty grabs😭😭😭

WHAT-

Oh dear Neptune

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I was thinking if I could get him to express how upset it is we might can work it out.

But I hate confrontation so I don’t even know how to get it out of him....

Wondering if I push the issue about the way he is acting with me maybe he will explode with his feelings......

Idk if that’s a good idea tho😪

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by Earthy

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Wait... wyd

It’s a struggle Sis.....

I think I treetrunked up for real

HUH-
YOU BETTER SUCC HIS DIC AS AN APOLOGY WYD oh dear no, you can’t lose ur Aries man I’ll crie 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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You know I already tried it -but he wasn’t in the mood 😵😵😵
He’s always in the mood!


He played the game all night and never even came to bed....this morning he gave me a yuck peak and off he went

Wat happened to my booty grabs😭😭😭

Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Wait... wyd

It’s a struggle Sis.....

I think I treetrunked up for real

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Earthy

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Earthy

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Posted by Earthy
Hey there you ARies people👋🏼

Got a question for you....how easy Is it for you to lose trust in someone you once trusted?

Like in a relationship

Is the first sign of dishonesty turn you guys off forever even after years of trust? Or are you able to sustain if it’s only slightly dishonest but no betrayal happened per say?

Any thoughts are appreciated

To me, there is no such thing "trust." I don't believe in it. It's the most ficticious word. Why? Why think like that? What does it do for you? What is their to gain?

People have patterns. Most aren't even self-aware. We change all the time. It's lazy mind thinking.

So you would assume ur partner who has had a pattern of honesty has changed?

Therefore no longer a honest person?
Trying to understand your frame of thought

I would know that I'm getting to know them better.

Then, I would start reading for lies with physical "tells" in an attempt to get to know them even better.

I wouldn't be so egoistic to think that any of it centers around me.

I haven't read the other posts. So, it seems there is a specific event you're writing about.

Yes plz read the details

Also aren’t u married to a Virgo?

Yes, I am.

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I thought so....

I’m just worried Becuz my ARies is unusually quiet
I’m the virgo btw

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Posted by Earthy
Hey there you ARies people👋🏼

Got a question for you....how easy Is it for you to lose trust in someone you once trusted?

Like in a relationship

Is the first sign of dishonesty turn you guys off forever even after years of trust? Or are you able to sustain if it’s only slightly dishonest but no betrayal happened per say?

Any thoughts are appreciated

To me, there is no such thing "trust." I don't believe in it. It's the most ficticious word. Why? Why think like that? What does it do for you? What is their to gain?

People have patterns. Most aren't even self-aware. We change all the time. It's lazy mind thinking.

So you would assume ur partner who has had a pattern of honesty has changed?

Therefore no longer a honest person?
Trying to understand your frame of thought

I would know that I'm getting to know them better.

Then, I would start reading for lies with physical "tells" in an attempt to get to know them even better.

I wouldn't be so egoistic to think that any of it centers around me.

I haven't read the other posts. So, it seems there is a specific event you're writing about.

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Yes plz read the details

Also aren’t u married to a Virgo?

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Posted by Earthy
Hey there you ARies people👋🏼

Got a question for you....how easy Is it for you to lose trust in someone you once trusted?

Like in a relationship

Is the first sign of dishonesty turn you guys off forever even after years of trust? Or are you able to sustain if it’s only slightly dishonest but no betrayal happened per say?

Any thoughts are appreciated

To me, there is no such thing "trust." I don't believe in it. It's the most ficticious word. Why? Why think like that? What does it do for you? What is their to gain?

People have patterns. Most aren't even self-aware. We change all the time. It's lazy mind thinking.

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So you would assume ur partner who has had a pattern of honesty has changed?

Therefore no longer a honest person?
Trying to understand your frame of thought

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Posted by Earthy
Hey there you ARies people👋🏼

Got a question for you....how easy Is it for you to lose trust in someone you once trusted?

Like in a relationship

Is the first sign of dishonesty turn you guys off forever even after years of trust? Or are you able to sustain if it’s only slightly dishonest but no betrayal happened per say?

Any thoughts are appreciated

Depending on how many water or earth placements in their chart...

Me...I either completely trust someone or completely don't. For dishonest, it depends on the motive.

🤔 I know his basic placements

Sun:Aries
Moon:CAP
Mars: Cancer
Venus:Aries

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