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Posted by Earthy
Virgo sun cancer moon here

I do this all the time. I do better if the person pretty much just adds me to the thing. Then I feel like I cant let them down. Then i end up so happy they did becuz i have a great time😊

See I would but I planned it with a friend & we’re all flying in from different places. He has to buy his flight. He knows I’m willing to find him cheap flights & I told him he’s welcomed to come. If he buys his flight I can plan the rest 😩

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Honestly in that situation I wouldn't go.

Idk just feel like if you planned with a friend and not me fron the beginning-than I'm just a second thought. So i might suggest but never really have intentions of going

Virgo sun cancer moon here

I do this all the time. I do better if the person pretty much just adds me to the thing. Then I feel like I cant let them down. Then i end up so happy they did becuz i have a great time😊

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Runs into the next room and looks up sex tips on Reddit.

This guy has had some virgos🤣🤣🤣

I mean virgo women suck

Why would you want that. Waste of time🚮

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Fetus deletus

Sorry, not to be rude, but that’s kind of insensitive. These kind of events cause great emotional trauma for women. I was pregnant and choosing to terminate the pregnancy was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do in my life. I still regret my decision 100 % to this day. Terminating a pregnancy can have long term emotional and psychological effects on the women enduring it. I can tell you that most women who do end up having to baby don’t regret their decision at all. It will be hard, but she can do it. People find ways. She’s a strong woman with whatever decision she chooses.

I had an abortion and it didn't cause me any trauma because I knew it was the right thing to do for the child. I made the decision based on my ability to raise a child at the time and I do not regret it in the least. We are all different. As long as you are doing what feels right for yourself AND the child.. most importantly the child.

Soooooo
Your thought process is that destroying the baby was " what felt right to the child" 🤣🤣🤣

I mean if it was best for you...do wat you have to. But let's not pretend the baby would have grown up to say " you should have just killed me mom" 🤣🤣🤣 bullbutter

You completely misunderstand the point. If you can't provide for a child financially, are not in a good place mentally or don't have support to raise a child, it's selfish to have one PERIOD. It's not about what's best for me.. I was not in a good place financially and I was in an abusive relationship. Tell me how bringing a child into an abusive relationship was going to benefit it in any way at all.. Clearly I was not managing myself to the best of my ability if I was staying in a butterty relationship.. what kind of mother could I be if I didn't even have my own butter together?? What kind of role model would I be clinging to someone who abused me?? Sad that women don't even think about who they are as a person before reproducing.. casue it's super fkn important.

But okay, lets pretend like suicide never ever happens. People are depressed as treetrunk these days and most of it stems from a poor upbringing. If I can't provide a child with a decent upbringing then yes, they are better off not being in this world. Not to mention that the state of the world isn't a great place to bring a child into anyways..

I didnt miss the point at all I dont think?🤔

I believe in women having the choice so watever was best for you. But wat I was saying is do u believe people that's extremely disabled or people that are in poverty better off dead!!!!
I'm a product of a rape...my mom was 14
I also grew up in very hard situations. My mom kept me. Did the best she could.

I grew up to be very successful, and emotionally well balanced becuz I was loved.

My point is death gives the child no chance. Which would be better for you not to have to go thro the hardship. But not the child
My opinion is that it's a cop out but watever🤷‍♀️

I'm pretty sure majority of people living in poverty even want and strive for better for themselves.. so No, in no way am I saying they are better off dead. I am saying why bring a child into this world knowing they will face hardships and struggle.
I'm not about to just throw the dice and take a chance.. Life is hard enough on it's own. Children need proper support and guidance, they need a good role model and they need to be instilled with proper morals and values or they are going to struggle in life. That's awesome that you had a good Mom who did her very best for you, you are lucky! Being a parent is the hardest and most serious job on the planet, yet anyone is able to do it. Heck ya can't even get a job at MacDonalds without proving yourself worthy and being interviewed, but to be a parent, shiiit all you need is a reproductive system. That doesn't mean people shouldn't consider how they will effect the life of another human being. It's a big deal, not something you just gamble on and say, we'll see how it goes.. I'd want my children to have a happy and successful life, not just a chance at it.. So I'd be damn sure I had all my ducks in a row before trying to pave a path for someone else.

Thank you for all of your input guys, I decided to abort my pregnancy for now. Ive given thoughts about it and wavering btw aborting it or not but I think its best to not having a baby for right now. I know I made mistakes and its not fair for the baby to pay for it, but I think its best. I do not want to put my baby in poverty situation because ive been there and I grew up in malfunction family. I don't want my baby to say what I said to my mother, "I wish I would've never been born." To the single mother out there, I just want to say, "I'm proud of you and youre doing a good job. I wish I could be more like you."

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*cyber hugz*🤗🤗🤗
Your gonna be just fine😊....learn from this and dont allow unwanted pregnancies to happen again.

I believe aborting must be a hard decision as well. I cant imagine doing it!!!! But I may just be to weak to go thro with it😔...that said I'm proud of you. For making a choice that was best for you, and hopefully no matter (how heart cringing it maybe) following thro with it.

Good luck

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Hugzzz @Earthy

I dont know why but I love hugs
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

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Posted by Whorpio
Fetus deletus

Sorry, not to be rude, but that’s kind of insensitive. These kind of events cause great emotional trauma for women. I was pregnant and choosing to terminate the pregnancy was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do in my life. I still regret my decision 100 % to this day. Terminating a pregnancy can have long term emotional and psychological effects on the women enduring it. I can tell you that most women who do end up having to baby don’t regret their decision at all. It will be hard, but she can do it. People find ways. She’s a strong woman with whatever decision she chooses.

I had an abortion and it didn't cause me any trauma because I knew it was the right thing to do for the child. I made the decision based on my ability to raise a child at the time and I do not regret it in the least. We are all different. As long as you are doing what feels right for yourself AND the child.. most importantly the child.

Soooooo
Your thought process is that destroying the baby was " what felt right to the child" 🤣🤣🤣

I mean if it was best for you...do wat you have to. But let's not pretend the baby would have grown up to say " you should have just killed me mom" 🤣🤣🤣 bullbutter

i dunno, i tell my mom all the time she shouldve just aborted me 🤷🏻‍♀️

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🤣🤣 idk then....that probably has something to do with deep mental issues going on there

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Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

Posted by Whorpio
Fetus deletus

Sorry, not to be rude, but that’s kind of insensitive. These kind of events cause great emotional trauma for women. I was pregnant and choosing to terminate the pregnancy was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do in my life. I still regret my decision 100 % to this day. Terminating a pregnancy can have long term emotional and psychological effects on the women enduring it. I can tell you that most women who do end up having to baby don’t regret their decision at all. It will be hard, but she can do it. People find ways. She’s a strong woman with whatever decision she chooses.

I had an abortion and it didn't cause me any trauma because I knew it was the right thing to do for the child. I made the decision based on my ability to raise a child at the time and I do not regret it in the least. We are all different. As long as you are doing what feels right for yourself AND the child.. most importantly the child.

Soooooo
Your thought process is that destroying the baby was " what felt right to the child" 🤣🤣🤣

I mean if it was best for you...do wat you have to. But let's not pretend the baby would have grown up to say " you should have just killed me mom" 🤣🤣🤣 bullbutter

You completely misunderstand the point. If you can't provide for a child financially, are not in a good place mentally or don't have support to raise a child, it's selfish to have one PERIOD. It's not about what's best for me.. I was not in a good place financially and I was in an abusive relationship. Tell me how bringing a child into an abusive relationship was going to benefit it in any way at all.. Clearly I was not managing myself to the best of my ability if I was staying in a butterty relationship.. what kind of mother could I be if I didn't even have my own butter together?? What kind of role model would I be clinging to someone who abused me?? Sad that women don't even think about who they are as a person before reproducing.. casue it's super fkn important.

But okay, lets pretend like suicide never ever happens. People are depressed as treetrunk these days and most of it stems from a poor upbringing. If I can't provide a child with a decent upbringing then yes, they are better off not being in this world. Not to mention that the state of the world isn't a great place to bring a child into anyways..

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I didnt miss the point at all I dont think?🤔

I believe in women having the choice so watever was best for you. But wat I was saying is do u believe people that's extremely disabled or people that are in poverty better off dead!!!!
I'm a product of a rape...my mom was 14
I also grew up in very hard situations. My mom kept me. Did the best she could.

I grew up to be very successful, and emotionally well balanced becuz I was loved.

My point is death gives the child no chance. Which would be better for you not to have to go thro the hardship. But not the child
My opinion is that it's a cop out but watever🤷‍♀️

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Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

Posted by Whorpio
Fetus deletus

Sorry, not to be rude, but that’s kind of insensitive. These kind of events cause great emotional trauma for women. I was pregnant and choosing to terminate the pregnancy was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do in my life. I still regret my decision 100 % to this day. Terminating a pregnancy can have long term emotional and psychological effects on the women enduring it. I can tell you that most women who do end up having to baby don’t regret their decision at all. It will be hard, but she can do it. People find ways. She’s a strong woman with whatever decision she chooses.

I had an abortion and it didn't cause me any trauma because I knew it was the right thing to do for the child. I made the decision based on my ability to raise a child at the time and I do not regret it in the least. We are all different. As long as you are doing what feels right for yourself AND the child.. most importantly the child.

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Soooooo
Your thought process is that destroying the baby was " what felt right to the child" 🤣🤣🤣

I mean if it was best for you...do wat you have to. But let's not pretend the baby would have grown up to say " you should have just killed me mom" 🤣🤣🤣 bullbutter

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Don't wanna be overdramatic but the love of my life was a Virgo Woman, and we haven't seen each other in 2 years. She also had Libra placements and Pluto prominent in her chart (Leo Moon sq Pluto), while I also had Virgo placements and Pluto prominent in my chart (Scorp Venus conj Pluto)...we were the same age so our outer planet aspects overlapped.

In a vacuum, I'd say the biggest issue is the Virgo tendency to be critical and the Libra's sensitivity. And with Libra's indecisiveness, Virgo is bound to criticize and Libra will be knocked "off balance".

Another criticism I've heard (and experienced to some extent) is that Virgo needs to feel needed, and Libra feels the need to fill whatever void is in the other partner...so this could end badly, as Libra is usually the one in the relationship that sacrifices, but since Virgos legitimately NEED to feel needed, they can become more selfish in a relationship like this (which Virgos will call out, and starts the cycle all over again).

On the plus side, both signs are intellectual, like art/aesthetics, are socially conscious (usually), and are communicators.

My 15 year experience with a libra exactly😭😭
It ended so painfully...first love as well. We were so good together yet also a treetrunking disaster as well🤦‍♀️

I think most are curious but kinda dont wanna know.

It's like imagine your guy doing what he does to you...to the other 10000 women he has had.

That's a lot of kitty to mouth action!!!...no thanks I rather not know

Keeping the baby is a decision ONLY YOU have to make.

As far as leaving him tho🤔
Really it would depend on how he said it...like was it during a serious discussion about the pros and cons and maybe he was giving you his point of view. Or was it more of a.." I dont want no damn baby throw it away" kinda thing.

If the latter is true I would be out( whether keeping it or not) but if it was a adult discussion about options then I probably wouldn't. I'm assuming ur both young- at least you?

Raising a baby is hard alone...especially at first when u have to leave work, stay home and such
But babies are also a blessing🙏🙏

I would suggest forgetting about him for a second. Look inside your heart? Are YOU ready for this? If yes...try to consider a logical plan that works for you. If no....try to consider a logical plan that prevents this from happening again in the future.

This is one of those adult decisions you have to make after making adult decisions. And sweetie with unprotected sex it could be worst

Good luck🤗🤗🤗🙄🙄

😬 ouch

*scrolling in casually days after a birthday hang over**

Happy birthday virgos🙌😁🤗

👀🤣🤣🤣🤣

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I made a tread and it was too controversial. Lesson learned. Now I want to state clear that before you get mad consider this. Men are conquerors. It is in a man nature to want to reproduce with as many females as possible. It always been like that because it is in human nature to want to ensure the survival of it off springs. For the women is to consider the high quality man. For a man is too fertilize as many seeds as possible. Now we are moving above that with our current time. That is no longer valid because we have technologies, medicines and better overall environment for the survivor of the future generations. Even though we have those, Humans still got those basic primary desires. Now a broke man might be able to justify it on his mind that he only need one woman. This is because The desire is not being activated. The high quality man may also have it on his mind that he only need one woman. The moment he sees all women throwing themselves at him, especially beautiful ones those basic desires get activated. It going to make it difficult for him to resist. The more he is in that situation, the more is bound to break down. Why this? because it is in it nature to want to produce with as many women as he can. Cut everything short, when a women is marrying a man that many women want she got to be prepare for him to cheat, have mistresses, children outside of the marriage. Your kids having half siblings they are competing with. This is the truth that most people don't like to believe in or see in it. Not saying the men will cheat, but the temptation is high. so be prepare. I mean we see A list Hollywood actors marrying Thots(Anna Montana).

You are correct that is our biological hardwiring. But are we more then just that? Are YOU more then just that?

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Thank u...

The separation between animal and human= more than just instinctual drive

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So it's in a man's nature to wanna produce with many women?🤔

Is it in a womans nature to also wanna spread out her off spring to the strongest avaiable males...basically ensuring she has viable offspring. Happens in the wild

Wanna treetrunk....fight for it🤣🤣🤣🤣

It’s in a woman’s nature to choose the best male to father a child. We always have the choice. I chose a stable, hardworking, faithful, handsome man to have a baby with. Some women choose losers for some reason?

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Agreed but sounds like hes talking non monogamous society. And instincts.

But he seemed to have forgotten the part where it is the males...that seek out approval from the females in that scenario.

And unfortunately the women he might find high value in...might seek out other mates🤣🤣🤣

So it's in a man's nature to wanna produce with many women?🤔

Is it in a womans nature to also wanna spread out her off spring to the strongest avaiable males...basically ensuring she has viable offspring. Happens in the wild

Wanna treetrunk....fight for it🤣🤣🤣🤣