plz help me

i am a gemini woman and the man i love is a gemini sun,taurus moon and venus in gemini.

I feel so in tune with him and him too.he is not a flirt and the thing is that he doesnt express his thoughts or feelings to me or anyone despite his mercury in gemini.but the only situation that shows he cares is the jealousy its really frustruating.we would be cool and then a guy would come talk to me and he would turn cold and distant and gives me dirty looks and would talk less to me.

I tried all the techniques with him: i left him alone to cool off.would explain to him that these guys dont mean anything to me.i tried to brush it off.. Etc

but he is stubborn and told me once that he knows where to hit to make it hurt too !!

Because of this we make 1 step forward and 10 steps back. What can i do? Any ideas ?!

Posted by lilyofthevalley987
i am a gemini woman and the man i love is a gemini sun,taurus moon and venus in gemini.

I feel so in tune with him and him too.he is not a flirt and the thing is that he doesnt express his thoughts or feelings to me or anyone despite his mercury in gemini.but the only situation that shows he cares is the jealousy its really frustruating.we would be cool and then a guy would come talk to me and he would turn cold and distant and gives me dirty looks and would talk less to me.

I tried all the techniques with him: i left him alone to cool off.would explain to him that these guys dont mean anything to me.i tried to brush it off.. Etc

but he is stubborn and told me once that he knows where to hit to make it hurt too !!

Because of this we make 1 step forward and 10 steps back. What can i do? Any ideas ?!

¯\_(ツ)_/ ¯

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
I only talk about my feelings when there’s a practical reason for it.

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Posted by lilyofthevalley987
i am a gemini woman and the man i love is a gemini sun,taurus moon and venus in gemini.

I feel so in tune with him and him too.he is not a flirt and the thing is that he doesnt express his thoughts or feelings to me or anyone despite his mercury in gemini.but the only situation that shows he cares is the jealousy its really frustruating.we would be cool and then a guy would come talk to me and he would turn cold and distant and gives me dirty looks and would talk less to me.

I tried all the techniques with him: i left him alone to cool off.would explain to him that these guys dont mean anything to me.i tried to brush it off.. Etc

but he is stubborn and told me once that he knows where to hit to make it hurt too !!

Because of this we make 1 step forward and 10 steps back. What can i do? Any ideas ?!

Being a Gemini, what else can you do but to mirror? It's hard for me to understand Gemini men. I have one, who has been chasing me for almost a year, but it's more likely because I wasn't being too available for him. I guess that's what kept him there but he's a Leo moon. This is why I can never be with air sign men. Too much alike, it gets boring. 😛

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@Senorita_LL thank you for your reply, i visit the site frequently and you are my favorite gemini, i dont know you but you give off positive vibes and u seem like a beautiful person inside and out

Posted by Mutabull
I can relate. I have all those same placements and get very jealous in my relationship. I’ve had to learn to reign it in. Be patient but keep putting your foot down with mature conversations about it, not in the heat of the moment. Either he will be mature enough to recognize it’s about him and not about you..or he will continue to have issues in relationships regardless of who it is. Luckily I have a very patient boyfriend and once I finally really trusted him and he did things to compromise as well, we (I) no longer have those issues because I feel secure in him and in our relationship.

thank you, i'll take your advise and be patient, even though he gets on my nerves lol

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
I only talk about my feelings when there’s a practical reason for it.

can you elaborate please?

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Posted by lilyofthevalley987
i am a gemini woman and the man i love is a gemini sun,taurus moon and venus in gemini.

I feel so in tune with him and him too.he is not a flirt and the thing is that he doesnt express his thoughts or feelings to me or anyone despite his mercury in gemini.but the only situation that shows he cares is the jealousy its really frustruating.we would be cool and then a guy would come talk to me and he would turn cold and distant and gives me dirty looks and would talk less to me.

I tried all the techniques with him: i left him alone to cool off.would explain to him that these guys dont mean anything to me.i tried to brush it off.. Etc

but he is stubborn and told me once that he knows where to hit to make it hurt too !!

Because of this we make 1 step forward and 10 steps back. What can i do? Any ideas ?!

I doubt you can do a lot here other than either mirror his behavior or try to avoid getting attention from men till he feels secure in this relationship and the worst part? That emotional security may never happen. If someone what's to annoy you, trust me they will find something or the other to nitpick you upon...



One thing you can do is tell him other girls are hitting on him and turn the tables as to how insecure that makes you feel-- Even if other girls aren't checking him out! It works! They start to feel wanted and secure, try it!

He will be busy defending his ass from YOUR crazy accusations he won't have time to see how many guys are hitting on you!!!

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thank you, i will try it, because actually he talks to other women and when i ask he says that there is nothing going on and its all in my head !!

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Posted by Senorita_LL

Posted by lilyofthevalley987
i am a gemini woman and the man i love is a gemini sun,taurus moon and venus in gemini.

I feel so in tune with him and him too.he is not a flirt and the thing is that he doesnt express his thoughts or feelings to me or anyone despite his mercury in gemini.but the only situation that shows he cares is the jealousy its really frustruating.we would be cool and then a guy would come talk to me and he would turn cold and distant and gives me dirty looks and would talk less to me.

I tried all the techniques with him: i left him alone to cool off.would explain to him that these guys dont mean anything to me.i tried to brush it off.. Etc

but he is stubborn and told me once that he knows where to hit to make it hurt too !!

Because of this we make 1 step forward and 10 steps back. What can i do? Any ideas ?!

Being a Gemini, what else can you do but to mirror? It's hard for me to understand Gemini men. I have one, who has been chasing me for almost a year, but it's more likely because I wasn't being too available for him. I guess that's what kept him there but he's a Leo moon. This is why I can never be with air sign men. Too much alike, it gets boring. 😛

@Senorita_LL thank you for your reply, i visit the site frequently and you are my favorite gemini, i dont know you but you give off positive vibes and u seem like a beautiful person inside and out

LooL! Noooo, I still have the dark side of me. I can be insensitive and a lil bitter sometimes. That's how we Geminis are anyways. 😛

But I guess I can't deal with too much emotions or negativity cos' that would drive me insane.

Hope you managed to sort out with the Gemini. 😉

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lol i know exactly what u mean, i can get mean and sarcastic when provoked

as for my gemini he is all lovey dovey for now 😉 i just wanted some clarity on the situation thank you