What does my gemini ex want!

Posted by littlenanobyte
He wants to have his cake and eat it too.

Continue ignoring, he's a real jerk.

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Posted by pettypink

Posted by littlenanobyte
He wants to have his cake and eat it too.

Continue ignoring, he's a real jerk.

I dont get his mindset. Is that a normal gemini thing to do? I thought they usually moved on pretty fast and didn't care about the past. Why does he keep contacting me.

I sent him a message saying it wasn't respectful to send his ex snaps when he has a gf, and he responded saying "we can't be friends? and she knows"....Then he sent me another one of himself in bed alone. I ignored that.

As a fairly ~earthy pisces, I'm super confused...I moved on pretty well and was proud of my progress since the breakup, but there is a small, tiny part of me that still cares for him and is questioning what is going on. =/

I don't think he's trying to make you jealous. Sometimes I receive snapchats to my personal inbox that were the same photo or video that was posted to a public story, and I think "why the fuck would this person I haven't spoke to in years send me a photo of their dinner? And I don't think they do, or mean to. So I don't know how that works.

I do however think he is feeling guilty about the way that he chose to end things and I do think he is pathetic.

Sometimes geminis like to try to stay friends with their exes, but under those circumstances, I also would kind of hate him too?

I would delete him off of everything and never look back. Block him too.

He is truly a Grade A fuckboy and you dodged a bullet.

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Posted by littlenanobyte
Then maybe he is trying to make you jealous if you're certain that he's specifically choosing to send those photos to just you.

I don't trust him. Don't be a doormat, and show him that you mean business and will not tolerate what he did to you. It would be of doormat material for you to be his friend after that.

Damn! Your story here annoys me to no end. I would be such a nasty bitch to him ??

Posted by pettypink

Posted by littlenanobyte
Then maybe he is trying to make you jealous if you're certain that he's specifically choosing to send those photos to just you.

I don't trust him. Don't be a doormat, and show him that you mean business and will not tolerate what he did to you. It would be of doormat material for you to be his friend after that.

Damn! Your story here annoys me to no end. I would be such a nasty bitch to him ??

I wish I had your guts!! I have no intentions of being his friend, just need to take a hard stance.

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Posted by EvatheDiva

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Posted by littlenanobyte
Then maybe he is trying to make you jealous if you're certain that he's specifically choosing to send those photos to just you.

I don't trust him. Don't be a doormat, and show him that you mean business and will not tolerate what he did to you. It would be of doormat material for you to be his friend after that.

Damn! Your story here annoys me to no end. I would be such a nasty bitch to him ??

I wish I had your guts!! I have no intentions of being his friend, just need to take a hard stance.

You're Piscean like moi. Fellow Piscean....use your wet fish tail and slap his face w/it!!!! Don't you see when you respond back to him in ANY way, shape, or form, he is smiling at his end? We're good at "reading" people; and you're NOT using your 6th sense. He's having problems w/the chickie, having second thoughts of choosing the wrong "woman", and/or the "sex" isn't good w/this chickie. He wants to be "your friend" to keep you on the side when something goes wrong (and it will) w/this chickie that is in his life. Do you want that? That's why God created delete/block/ignore (in your BRAIN) buttons! Girl, when my ex-bf (Saggy) chastised my son (he's 10) I let the Saggy have it and severed ALL ties w/him, FB (blocked), cell phone (blocked), POF (blocked), my mind (BLOCKED) -- outta sight/outta mind. Girl, three days BEFORE my birthday I broke up w/him and told him, "IF you want to attend my birthday party, you are welcomed to do so (before I blocked him; hang in there w/the story). He attended. I danced with a guy I randomly asked while he was waiting for a drink since I was "single" and my ex-bf asked my STUPID girlfriend for her number and the STUPID girlfriend gave it to him!!! She later told me this a week AFTER my birthday and that's when I BLOCKED HIM!! I asked said girlfriend "why" she didn't tell me this while at my birthday party and her typical response was, "It was your birthday party, I didn't want to ruin your night". A man has to get us PISSED off in order for us to DELETE you (or use our wet fish tail to slap your face w/it! I hear it hurts MORE than to slap a man w/a dry hand across the face!). Also, I am back to POF (met a Cappy and he hasn't asked me to delete my account; Saggy asked and I did; Cappy is soooooooooooo different), anywhoooooooo, Saggy sent me a message on POF and I didn't want to read it! (read above on how PISSED I was!), by the corner of my eye utilizing my tablet I noticed it was a "short" message (my 6th sense tells me he said, "I miss you") as he texted me (I have a Microsoft phone; when I BLOCK you, I can still read the text you sent me), anyhooooo #2 I blocked his message via POF AND deleted the message, too. Men HATE to be ignored! But this Saggy (like your Gemini) realized, "We are the one that got away!". Just think this too when I said this, have you ever been fishing? If you haven't one catches a fish, one releases said fish by removing hook from its mouth, the fish wiggles, and plops outta the hands of said "fisherman" and lands back on the water to "swim away" for good. Enough said, "We Pisceans are the ones that 'got away'". On my FB page I have a poster that says, "So you've pissed off your Pisces -- sucks to be you!". Be PROUD that you are Piscean and can EASILY get on w/your life. I have. 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I am STILL friends w/ex-bf's BFF (female) on FB. I don't care if Sandra tells ex-bf (Saggy) about my working out four days a week (I post pics of me wearing my work out outfits and I've lost weight!); so this is my "subtle" way of getting BACK to the Saggy. 😈 Let me say this before I end this; three people told him not to treetrunk up the "new" relationship (Moi, Sandra, AND his church friend John). Well, he did.

🤗 cyber hugs!

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Posted by Miamia13

Posted by pettypink
New to this, but I was in an LDR with a Gemini man in his mid twenties this year. He was ghosting on me at the end of our relationship, and then finally left me for another girl (a cappy) at the end of July. I was devastated at the time. He had told me two weeks prior to this to book a flight to see him, which I had done. Nevertheless, I deleted him on everything and never contacted him since, and told him never to contact me again. He began an official relationship with the new girl a few days after we broke up, and unfollowed me on social media after watching my fun social media stories.

Now its October, and he recently added me back on all social media. I haven't accepted any of them. He snaps me daily - selfies mostly, or his daily life, which I usually ignore. He also sends messages on snap where he has told me I looked great and that he unfollowed me in originally because it hurt to look at my profile.

This was weird in itself, but then I noticed he was still with this other girl. I've been fine moving on, have had a great amount of cool changes in my life, been travelling, etc. His snaps have been confusing, and he recently also sent me a snap of him and his gf together at a family dinner??

Why is he doing this? I don't understand. I'm just trying to live my life.

Absolutely stunned right now.

I was with a Gemini guy who left me for a Cappy woman. He ghosted me from everything and we were all in the same friend group so he literally started dating this girl days later in front of my face...I was absolutely heart-broken at the time.

Now he randomly pops up into my life and tries to talk to me and catch up. Since then he has perfusley apologized for what he did to me. It took a long time for me to even allow him the communication to apologize.

He messaged me the other day saying how he missed me and what an amazing woman I was and that I was going to find someone because I deserved it. Then proceeded to talk to me about his girlfriend....

Now he's messaging me again wanting to get together only now his relationship has ended.

Having so many Gemini friends I can tell you this:

-They are attention-whores

-They are nostalgic

-They are intellectual so they seek a good connection which is probably why they try to stay connected with old flames where that connection was once established.

-They are easily bored. So if the relationship is on the rocks maybe he's seeking out others...

-They play the jealousy game and want to know that you want them or still care.

-My best friend is still OBSESSED with her ex from several years ago even though she was the one that ended it.

Those twins are two little hooligans bouncing off the walls and stopping occasionally when they find an old toy to play with until something shinier catches their interest.

Funny thing is I have never witnessed a gem. Cheat in my experience... They usually just end it because when they love someone truly that is their world...

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