BeautifulAquarius88
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Angry and Ugly
Beautiful, I feel you.....I don't know how long these periods of stubborn behavior last....I do know my Leo has been distant now for well over a month. You are lucky though, mine is rude, as well.
You say yours is just distant....and like you, I get angry and loud sometimes when I'm frustrated and my Leo hates it, it pushes him further.....They are like China dolls, so fragile, and mine doesn't post, but makes comments to me, subliminally to get to me.....my only advice is to let him know in a quiet and sweet way how much you miss him and convince him how much he misses you......they can, at times, be convinced of what they are feeling....he is a guy....lol...Good luck sweetie, I wish you the best.....
You say yours is just distant....and like you, I get angry and loud sometimes when I'm frustrated and my Leo hates it, it pushes him further.....They are like China dolls, so fragile, and mine doesn't post, but makes comments to me, subliminally to get to me.....my only advice is to let him know in a quiet and sweet way how much you miss him and convince him how much he misses you......they can, at times, be convinced of what they are feeling....he is a guy....lol...Good luck sweetie, I wish you the best.....
If I am distant-- which implies that one is still around, just not close-- I'm offended.
However, I am a LEO woman.
Maybe Seraph or Enfant will weigh in and give you some insight on what this means, from a LEO man's POV.
Best of luck 🙂
However, I am a LEO woman.
Maybe Seraph or Enfant will weigh in and give you some insight on what this means, from a LEO man's POV.
Best of luck 🙂
Leo's distant...No way!
It's over if he's distant. You have to find a better way to argue. Like not arguing at all and just listening instead.
I'm an Aqua who once dated a Leo, same reaction when an argument came about but he had a surmountable amount of issues that where way bigger than me so that couldn't go on.
I also have a Leo brother and Leo mom and none of them have ever been distant. They can literally hate my guts for all about 15 minutes and back to their old selves again.
Not sure what other details may be going on with you both such as if he has some mental issues, depression etc or has drug addictions.
Without any of those factors coming into play, let's say he's normal with no heavy issues well he really shouldn't be distant with you unless he's changed his mind and just want it to be over, hope you stop being competitive (holding on) and end it, path of least resistance.
It's over if he's distant. You have to find a better way to argue. Like not arguing at all and just listening instead.
I'm an Aqua who once dated a Leo, same reaction when an argument came about but he had a surmountable amount of issues that where way bigger than me so that couldn't go on.
I also have a Leo brother and Leo mom and none of them have ever been distant. They can literally hate my guts for all about 15 minutes and back to their old selves again.
Not sure what other details may be going on with you both such as if he has some mental issues, depression etc or has drug addictions.
Without any of those factors coming into play, let's say he's normal with no heavy issues well he really shouldn't be distant with you unless he's changed his mind and just want it to be over, hope you stop being competitive (holding on) and end it, path of least resistance.
Posted by BeautifulAquarius88
he will post stuff on the internet for me to see ( subliminal msg) i laugh
Haha!! Yes I've had a couple of Leo guys do this to me too. I think its so hilarious. I don't understand why he can't just come to me and say what he gotta say instead of sending me subliminal messages. Lol! But yeah, as annoying as it is, even if you weren't in the wrong, sometimes you have to go to him and apologize first. Their egos are so big and it's annoying to have to be the bigger person all the time. But it's only so long a person could do that before they get tired. Leo men are so exhausting sometimes. Smh.
Thank you so much for responding unfortunately this is been going on for so longhe does not have any mental issues or being bipolar have a big ego I'm very stubborn where that's when we crash sometimes he wants all attention on him he acts like a girls and I call it how I see it n he seems to get so hurt by each of my words I feel like I have to pick my words when talking to him
i have been on and off with my leo for a while now and well sadly we are not together currently but are trying to resolve our issues before going in head first ( his idea not mine )he says to build a house you have to make sure the structure is good same thing with us so i said okay .. But now to the subject i want to know about
PERHAPS YOU SHOPULD SPEND MORE TIME ON HIM HUMPING AND LESS TIME STOMPING THE FEETS OUT OF YOUR JIMMY JAMS
PERHAPS YOU SHOPULD SPEND MORE TIME ON HIM HUMPING AND LESS TIME STOMPING THE FEETS OUT OF YOUR JIMMY JAMS
But beautiful this is the nature of the beast, in other words that is how Leo's are. You cannot ever change that God given quality so you being competitive (what you call being stubborn) does nothing but fuel the flames.
I grew up in a home with Leos so I feel you on this but it's easier to just allow them to shine and in turn he'll shine that warm bright sun onto you as well, it's a win win situation.
Leo's are great lovers and they must shine, THEY MUST, there is no way around that. The very nature of the sign dictates an air of being regal, confident, beautiful. This is not a tried quality, it's a true quality that so many Leo's have.
God gave them some of the best astrological qualities of all the signs out there. It's a positive sign that possess positive qualities.
Other astrological signs (some of them) wish they were Leo's. What you're fighting against is nature and you won't win.
Continue to fight something that's natural and you'll lose, you'll lose him too (for good) if you keep trying to manage his natural qualities.
Try allowing him to be whomever he is and relax b/c you can't manage greatness. What you perceive as a flaw is not a flaw.
You are criticizing the very nature of who he is as a person and of course he's not going to contact you because you are criticizing him and criticizing his qualities as a human being.
Who needs the criticism. Leo's can pine over a loved one so his putting up songs makes sense, they tend to be romantic and ooze romance. Since you're the one nagging and criticizing you should be the one that reach out to him
He doesn't want all the attention. He receives all the attention. He's not acting like a girl. He like a lot of Leo's are very attune to their feminine and masculine qualities, not every Leo but I haven't met a Leo that did not oooze feminine energy which actually propel women towards them.
So the perceived flaws you're pointing out is his actually not a flaw, it's a God given quality that won't go away because you want it to.
Either accept him or move on for good.
I grew up in a home with Leos so I feel you on this but it's easier to just allow them to shine and in turn he'll shine that warm bright sun onto you as well, it's a win win situation.
Leo's are great lovers and they must shine, THEY MUST, there is no way around that. The very nature of the sign dictates an air of being regal, confident, beautiful. This is not a tried quality, it's a true quality that so many Leo's have.
God gave them some of the best astrological qualities of all the signs out there. It's a positive sign that possess positive qualities.
Other astrological signs (some of them) wish they were Leo's. What you're fighting against is nature and you won't win.
Continue to fight something that's natural and you'll lose, you'll lose him too (for good) if you keep trying to manage his natural qualities.
Try allowing him to be whomever he is and relax b/c you can't manage greatness. What you perceive as a flaw is not a flaw.
You are criticizing the very nature of who he is as a person and of course he's not going to contact you because you are criticizing him and criticizing his qualities as a human being.
Who needs the criticism. Leo's can pine over a loved one so his putting up songs makes sense, they tend to be romantic and ooze romance. Since you're the one nagging and criticizing you should be the one that reach out to him
He doesn't want all the attention. He receives all the attention. He's not acting like a girl. He like a lot of Leo's are very attune to their feminine and masculine qualities, not every Leo but I haven't met a Leo that did not oooze feminine energy which actually propel women towards them.
So the perceived flaws you're pointing out is his actually not a flaw, it's a God given quality that won't go away because you want it to.
Either accept him or move on for good.
ALLL I CAN SAY IS MOVE ON BECAUSE IF HE CHEATS ON HER WITH YOU HE WILL CHEAT ON YOU WITH SOMEONE ELSE MOVE ON LADY
Thanks, Aqua 🙂
Posted by tiki33
But beautiful this is the nature of the beast, in other words that is how Leo's are. You cannot ever change that God given quality so you being competitive (what you call being stubborn) does nothing but fuel the flames.
I grew up in a home with Leos so I feel you on this but it's easier to just allow them to shine and in turn he'll shine that warm bright sun onto you as well, it's a win win situation.
Leo's are great lovers and they must shine, THEY MUST, there is no way around that. The very nature of the sign dictates an air of being regal, confident, beautiful. This is not a tried quality, it's a true quality that so many Leo's have.
God gave them some of the best astrological qualities of all the signs out there. It's a positive sign that possess positive qualities.
Other astrological signs (some of them) wish they were Leo's. What you're fighting against is nature and you won't win.
Continue to fight something that's natural and you'll lose, you'll lose him too (for good) if you keep trying to manage his natural qualities.
Try allowing him to be whomever he is and relax b/c you can't manage greatness. What you perceive as a flaw is not a flaw.
You are criticizing the very nature of who he is as a person and of course he's not going to contact you because you are criticizing him and criticizing his qualities as a human being.
Who needs the criticism. Leo's can pine over a loved one so his putting up songs makes sense, they tend to be romantic and ooze romance. Since you're the one nagging and criticizing you should be the one that reach out to him
He doesn't want all the attention. He receives all the attention. He's not acting like a girl. He like a lot of Leo's are very attune to their feminine and masculine qualities, not every Leo but I haven't met a Leo that did not oooze feminine energy which actually propel women towards them.
So the perceived flaws you're pointing out is his actually not a flaw, it's a God given quality that won't go away because you want it to.
Either accept him or move on for good.
Awesome insight and its the truth. Criticism doesn't sit well with any Leo. We are very self aware and we don't need anyone to point out what you may see as a flaw. If someone wants to point out a flaw in me, I will hold open the door that I'm about to shut as they walk out of my life.
Take it or
If someone wants to point out a flaw in me, I will hold open the door that I'm about to shut as they walk out of my life.
so funny and true because when i tell my leo what he is doing with his life isnt going no where and try to give him piece of advice he gets upset idk why
Posted by BeautifulAquarius88
If someone wants to point out a flaw in me, I will hold open the door that I'm about to shut as they walk out of my life.
so funny and true because when i tell my leo what he is doing with his life isnt going no where and try to give him piece of advice he gets upset idk why
Unsolicited advice to us is criticism. I am thorough and calculated with choices in my life. If someone doesn't agree with my choices, I take it personal. My heart, soul and mind probably put a lot of effort into that choice. So, if I "disappoint" you, leave. That's my mindset anyway. What we need is unconditional support (from the sidelines of course) 🙂
"Unsolicited advice to us is criticism. I am thorough and calculated with choices in my life. If someone doesn't agree with my choices, I take it personal. My heart, soul and mind probably put a lot of effort into that choice. So, if I "disappoint" you, leave. That's my mindset anyway. What we need is unconditional support (from the sidelines of course)"
+1 Leostrong
"If someone wants to point out a flaw in me, I will hold open the door that I'm about to shut as they walk out of my life.
so funny and true because when i tell my leo what he is doing with his life isnt going no where and try to give him piece of advice he gets upset idk why"
Beautiful you're criticisms come across as if you don't like him. I'm an Aqua girl and we are not perfect so stop acting like you're better than him because you're not.
So far you've nagged about this guys so called flaws. Nagging and complaining is very unattractive flaw to possess.
Try not to be so damn hard on the man, let him live and be who he needs to be, stop trying to manage ie control him because you can't but what you can and will do is push him right on out your life forever.
You change and maybe some of that change will INSPIRE him to do better. Leo's need a supportive partner just like any other astrological sign.
One things for sure his life will elevate itself effortlessly so he does not have to do all that hard work like other astrological signs.
My ex fell on hard times, one time he was homeless for all about a hot second, in a matter of days he was living in a condo, had a new car without my help. I never had to worry about him being in a bad position, he knew how to turn it all around if he needed to.
They truly do know how to take care of themselves. Trust him more.
+1 Leostrong
"If someone wants to point out a flaw in me, I will hold open the door that I'm about to shut as they walk out of my life.
so funny and true because when i tell my leo what he is doing with his life isnt going no where and try to give him piece of advice he gets upset idk why"
Beautiful you're criticisms come across as if you don't like him. I'm an Aqua girl and we are not perfect so stop acting like you're better than him because you're not.
So far you've nagged about this guys so called flaws. Nagging and complaining is very unattractive flaw to possess.
Try not to be so damn hard on the man, let him live and be who he needs to be, stop trying to manage ie control him because you can't but what you can and will do is push him right on out your life forever.
You change and maybe some of that change will INSPIRE him to do better. Leo's need a supportive partner just like any other astrological sign.
One things for sure his life will elevate itself effortlessly so he does not have to do all that hard work like other astrological signs.
My ex fell on hard times, one time he was homeless for all about a hot second, in a matter of days he was living in a condo, had a new car without my help. I never had to worry about him being in a bad position, he knew how to turn it all around if he needed to.
They truly do know how to take care of themselves. Trust him more.
"My ex fell on hard times, one time he was homeless for all about a hot second, in a matter of days he was living in a condo, had a new car without my help. I never had to worry about him being in a bad position, he knew how to turn it all around if he needed to."
When I left my ex husband, I had nothing. Literally. I left with a small duffle bag and no savings. Within two weeks I had my own place, fully furnished and my kids living with me. I don't always know how I do it, but I don't stay down for long.
When I left my ex husband, I had nothing. Literally. I left with a small duffle bag and no savings. Within two weeks I had my own place, fully furnished and my kids living with me. I don't always know how I do it, but I don't stay down for long.
See, this is 1 of those situations where you should be seeking advice on how to better YOURSELF & get to know YOU enough to know why you react to things the way that you do
Figuring him out, finding out why he does what he does and/or fixing him, won't change the fact that YOU also have your own demons & kinks that need to be worked out. Worry about/fix your OWN demons first.
Ask yourself how much longer YOU'RE tantrums are gonna last. Leave his "emotional work" up to him to understand & fix.
Sounds like you are running on thin ice with this guy. You know this yet your defense mechanism of being stubborn & losing your "edit button" over-ride & outweigh your respect for him & the relationship in the moment. There's only so many times you can pull a false alarm before your "sorry" & "I won't do it again" stop meaning anything
No more of the "Sorry for cussing you out, making you feel like sh**t & pushing you away, BUT hey I'm back now so suck it up, be happy & love me." That is insanity. That's not love. That's not "fixing" the problem. Only a fool would put up with that. And if he's doing those same kinds of things, then you're a fool too for putting up with it
So again, ask yourself the question of WHY & refocus your over-analyzing energy onto yourself. That way, you can say you did your part in this particular relationship AND if he never comes back around or fixes himself, you'll at least be confident that you won't push the next/new man away b/c you made those internal changes
Figuring him out, finding out why he does what he does and/or fixing him, won't change the fact that YOU also have your own demons & kinks that need to be worked out. Worry about/fix your OWN demons first.
Ask yourself how much longer YOU'RE tantrums are gonna last. Leave his "emotional work" up to him to understand & fix.
Sounds like you are running on thin ice with this guy. You know this yet your defense mechanism of being stubborn & losing your "edit button" over-ride & outweigh your respect for him & the relationship in the moment. There's only so many times you can pull a false alarm before your "sorry" & "I won't do it again" stop meaning anything
No more of the "Sorry for cussing you out, making you feel like sh**t & pushing you away, BUT hey I'm back now so suck it up, be happy & love me." That is insanity. That's not love. That's not "fixing" the problem. Only a fool would put up with that. And if he's doing those same kinds of things, then you're a fool too for putting up with it
So again, ask yourself the question of WHY & refocus your over-analyzing energy onto yourself. That way, you can say you did your part in this particular relationship AND if he never comes back around or fixes himself, you'll at least be confident that you won't push the next/new man away b/c you made those internal changes
You guys are doing nothing but using defense-mechanisms in the moment to solve problems that require BOTH people willing to put those defenses down & be the bigger person
As long as you 2 keep using your own defense-mechanisms to protect you in the moment, yet hurt you/each other in the long term, the more you're gonna keep getting the same results
Only problem is that you guys are just wearing each other out so much so that eventually neither of you will even have to time or fuel to work things out when you guys finally do actually stop playing the mind games, suck it up & fix yourselves, even if that means being vulnerable in the moment.
Clearly the way you both are going about this is NOT working. Only fools would keep implementing the same defense mechanisms/strategies w/o realizing that they don't work, don't protect you & actually work against you & the relationship in the long run
If you want different results, do something different. If only 1 of you is willing to grow up & be the bigger person, it still won't work. BOTH of you have to be on the same page & neither of you can do that or be the bigger person if you're more focused on trying to fix each other vs. fixing yourselves.
FIX YOURSELF! Focus on your OWN demons. He should be doing that within himself too. Damn! lol
As long as you 2 keep using your own defense-mechanisms to protect you in the moment, yet hurt you/each other in the long term, the more you're gonna keep getting the same results
Only problem is that you guys are just wearing each other out so much so that eventually neither of you will even have to time or fuel to work things out when you guys finally do actually stop playing the mind games, suck it up & fix yourselves, even if that means being vulnerable in the moment.
Clearly the way you both are going about this is NOT working. Only fools would keep implementing the same defense mechanisms/strategies w/o realizing that they don't work, don't protect you & actually work against you & the relationship in the long run
If you want different results, do something different. If only 1 of you is willing to grow up & be the bigger person, it still won't work. BOTH of you have to be on the same page & neither of you can do that or be the bigger person if you're more focused on trying to fix each other vs. fixing yourselves.
FIX YOURSELF! Focus on your OWN demons. He should be doing that within himself too. Damn! lol
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