Capricorn ex husband dramas...help a fellow leo?

Hey Leos!

I was married to a capricorn (been divorced a few years now)and we do not have any contact, except when he is working locally in my area and then he tries to call me. I am with a Taurus man now, which my Cappy ex husband is aware of as when he kept asking me out for a drink i explained i was with someone else and it wasn't appropriate to go for a drink with him.

He spent a few months blocking me on fb, then unblocking me and calling my phone when he was in the area. I didn't answer the phone because he knows its wrong to be calling me when i am in another relationship. He didn't listen. However, he has recently started seeing a new girl so I haven't heard anything for months and again blocked on fb by him, no probs.

I changed my phone number for an unrelated reason but this weekend I got a call from a friend to say my ex husband was in the pub that my new partner and i were due to arrive at. I didn't want to go in there but my current boyfriend said we should. So we did. My ex husband was fully aware that we were on our way and it is our local haunt, not his....he lives over 300 miles away now.

Now this is the confusing part, as i stood at the bar I looked round and my ex husband was staring at me with a horrible look on his face, as though I had done something dreadful to him?! He then spent 30 mins staring at me before drinking up and leaving.

I don't get it, why would he behave like that?? Any insight would be much appreciated!

His chart is below;

Sun Capricorn 15.51 Ascendant Taurus 7.35
Moon Taurus 29.31 II Gemini 8.49
Mercury Aquarius 1.16 III Gemini 27.06
Venus Aquarius 8.14 R IV Cancer 13.13
Mars Libra 9.15 V Leo 2.02
Jupiter Scorpio 6.51 VI Virgo 2.04
Saturn Libra 21.43 VII Scorpio 7.35
Uranus Sagittarius 2.59 VIII Sagittarius 8.49
Neptune Sagittarius 25.22 IX Sagittarius 27.06
Pluto Libra 26.47 Midheaven Capricorn 13.13
Lilith Sagittarius 11.33 XI Aquarius 2.02
Asc node Cancer 22.31 XII Pisces 2.04

Cheers Woundedleo.

Knew I should have just posted this in the Leo board, I'm getting a grilling on the cap board! Typical.

Not sure, I only wanted to know if the incident had been merely a typical cap thing to do so I could establish if I should be more concerned or not.

All I got was a lot of tosh about their perception of my own character.

Posted by Jynja
Sad lioness, if you could post your chart.

Also, if you don't mind saying what your feelings are about him. His chart says he's not even 30 yet, probably going through his lunar return and likely has issues in this time. But I can only help if I see your chart.

Hiya

He was 30 in Jan, I am 5 yrs older. I feel sorry for him, but that's all. There was a time where I was steadfast loyal to him, but the man I am with now has my loyalty and my love. I suspect this has shocked him?

My chart is below.

Sun Leo 11.23 Ascendant Pisces 18.16
Moon Aries 7.32 II Taurus 10.39
Mercury Virgo 8.15 III Gemini 6.48
Venus Cancer 1.14 IV Gemini 25.31
Mars Gemini 11.49 V Cancer 13.22
Jupiter Gemini 26.57 VI Leo 5.53
Saturn Leo 19.12 VII Virgo 18.16
Uranus Scorpio 7.50 VIII Scorpio 10.39
Neptune Sagittarius 13.30 R IX Sagittarius 6.48
Pluto Libra 11.56 Midheaven Sagittarius 25.31
Lilith Gemini 11.27 XI Capricorn 13.22
Asc node Libra 17.23 XII Aquarius 5.53

Posted by seraph

Posted by sadlioness
Not sure, I only wanted to know if the incident had been merely a typical cap thing to do so I could establish if I should be more concerned or not.

All I got was a lot of tosh about their perception of my own character.

And that doesn't feel great, and while I might not necessarily agree with how they handled you, the important thing is this: you took a risk.

It's not always going to pan out for you, and sometimes you might find yourself all alone with only *yourself* to support your position. But that's alright. Because I know that you'd rather go out there and take risks and possibly fail, than play it safe with nothing ventured.

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Yes you're right, I'm a touchy cow at times...I blame my aries moon 🙂

i don't think it's a specifically cappy thing at all. my aries ex used to do stuff like that all the time and still would if he lived in the same country, lol. your man hasn't moved on obviously and he's making it known that he's not happy that you ARE happy. he's trying to prevent you from moving on by being at places where you are likely to be or that someone you know is likely to see him. like letting you know that whatever you do....he'll be watching you. like the sting song. it's best to not respond in those situations. carry on like he's invisible. if it becomes intimidating of even annoying....get a restraining order.

oh. my. god. seraph said i was 'sensible'. i don't think anyone's ever said that to me before, lol!!

i'm a jew! christmas doesn't come at all, lol.

shana tova!!