I broke up with my Leo man about a week ago because I went over his house and another girl was coming out the door. I asked her what she was doing there and she said that she was there for my man and that they had sex. He came outside and we all were arguing. I finally left and broke it all off with him. I had already been having a feeling like something was going on but I had no proof until that night. I'm a capricorn and usually when we call it quits it's over no coming back. He has been calling and texting like crazy. Crying on my phone and saying that he feels like he's going to die without me. I've been ignoring him up until yesterday. He called me to see if I'd talk to him for a min and I went over his house to talk. The while time he played different music saying that each song explained how he was feeling. Said that all that happened was killing him inside and knowing that I shut him out my life has really showed him how much he really loves me. He was crying I didn't know what to do or say. I've told him over and over that I want to move on..... inside of me I feel so stupid because I'm still so deeply conected with him and sometimes I want it to work but then I feel so angry because of what he's done. Are Leo men tipically sorry for something like that? I know Leos are dramatic and I just wonder if he's exagerating how he's feeling. I feel like if he cared he wouldn't have cheated. He says he's afraid that I'm going to sleep with someone else or see someone else now. How could I know if he could really change?? Please advise....
He cheated now he wants to come back.....

It's only been a week! NO ONE changes that fast. lol You caught a woman coming out of his house who said she had sex with him and now you are considering taking him back. smh He would be dead to me.

I went back and read some of your previous posts about this guy. Here is the information you put out:
1. You caught him in three lies.
2. You guys argue everyday.
3. You caught a woman coming out of his house who said she just had sex with him.
4. He kept you waiting for an hour!! (yet you still waited)
You teach people how to treat you. You continuously put up with his madness and hope one day he will be this great guy? l It is not going to happen. It's like putting a steak in the oven and hoping that it will be a cake when it is done.
1. You caught him in three lies.
2. You guys argue everyday.
3. You caught a woman coming out of his house who said she just had sex with him.
4. He kept you waiting for an hour!! (yet you still waited)
You teach people how to treat you. You continuously put up with his madness and hope one day he will be this great guy? l It is not going to happen. It's like putting a steak in the oven and hoping that it will be a cake when it is done.
I'm not taking him back. I deserve better and I know I do. Thanks.
That would have hurt me so bad, had I gotten back with him I know I would still be mad about so I'd be treating him bad and trying to hurt him or it just wouldn't be the same. Don't go back.
lol @ all his crying tho

Do not take him back because u will only be setting yourself up for heartbreak. What he did is unacceptable and it seems the only reason why he's acting dramatic is because HE GOT CAUGHT. Do u think he would have ever told u this anytime soon? I think not. It's much safer to come to terms with him, forgive him only when ur ready, but I personally feel he fucked up real bad and getting back with him will just make things worse.

Posted by GeorgiaPeach
I went back and read some of your previous posts about this guy. Here is the information you put out:
1. You caught him in three lies.
2. You guys argue everyday.
3. You caught a woman coming out of his house who said she just had sex with him.
4. He kept you waiting for an hour!! (yet you still waited)
You teach people how to treat you. You continuously put up with his madness and hope one day he will be this great guy? l It is not going to happen. It's like putting a steak in the oven and hoping that it will be a cake when it is done.
Listen to this person. They speak words of wisdom and truth. I would hope things like this would be obvious, but so many people are blind when it comes to relationships.

Posted by PrincessCapricorn2462
I'm not taking him back. I deserve better and I know I do. Thanks.
Oh wait, missed this post. Glad you came to your senses. 🙂

"How could I know if he could really change??"
If u don't want him back, that question shouldn't be the least of ur worries. You're completely heartbroken right now and u need time away from him until ur ready to forgive him. However, if u give him any attention right now he's just gonna beg for u back. He knows what he did wrong and saying "i'm sorry" isn't enough.
If u don't want him back, that question shouldn't be the least of ur worries. You're completely heartbroken right now and u need time away from him until ur ready to forgive him. However, if u give him any attention right now he's just gonna beg for u back. He knows what he did wrong and saying "i'm sorry" isn't enough.

that question should* be the least of ur worries
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