hot and cold Leo man

I met a Leo man online about a month and a half ago. After just chatting online and finally on the phone for 2 weeks, he wants me to be his girlfriend and think of me as his girlfriend.

I slowly became soften by his sweet talk and affection.. but he is often hot and cold...
Some days, he would write me, text me, call me all in one day...
Some days, I would not hear from him at all... even if I message him, I would not get a respond back...

I bugs me so much... It is hard for me to understand how he really feels about me.. I ask him if he is seeing anyone else, he ensures me that I am the only one, he likes me and is not the type to multi-date.

So confused... are all Leo hot and cold? How should I deal with this for the best outcome? I really like him.

Thanks for stopping by and any response are appreciated! 🙂

have you actually met eachother?

yep my leo friends are like that. i just wait for them to come to me.

Posted by 321654
I met a Leo man online about a month and a half ago. After just chatting online and finally on the phone for 2 weeks, he wants me to be his girlfriend and think of me as his girlfriend.

I slowly became soften by his sweet talk and affection.. but he is often hot and cold...
Some days, he would write me, text me, call me all in one day...
Some days, I would not hear from him at all... even if I message him, I would not get a respond back...

I bugs me so much... It is hard for me to understand how he really feels about me.. I ask him if he is seeing anyone else, he ensures me that I am the only one, he likes me and is not the type to multi-date.

So confused... are all Leo hot and cold? How should I deal with this for the best outcome? I really like him.

Thanks for stopping by and any response are appreciated! 🙂

RUN! RUN as fast as you can......TRUST me! YOUR GUT feeling is telling you something! LISTEN..

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
have you actually met eachother?

No, we never actually met before because we live in different cities. Which makes it harder... not only we are long distance, we are also online dating. I really have no way to really understand how he really feels about me besides his words. Sometimes I feel like I am the one doing all the chasing and reaching out in this "relationship" (not sure if I can even use that word as I am not even sure where I stand in his life). I have never tried so hard for any man.

He is realllllly busy. His job demands long hours. I never told him how his hot and cold nature bugs me... don't to seem suspicious or emotionally needy, or non-sympathetic about his work...

I am a Scorpio, I naturally have trust issues. Should I just ignore it, shallow it all and just wait!?! I have already stopped seeing other men for him but I don't want this to be a one-sided relationship.. I don't want to be wasting my time if he doesn't feel strongly about me. I can't tell if he is trying to test my feelings for him or if he is cheating on me, or he just doesn't like me enough to pursue to or to convince me of his feelings for me.

i would think long and hard about getting further involved. i'm currently being completely ignored by 3 leo men...2 friends and one former love interest. one (a friend) i had a fight with and he's just not talking to me but i know he will when he wants something which is when i'll ignore him, it's the way it goes. the other friend is ignoring me cos he was due to call today to make plans for lunch and he thought his car would be fixed today. i saw on facebook that its not ready til friday and so therefore, he has no need to call me, he'll call on friday instead. the former love interest is ignoring me cos he's an immature knobhead, lol.

for some reason, this is just how leo men are. if they have no need to talk to you, they just don't. just like if they don't want to, they won't. it doesn't seem to follow a pattern particularly either which makes them completely unpredictable (imo).

the first leo friend i mentioned thinks that scorpios are way too intense for leos. he said that we don't give enough of ourselves but to be completely honest, leo men don't give you much room to give of yourself cos it's all about them.

we're both fixed signs, that's the problem.

he's not hot and cold - he's someone you have never met and only converse with on...... THE INTERNET. You don't stand anywhere in his life as you are not in it so therefore he does not owe you a text/call/email on a daily basis. He can disappear of the face of the earth without telling you if he so desires.

Don't listen to a word he says, how can he tell you he want's you to be his girlfriend - he doesn't know you, so keep that in mind and don't take in these words.

He doesn't multi-date—?? He's not dating, you anyway so how can he possibly multi-date. he can't feel anything about you, you are a virtual person - not real. Why would you be trying hard for a man who is virtual to you - you do not have a relationship, why try at all. You should have met by now and decided to either go forward and get to know this person and see if he is good enough to be in your life or not see him again, that's the only thing you should have a question about. Why are you stopping seeing other men - he can't possibly be cheating on you - HE DOESN'T KNOW YOU, YOU ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP SO YOU CANNOT BE CHEATED ON. You both seem to have invested yourselves in feelings about a relationship that doesn't exist - huge Red Flag - back out now.

this is a ridiculous post.

lol