interesting leo encounter, domestic abuse?

Hey there,

Just wanted to post about an interesting encounter I had with a Leo male.

Also wondering, do you guys know if Leos tend to have history of being domestic abusers?

Here is his chart:

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Leo 9.56 Ascendant Leo 26.40
Moon Capricorn 13.43 II Virgo 19.32
Mercury Leo 18.48 III Libra 17.29
Venus Cancer 15.33 IV Scorpio 20.30
Mars Libra 29.29 V Sagittarius 25.32
Jupiter Scorpio 2.17 VI Capricorn 28.10
Saturn Libra 17.08 VII Aquarius 26.40
Uranus Sagittarius 0.36 R VIII Pisces 19.32
Neptune Sagittarius 24.35 R IX Aries 17.29
Pluto Libra 24.22 Midheaven Taurus 20.30
Lilith Capricorn 4.43 XI Gemini 25.32
Asc node Cancer 13.10 XII Cancer 28.10


Met him at a gathering with a bunch of people in this social activity I am in. He seemed friendly. Each time I bumped into him at an event we would chat for like two minutes, he seemd to like me. One time he even randomly kissed me on the lips and I gave him my number. He let me borrow his sweatshirt that night cause I was cold. One weekend, I drunk texted him about going kayaking and he told me to call him (weird cause he is the guy!!) I never called the next day cause I didn't end up going to the beach. So I figured it wasn't a big deal. Anyway, I asked a mutual friend about him. but my friend tells me not to date him. Apparently this guy is a coke head and had punched his ex-girlfriend before. Sounds like bad news. But I am only around him with other people and somehow I am still drawn to him. I know, sounds bad. I wanted to see if he was really crazy like that, maybe he had mellowed down since that incident.

At the next event, he goes out to the patio of the bar with my friend to have a cigarette. I go out too, cause I want him to talk to me again and see what he's like. He comes up to me and the first thing he says is really intense. "Do you not even like me? Do you not wanna hook up with me? You have my clothes and you're just keeping them?" Really intense... seemed like he was coked out. Really weird!!! I thought this guy had potential and I don't wanna date a cokehead, but its just so intriguing!!

Do you think Leos have bad tempers.. potential tendency toward domestic abuse, especially since he has done it once allegedly? If a Leo is addicted to coke, would I have any shot of getting him to stop doing coke and be normal? Is he doomed? haha

For whatever reason, he is super attractive to me. With both have venus in cancer, I like his intensity, especially since it is concerning me despite not having spoken much. I am wary to spend any time alone with him due to his habit. So I was thinking if there is a way around it... like if Leos are resilient about addictions and can get out of them or not.

As a gem, I have done many things that would be considered addictive, but have never gotten stuck in that.

I don't have much experiences with Leos except for my best friend from high school. So I was thinking of addictive behaviors from her perspective and wondering other Leos could step away from addictive behavior the way that she did. She was super insecure and severely bulimic during college, but when she got a boyfriend, it seemed like her behavior stopped. I wonder if spending time with him could motivate him to stop doing harmful behavior? (Actually I just spoke to her and she says she still binges once a week, but it isn't as bad as before. )

Has any other Leo had experience with addictive behaviors and finding a motivation to get away from them?

Yea I was in disbelief at first about anyone who could hit a girl ever. Apparently, it was one night he was super coked out and just went nuts. So I am focusing on the coke thing and seeing if there is some way to deal with that issue first and then maybe he wouldn't be inclined to be violent at all. Then maybe he could be dating material. I have met a bunch of guys recently and for some reason he is the only one I have sparks with, so I am looking for a way to work it and maybe better his life style in the process.

no i think the disbelief is aimed at your questioning an involvement with a cokehead and believing that YOU can 'deal with that issue'—??

your thread is ridculous. you're probably (hopefully) very young too. there is no way for you to 'work it'. only he can do that. and as for 'bettering his life style '....are you seriously for real—

Hey everyone's lives are always changing. People's lives can be affected by the smallest encounters. Was wondering about other people's experience with addictive behaviors and getting past them. Yea, maybe I am not the one to do it, but how sad would it be if a person continued to let drugs eat away at their body and mind just cause nobody cared to say anything?

yea maybe there is low likelihood of convincing someone to stop doing drugs, but it doesn't hurt to try. Unless he gets mad and punches me lol

And I am not a person who thinks I am in love with him or feel a special connection. He's just hot and I wish I could make him normal so I could date his hot ass. there, I said it.

WTF is interesting about this encounter to you?

DV is not exclusive to any sun sign.

Im leaving because I am going to hurt your feelings. The sad part is I want to do it.

An abusive cokehead....GTFOHWTBS !

Exits stage left.

lol. ok fine, gosh guys. I won't deal with him.

Dang, I don't get why anyone does coke. It is so bad for you. Ruins lives and makes hot guys undateable 😢

It was interesting cause he is a freak and I've never met someone who seemed so functional and charming but was actually a monster underneath. Let's just say I am a sheltered girl and have never been close to danger.

Moon-Saturn-Venus T-square.

He's just finished his Saturn return. His life must be a complete mess right now.

Stay away.

well i just don't trust anyone who drinks too much coca cola.

Why don't you just bang him once and move on, that shouldn't be too hard. You don't need to involve yourself with him. Even he said "hook up" as per you so there is no need to look for anything more!

Keep 911 handy, it could be a thrilling encounter though....

First,
Stay away from him. He can be as hot as he wants. If he doenst treat you right and if he is violent it will bring oyu nothing but trouble.

I dont think it is a sun sign thing wether you are domestic violent, or better violent at all. My ex Leo got angry really fast, and when ge got angry he could be abusive. He never hit me, but he would hurt me in that moment of anger. He would not listen to anything I had to say , and he would pull my arm so hard it hurt.

Still I think it has nothing to do with the sun sign.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
well i just don't trust anyone who drinks too much coca cola.

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaahahahaaaaaaahahaaaaaa!

and if it's Cherry Coke, I'ma push em outta my car!

i don't think banging him once would be such a good idea.. or even possible with this particular leo.
if he got all up in her face about her having his clothes, imagine what it would be like if she slept with him once and never called him again!

coke is just.. a bad drug.
people get hooked on it, that's why it's so dangerous.
it gives confidence and the feeling of power.
people like that feeling, especially a leo male.

i don't know what your chances are for him to get off it any time soon.
i guess my main suggestion would be that if you want to be around him and hang out, do it when he isn't at a party or something all coked out, and see how he is when he's just hanging out and normal.

drugs often do things to people that aren't flattering or attractive.
it sucks when awesome people get hooked and it's messes up their great personality.