leo man advice

yup. i need it.

just some background info: i have an interest in a Leo guy and we have casually hooked up a bunch of times.
we haven't seen/spoken to each other in a week or two.

i want to go watch one of his rugby games.
i can very well find out on my own where and when the game is since we go to the same university, but i don't want to just show up or intrude on his personal space.

what is a good way to ask him if i can go see his game without sounding desperate?
(this would be through text message)
i really want to witness some of his out-of-the-sack animalistic behavior and he's definitely not going to invite me on his own.



this may seem overly simple a question, considering i'm basically asking how to phrase a text, but i feel like things are so fragile with this fellow and i really don't want to seem like the pathetic loser in the stands.

WHY DO LEO DUDES GIVE OFF THIS VIBE.
ahh. i'm constantly afraid of coming off too strong!

if this post seems pointless, it kinda is. i'm just all caught up in my thoughts and i have no idea why i care so much.

I read somewhere (and I felt it summed it up pretty perfectly) that the best way is to throw yourself at him but in a strong fashion which reflects your own self respect.
Flirtatious compliments always work.
If it's a text say some suggestive line like...

"Do you tear it up on the field as well as you tore me up the other night?"

Pahahahah! Don't say that.

Maybe not as extreme but the same flirty undertone.

I quack myself up. :p

What Seraph said. He's looking for a queen, so act like one.
Strong confidence from within
Very focused. You see what you want. You get it.
Graceful. Eloquent.
But not a girly girl.
Always make sure he knows you're interested but never let him know you need him.
He wants the chase, a challenge.

That's my two cents.
Good luck :]

LOL @ absolute patience!!!!

just pretend he doesn't exist or like you can take or leave him and get visibly busy. oh yeah....and always look totalmente gawjuss. let him notice others noticing you 😉

Honestly, you are a Leo! You KNOW that if he wanted you he would have TAKEN his prize already with no holds barred or mistaken actions. He's getting what he wants from you now, and really, if you have to strategise to get the man, and it works, are you totally sure that down the line this won't bite your pride in the butt when you remember you had to coax him into wanting you - I know it would me and then resentment would set in. Personally I'd leave him to it and silently laugh when he does decide to come get you, and you are already over it.

honestly, it's like i don't even really care if we end up having a relationship or not.
i wouldn't mind to slowly crack him open, but if it doesn't happen i'm not going to cry about it.
i just want to get to a stage where he is the one chasing me, ultimately.
i want the satisfaction of knowing he wants me. leo ego trip style .

i don't want to hide under a tree or spy on him.
i want to watch him get physical and tackle dudes haha.
i'm sure that is something he wouldn't mind knowing.

i like seraph and roarlikethunder's advice.
i'm going to tell him i want to go to the game, show up, look like a babe, and then peace out and wait for him to contact me after that.
the last time i ran into him i looked like a total bum, and i've changed my hair since then so i need him to SEE ME for him to get the urge to want to contact me.

i feel like such a school girl in his presence, i just want the roles to be reversed for a little bit.

Text Message: Hey, what time does your game start?

Straight no chaser.

Two cats playing games! Watch you all don't get twisted up in that wool, it gets very tangled in those little claws 😉

Lol, me too 😉

Well, thank you all or your advice. I just get so overparanoid and lost sometimes.
I actualy HATE playing games.. Its usually so frustrating and i'm never patient enough to execue anything properly.
They're only fun on the rare occasion that I am winning 🙂

Getting all tangled hmmmm.
That does sound fun, until you have to undo all those darn knots in order to get out.


And jynja..
What do you mean?!

don't hold back jynja, LOL!!!

i genuinely have never played games with a man but unfortunately, i can't detect when i'm being played with myself. not sure if that's a good or a bad thing but i'm not changing. it's ALWAYS best to keep it real imo.

Aahhhgghhh the worst part is I know you're right.
And I didn't mean anything by singling you out, I just wasn't sure exactly what you meant with what you quoted..
But its what I figured... That everyhing I'm saying is just going to come back and bite me.

I know he's over it.
I'm just so bad at letting go and letting time just play out. Bleh.
I always want reactions and things to happen fast fast.

Thank you for the straight to the point response.
I get lost in what I want and what I should (or shouldn't) be doing.

mmm...geeeks.....

Mmmm mhm, geeks 😉


'May the force be with you..'

"..when you're in my bed".