I'll keep this as short as possible. I'm an Aries lady (I'm really a Pisces-Aries cusp) and have been good friends with this Leo man for about 3 years. I had always found him attractive and thought we had great chemistry; however, I was never available, for I had been in a relationship with another Leo for two years and he too had been in a serious relationship. I broke up with my ex about a year ago and he broke up with his over the summer. He would always ask me to hang out or for me to come over more than usual. Unfortunately, I mistook those subtle flirtatious hints as two good friends just spending more time together. Well recently i had gone over to his house. We got so much closer that night but things got somewhat awkward. He tells me that he wanted to have sex with me BEFORE he had even kissed me (we did eventually kiss). I tell him I didnt mind since I trusted him but I had forewarned him that my feelings for him would most likely change ... It seemed as though he did not like that answer and then declared, "Oh no, I'm just looking for sex right now." I don't think that statement was specifically for me but how felt about anyone women in general. (I could be wrong). He continued to try to pursue me, but I stop him again explaining, "look I have way too much respect for you, myself and our friendship to just be friends with benefits." I thought he understood what I was trying to get at. We end up cuddling the entire night and even during our sleep. The next morning I left for work. It's been about 7 days since then and our entire relationship seems to have shifted. He doesn't text or call anymore and if I reach out to him, he is distant or non responsive. I do really like him but I would want him to take me seriously. What should I do? I'm scared I lost my chance with him as a lover and friend 😢 please help, I'm losing sleep over this!
