leo man cheated on me

hey guys..

I have been on this board a couple of times and posted about the leo guy I was having a relationship with.

recently I found out (saturday), that he was cheating on me. even though I suspected something, I was very chocked, because I always thought that it was just my mind playing with me (as always). he broke my heart for real, cant seem to think about anything else 😢
He gave me hope, so I expected alot of things.. Said that we were travelling to California together this summer, so I could meet his family in America etc. (I met his mother, and cousins here in Denmark)

so I found out, and texted him "I talked to ****, and she told me everything. it all makes sense now. This is not for me. its so gross that you can do this to me. dont contact me again. You just lost the best thing you ever had. have a nice life".....

and he texted back an hour after ....."...— WOW!!!?? thank you, you too.."

he didnt even try to do something about it. that was his reaction... I guess "wow" means, you are wrong... or what. I dont know. Im very dissapointed of him... I expected him to kind of just say something... maybe deny it.

but I broke it off with him.. havent heard from him since. this is the guy who thursdag night, apologised to me, and said I dont wanna lose you bla bla bla....

I dont even want him.. I know I deserve better than that. but I still expected something else.

well his response shows he is shocked by your text - its either real or faked - who was this person that you talked to and what did she say?

He forgot to log out of his mobile phone page, at my place (i dont know what its called in english) but basically a page where you can put more money on your phone and see who you have texted and called). I saw that after he left, and couldnt resist looking.. I saw this number he had texted alot. so I called her, and she told me everything...

btw he doesnt know I looked.

Im sorry for you....it hurts. Just make sure you have 110% knowledge this is true. and if so, have no more expectations of how he will react. Just follow through with your boundaries. take care of you....

(((((hugs))))

Im very sure that it is true.. unfortunately 😢

Im the type of person who cant stay back if I want to do something. I have been wanting to contact him for a couple of days now, just to tell him how big of an idiot he is. But I havent...

Leos usually don't cheat......but if he does, then that means he hasn't considered you are his Miss Right.
Let him go......the best way to protect yourself to be hurt more deeply...!!!
You are good girl.....you deserve the best!!!

i think you should've spoken to him before jumping to conclusions based on what the girl said. you should at least give him a chance to explain himself...don't you want to know the truth?

i remember finding a text on my ex husband's phone which pretty much conclusively showed him to be cheating. my initial reaction was to throw up actually but i knew i had to keep calm and front him about it when the time was right. perhaps it's the fact i was a journalist for a while...it's impossible to make any judgement til you have all the facts...NEVER rely on hearsay or make assumptions.

unfortunately, in my case when confronted my ex (aries) denied everything. lied through his teeth and i knew it cos i'd been with him for 20 yeras ffs. i couldn't bear thinking it was true to be honest cos i didn't know what to do and also we were moving from the uk to spain imminently. i tried to live with it but i couldn't. never try and 'settle' for someone's excuses hoping that it will go away and you can re-build trust. you can't.

you need to hear him either lie to you or confess the truth to be sure you don't want him in your life. you've known him longer than this girl right? having been on the receiving end of someone doing this to me when what they'd been told was a complete and utter fabrication, it's the ultimate let down from someone close to you.

i don't think leos are cheats but they are flirts and women take flirtation way too seriously. how do you know she hasn't got an agenda of her own and you're the biggest obstacle? there are more possible motives for her to lie than there are for him. give him a chance.

but if he's guilty......give him hell before you tell him you're done. you want to see the guilt in his eyes while you're delivering your exit speech lol.

"Whatever the reason was" does NOT matter at all...after the cheating occured. If he can cheat you once, then he can cheat you twice...and more...
He can make any excuse / story to cheat you again and again.......you will never find out the "truth"!!!!!
So why wasting your time on such a looser who is just a piece of shit to play game with you—
You should dump him completely for your own sake.

Regardless of his 'actual' classification (cheated or not), I'm so sorry you have to go through this right now. It's a horrific feeling.