Leo thinks his feeling are wrong —

Hi everyone 🙂

I posted on here about the leo guy i'm dealing with and all....well after a few drama's we now kow offically that we have feelings for eachother. I told him straight out to his face in the car and a day later he let me know through facebook. I knew he wasn't going to admit this to my face (way too shy for that)...the issue now? lol

He thinks what he feels is wrong. He put this on his status "and i always sat too long, long enough for something too go wrong"...after i told him my feelings and in the car, he was sleeping with some other chick (He did it for sex)..he put on his status "definitly stayed too long". I put on "im clueless" and then he put on there that he does like me. The facebook crap seems to be the only way he can be brave enough to communicate with me. When i see him, it looks like he can't seem to handle his feelings. He walks really and i mean REALLY fast, gets all flushed, acts a little childlike and stares from a distance. He cannot for the life of him look me in the eye or make one on one conversations anymore. But if i catch him trying to gain some girls attention...he will do something to re-assure me.

My question is WHY does he feel his emotions are wrong? Is it his venus in gemini causing this? does this even sound like a leo who genuienly is falling?..help me out here lol

thanks
xo

Hi SC, IMO that isn't leo like at all, It's the ol' he's just not that into you, not ENOUGH into you to go the distance, I'm not saying there is no physical attraction on his part or emotional attraction (2 completely separate forms of attraction but they must be cohesive to work out in your favor) yet it seems there is not enough emotional attraction (the good kind) to make things stick, leo men are really fast when it comes to love least the younger ones are, if he's stalling, holding back, sleeping with other women not sure then he's not that into you and it also seems per the whole FB thing that he's very immature and can't handle your mature energy...

I wouldn't hold my breath on this guy...suggest finding a new lover that can deal with you on the same emotional level....

I know that he still wants his freedom but i also know that he doesn't want to lose me. He's taking steps and making sure he doesn't lose me. This i can see. A leo woman told me that this may very well be the first time he has felt "deep emotions" and he doesn't know what has hit him (that is what i'm picking up in him). It might take a while for him to recognize it for what it is. The avoiding thing he always kind of did with me even when things were getting pretty heated. I had too stroke his ego alot. He knew i wasn't just "any girl" and he chased me anyway. Up until this point he would have had just shallow relationships and sex-buddies. I've been told to be patient and see where it leads me but i've definitly had a powerful effect on him. He's still flirting with other girls but i dont think he wants me flirting with other guys. Either way him "holding back" is something that is happening inside him. He's even pulled "tests" on me too see if im the type of girl who would abruptly leave him if i find a guy who could provide more etc...

His pisces moon, i can imagine would be causing his behaviour. His pisces moon meets my pisces ascendent, our mercury's are compatable as are our venuses.

Another thing i've noticed with this leo guy is that he copies EVERYTHING i do and that includes, body language, gestures, joining the same groups on facebook (which seems to me to be some kind of communication to me) even some of the tiniest thngs. It's strange but fascinating and i was told that i'm most likely doing the same i just dont motice it.

SC if a leo is not HUNTING you then he is not that interested, this is were we women get it confused, we feel b/c a man has some sort of feelings that if she sticks around and convinces him by spilling her guts (telling him how she feels about him) doing things for him, helping him, listening to him intently about him and his life and problems that he will see that he actually feels the same way about us, yes I have done it LOL, many moons ago so I been on the other side (were you are right now) your best option is to stop engaging in the drama, yes it's hard to do with a leo but that's the only way he MAY just see you as different and not this girl full of heavy not so fun emotions...I have a leo mom and a leo brother, they are super playful, funny, all about fun and can crack a smile from here to Sunday but if a person is too hmm heavy with feelings, too serious, too into them they shy away, they just won't be sure about you b/c they (the leos) need to FEEL the way you feel before moving forward with....

It's not so much as he's shy in a sense that he can't express love or give love, he's just not feeling the same exact way you are so it feels confusing for him, trust that if he was equally feeling the same way you feel he would not hold back how he feels, this is the sign that has no problem saying I love you, I want you, I need you, you are the one for me (if they truly feel it)him holding back means he does not feel the same way and unfortunately there is nothing you can say or do to make him feel it. The one thing that may help him feel it is LOSS, losing someone that is important to him stings, receiving less or having nothing at all can really snap a leo into the right emotional space but as long as your around, engaging in his confusion you will get more confusion....nothing gets resolved on an emotional level and you both walk away frustrated and confused.

My X leo copied as well, he did all those things and then some, he was not one to hold back though for NOTHING, he had temper tantrums, he tested and tested and tested to see how naive, stupid, gullible I would be over him, no the testing isn't about LOVE, it's about how desperate is she to have me so he test your boundaries, the more you allow him to get away with the more respect he loses for you, a leo MUST respect you and see you as his equal or he will not be attracted to you or feel like your a keeper.

If this guy is holding back he's not that interested on an emotional level (love level) BELIEVE when I say when your the one he will not be confused or hold back, I know that's NOT what you want to hear but leo women and leo men are very very different in how they express and give love...I lived with both, male and female leos and they are distinctly different, my brother held back on women he did not want but liked having around for the ego strokes...stop stroking his ego so much b/c that is not what you want to be used for...Just stop giving him ego strokes, all of your attention and see how it effects him, he will either SHARE HIMSELF with you more, his feelings, what he needs and wants or he will disappear on you which means he was only there for the strokes...Why? Because he feels entitled to have those strokes, your not doing anything special by the way b/c leo (not all but the kingly attitude types) believe they are ENTITLED to everyones love b/c he's the GREATEST OF THEM ALL so you giving him what he feels entitled to have is not special nor is it making him want you more, for the most part they are Kings but it's important you do not be the pulper/puppet or jester in the relationship or he will wipe his feet on you like a doormat and take as much as he can w/o giving so much back, that's the whole ego thing. You must be the Queen, you must have self respect and know when enough is enough and dump his ass and move on, if he truly loves you he will come and hunt to get you back in his lion's den.

Just a little FYI, when a leo follows you around that's his way of saying your part of his harem now, he's no longer hunting you b/c you have already exposed your feelings so there is a level of laziness that comes with that on his part, thus your in the lion's den and he seemingly merges with these women on a physical level not so much on a deep I gotta have you and keep you in my life level but there is a sort of comfort in numbers (ever watch animal kingdom) the regal king has a tribe of women that hunt for him, clean him, cater to his needs while he rest and watch over his clan, very territorial, will stalk his territory, will become very predatory of intruders and snarl and warn and fight to keep what he considers his from outside intruders b/c their is loyalty that comes with this sign but this is all more physical than emotional and yes they can do this with more than one woman at a time.

Thanks for your insight tiki...i guess that explains why he has been on my page alot. The funny thing is is that i don't expect anything from him. He's 21 and i'm 24. I dont understand why he keeps going into flirt overdrive on facebook if i put something that sounds like it might have something to do with another guy. I dont pay him much attention at all anymore...i dont even speak to him on online anymore. There was this one pic that had him with his arm around another girl and he deleted it and anything else that looked "sus"...

he knows i dont fall for sweet talk so he never used it on me. I've seen him throw tantrums, whinge, hell...he had a whinge at me oneday for not going out with him and his friends saying "sometimes it's just more easy if friends help out" or something along those lines.

So i guess the only thing to do now is pull right away so it feels like he has lost me? i see what your getting at.

Well leo's (the men I know behave that way) it's plural for women, it's just not YOU he's hiding these suspect pictures etc from, it's every girl he's interested in and believe me when I say it's more than one woman he's after LOL but for the most part scorp and leo is not the best combo IMO, starts out good but can end poorly due to possessiveness and egos, leo's will not allow themselves to be possessed in any sort of way, they have to have the freedom to roam which means his partner not only has to have her own life, she has to be focused on her own life, focused on her happiness and allow him the space to come hunt for her when he's done SHINING his glorious sunny light on all the other people in the world, she has to have a QUEEN type attitude, I love you but I can live without you type attitude....If you pull away he will/should seek you out but if he's seeking you out and yet still holding back then he's not ready for you, which means he's not that into you on an EMOTIONAL LEVEL, he may be physically attracted to you deeply which keeps him wanting to have you near and let's face it what man doesn't like a sexy scorp woman but if he doesn't have an equal amount of emotional attraction, the kind that pushes his apprehensions aside and makes him want to show you and tell you how much he loves you and/or likes you than unfortunately he's not that into you and it's best to move on which it seems you have already in some ways. Other signs hold back, I know cancer and virg's def hold back but not loving leo, he will be very forthcoming with his feelings, with his love for you, passionate sign, it's unlike them to hold back unless he's not interested in forming a strong bond with you.

He's a young lion, he's out to play, it's best to find a more mature guy to be with, a mature virgo would love to have you in his life.

So if he sees that i have moeved on...it might make him hunt me out again? thats if he really does love me? i've read countless times how sometimes leos dont know what they have got till it's gone.

The thing is...Who cares, he's not making a point to make you HIS, he's having fun, flirting, sending out mixed messages, saying I like you and yet I don't trust my feelings blah blah blah...move on, if he truly really cares about you, loves you, wants you he will FIND you, make himself clear without confusion or mistrust....The fact that he stated how he feels but flips it and says I don't trust my feelings, I believe they are WRONG...means he is not ready for you, he is not interested in you as a romantic love interest, he is not willing nor ready to form an emotional attachment with you...There is NOTHING you can do or say to change that but LEAVE....Leaving not to punish him or force him to profess himself but moving on and giving less of yourself sends a distinct message that he no longer has a hold on you and if he wants more of you he has to DO something about it....

I'm sure there are other men around that would love to get to know you and not treat you so half ass, none of the flirting, the copying means a damn thing, he's just wasting your time b/c to him he's having fun and he's also COCK BLOCKING by being around stalking your territory and keeping other men out...Immature leo men do this, you can't allow him to claim you without backing that up...Were are your boundaries...Find them...get some if you don't have them.

Give him carte blanche to YOU will not make him cave in and give you a real relationship, he's made himself clear, he feels his feelings are wrong...That's it...move on

He's just not availble emotionally in his life for anyone? so what i see him do with other girls is just what he's doing with me? im just trying to get a clear on this lol.....it's just being a scorpio, we have a tendancy to cut people off all together and if this is the way he's going to be then i hope he sees that i woulsn't even be able to maintaina friendship. I dont see this point. They clearly have no respect.

Just so you know there is a girl he's beginning to chase down or keep within her radius and she has a boyfriend. he doesn't seem to care at all about that. When he met me, i was emotionally tied to someone else. He did the same thing...he always kept himself "near".....lol

I hope he gets the point then that i dont want him around me at all. It's sad because apart from his "game playing" or whatever...his a kind person lol

Now that i think about it....my leo best friend has a keeps a guy around that she plainly USES at her disposal, she doesn't seem to have much respect for him and yet he's too emotionally tied to her to cut off and move on. She KNOWS his feelings are still there and she plays on them. I HATE watching every second of it but she is quite insecure ontop of that. Se really has the "princesess attitude" down packed.

Oh and i've just dealt with a immature virgo....holy crap, it's still haunting me.

Okay....you know i hardly go near this leo guy..hardly look at him, i'm never online anymore..basically i'm not giving him the time of day.

So when i am heading in his direction, he makes himself look busy (funny part is that i wasnt going talk to him lol) later on he looked like he knew he did something that was rude and every now and then i caught him sneaking peeks at me. Then i find out that he doesnt want to go out with his friends and he's "mad" at something. I see him the next day and he's looking at me with a real serious look on his face. I totally ignore him and go do my work. I didnt see him for the rest of the day (thats how i know when he's pissed off)...i didnt do it to piss him off, what he did was rude (plus i was late to work)..i knew instantly that he had gone off and bitched, talked about other girls and so on. He even went out on the weekend with all his mates to do the "alpha thing"..