Hello I was hoping you could help me out with this leo that I have interest in. He seems to have the same feelings for me to but I want him to keep coming back to me.
We met Dec 26. We have been talking on the phone since and he never went over 3 days without calling me. I have called him about 3 times but usually I wait for him to call me. He usually text msgs me everyday that he hasnt forgot about me. When we talk on the phone it usually last more then an hour and I know how guys hate being on the phone so Im hoping that means something. He works 2 jobs as do I so meeting up has been alittle hard. But we finally got together on friday and it went really good. We ended up staying up with each other untill 5:30am and he had to go to work at 8am so I went home but he did want me to stay but I told him he needed some sleep.
So he called me yesterday and I went over to his house last night and I was there till 12:30am. When I left he waslked me to my truck and told me to call/text him when I got home. So I did and I didnt expect anything back cause I thought he would have gone to bed but he did send a text back saying good night.
Now what I need to know is, How soon is it to soon to sleep with him I dont want him to think Im too easy.
Should I start calling him alittle more like maybe every second day or so? Do leo men like when a lady takes great interest in what they have to say?
He likes to cuddle with me is that a good thing or do you do that with everyone. He shows great passion with me if that means anything? I make him smile alot. He makes me laugh alot. Im always looking at him and smiling when Im around him or even when he calls me.
Can you give me some tips on how to keep him around for a long time? What so Leo men want in a woman.
I am a career woman with a good head on my sholders I have alot going for myself and he sees that. He also is very successful and has alot going for him too.
Fill me in on some details to keep him coming back to me?
Yep totally over him I dont even think about him anymore unless someone else brings him up..... I havent talked to him or seen him since and Im alittle embarrased at myself in how much shit I took from him. I am now avoiding cap men all together. I put him on a peddistool and he threw me out the door I am sooooo much better then that....
Geminis go very well with loe's so I thought maybe for once I could be happy.... My mom is a gemini and my dad is a leo they have been together for 25 years now and they are still very in love with eachother and happy.
I have done lots of reseach on my sign and gems with leo is a match made in heaven. And it just so happens that I met one what a coinsidence....
I have also been reading the leo board about other people posts and I know he is definetly interested in me. I just have to keep it going that way...
Im sure I can...
In future I will only have caps as friends never in a relationship again.
Thanks for asking though... Its nice to know ppl care.
I'm really happy to hear that! That relationship seemed to just drain your soul. Geminis and Leos are a great match. Assuming the relationship with my cap were over today, I know that I wouldn't look for another one again. I'd probably try to find me a Gem or a Sag.
Ya I dont blame you. There is a good way to pick a partner. Air with fire and water with earth if you want complications and lots of them then swich it up.
Gemini's are air Leo's are fire... They are the only match made in heaven for both the signs so if things dont work out with your cap then I suggest you find a gemini. We have what you Leo's need and you have what we gemini's need. Lol.
Gemini I'm a Leo female but I hope my words will help you. You are thinking right in not going to sleep with him now...take your time, it's a minus for you if he thinks you are easy because Leo man likes also the challenge, the need to chase you and he likes to be a gentleman.
The most important is be who you are and he will love for the person you are, as it seems already 😉. I wish you lots of happiness!
Thank you I thought I was right about my decition with holding out. We have fooled around but not to the point of no return. He is also europian so I need to take me time with this one. He is a very good catch and I want him to stick around.
So how long should I wait? Do you like to make the phone calls?
Happiness I can definitly see with him!
I was reading one of the other posts and so far I have done everything on my own so thats a bonus. He was supposed to call me one day and he didnt so I waited till the next day and I text him and he called me that night cause before that I hadn't really put alot into it. So I guess I gave the inishiative that I was interested. Since then he has not gone more then a day without texting or calling.
Let me know please what the thought process is? I am myself and he loves it when I laugh he laugh with me when he laughs I smile at him, and he says I have this look. When I look at him last night he was like oww theres that look again and whatever look I am giving him makes him smile from ear to ear. So I hope its good.
Ohh and he is very much a gentalmen. Very polite, kind and caring passionate and cuddles I cant get enough. He makes me feel very good and I give him lots of compliments. It makes him go red. So cute.
Yeah he loves when you compliment him I assure you, you boost his ego and he feels safe. Leos have this thing... we need to be often complimented in order to feel confident and feel that people around like us.
You should wait until you feel you know each other for that and I'm quite sure he'll make the move, so about that you don't need to worry 😉. About the phone calls and text messages, we usually like to do it, unless we are busy with a project or work, and let him take the iniciative too, as now he's doing. It's a good signal that he keeps contacting you, it means he wants to keep you close if you know what I mean.
That look lol, the look that drives him crazy probably 😉.
The thought process is generally ensure that you are really into. When we are really into smeone we tend to check if the person has the same intentions and feelings as we have.
Let it flow, let him command, everything is pretty intense with Leos, so I'm sure you are feeling on fire like we feel all the time 😉.
Keep doing what you doing and being who you are, it seems also that you don't need to much advice because you seem to know what to do! Trust yourself and your instincts =).
Thank you. Oh and he already tried to move with that and I pulled back. He stoped right away like a gentalmen would. He asked me if I was okay too. I said yes cause I was okay Im just not ready to go to all the way yet. I tend to get alittle attached to ppl I give myself to so Im waiting till I know I can trust him not to take off after. I have issues with that because of past relationships. I give in and they take off. Yayyy. So now I dont give in it has worked for me so far..
I have done alot of reseach on the lion male to try to understand my father so I know what to expect. At one point me and my dad fought all the time. I looked it up now I have my dad wrapped around my finger. My mom gets pissed cause she thinks he loves me more then her. But she also gets alot of his attention.
Respect and communication are BIG BIG parts of the lion brain my dad gets really mad at me if I dont inform him before I do something. If I inform him he lets me do whatever I want. With No complaints.
My lion male loves to talk and I love to listen. I give him the respect that he deserves. Last night I told him that he was a good guy and he said "Ya so you think so" I said yes I know so. He said but you don't know me. I said I know then you think. He smiled and went to the washroom..
He allows me to read him like a book. I don't know if he can read me. But I certainly keep him interested. We can talk to each other forever....
He treats me with respect and talks to me. That is what attracts me to him.
Oh you know everything about Leo male then lol. Your father as a Lion he's a very good model for you to see how generally the Leo male is. And you said it! Respect and communication is very important and respect means also self-respect.
I believe you can read him as a book, because he's honest and sincere, Leos cannot fake feelings or anything believe me. We may use a dramatic way to show, but we are true. Get used he's a getleman by nature, the king royal treatment is all yours!
I'm happy that you are happy, I read that you have a bad time and you deserve this. After the storm, the sun shines again. 😉
Thank you that means alot to me and yes I just got out of the storm. It took way too much out of me. I shouldnt have let it get that far but things you do when you love someone... Stupid.. Now its my time to be happy. And Im really enjoying life now.. I can be myself. It a wonderful feeling.
You seem very nice, if you ever need advise you can ask me anytime...
No it's not stupid, (recently I just came out of a complicated situation too), we just act according to our feelings and heart, at least we get the lesson and don't make the same mistakes. But enough from the past, what matters is now and now you are happy, keep smiling 🙂.
Aww thanks, you also seem very nice and anything just ask me too 🙂.
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He seems to have the same feelings for me to but I want him to keep coming back to me.
We met Dec 26. We have been talking on the phone since and he never went over 3 days without calling me. I have called him about 3 times but usually I wait for him to call me. He usually text msgs me everyday that he hasnt forgot about me. When we talk on the phone it usually last more then an hour and I know how guys hate being on the phone so Im hoping that means something.
He works 2 jobs as do I so meeting up has been alittle hard. But we finally got together on friday and it went really good. We ended up staying up with each other untill 5:30am and he had to go to work at 8am so I went home but he did want me to stay but I told him he needed some sleep.
So he called me yesterday and I went over to his house last night and I was there till 12:30am. When I left he waslked me to my truck and told me to call/text him when I got home. So I did and I didnt expect anything back cause I thought he would have gone to bed but he did send a text back saying good night.
Now what I need to know is, How soon is it to soon to sleep with him I dont want him to think Im too easy.
Should I start calling him alittle more like maybe every second day or so? Do leo men like when a lady takes great interest in what they have to say?
He likes to cuddle with me is that a good thing or do you do that with everyone. He shows great passion with me if that means anything? I make him smile alot. He makes me laugh alot. Im always looking at him and smiling when Im around him or even when he calls me.
Can you give me some tips on how to keep him around for a long time? What so Leo men want in a woman.
I am a career woman with a good head on my sholders I have alot going for myself and he sees that. He also is very successful and has alot going for him too.
Fill me in on some details to keep him coming back to me?
Thanks in advance.