VENUS RETROGRADE!O.O my Leo man came back around:O

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Now what? lol..we dated for 8 months n it was super wonderful..no drama as he kept me in a lighthearted mood with his goofy self..he broke it off but wanted to keep in touch.after two months of not seeing eachother n just emailing n some texting, he sends me a text the other night telling me " missin you again...sorry "..the first sweet text ive gotten from him in a while πŸ™‚ we hung out, he brought up the brake up, i let him do all the talking. interesting though: he was telling me how he missed me, kept pointed out how amazing i am lol, tellin me how his mom n everyones loves me, and how he has been sick n life had went downward since the breakup..all this said AFTER we had AMAAAZING sex πŸ™‚ he still wants to keep contact, hes back to bein playful and well idk...just wondering what this may or may not mean with this retrograde, which i didnt find out abt until i got his sweet text..so i guess my question is what does this mean with a leo male during this retrograde?and what could it mean when venus goes back?
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Posted by FreckledScorpio
Wow. I really don't see how your comment was of any use to my question, at all. Thank you. Also, I don't appreciate your irrelevant two cents. Educated people only, please.

Celticlioness? R1g? Seraph? At least when these people speak they can back it up, unlike yourself.

My question is not the only question I've seen you claw into.



There, fixed it.
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ok anyone on here capable of answering what i ASKED? or am i just gonna keep getting trolled ?serious question for serious ppl.ive been on this forum before, just had to get a new account, so im not sure why ppl wanna be disrespectful now. especially givin over words they havent followed themselves..so save it. you both just sound pissed and bitter..go vent on your own topics please. And allow others to focus on MY post for MY concerns. not urs. fuckin bullshit :\
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And seriously - I was just being blunt. Yes, I didn't answer your question - because I honestly don't have the answer to it. It's something I've never dealt with. Leo men aren't familiar ground. However you don't need to call me uneducated, because that is an illogical accusation. And I'm too young for "ma'am". πŸ˜›

If you thought of the questions before you may have not had this situation, yes. But I wasn't attacking your morals or choices. Please note that (and this is said without rudeness - honestly).

This Venus retrograde may have given him the second look that he needed to see he lost a good thing in life. This retrograde is good to reevaluate everything in the past - positively or negatively. For you, it sounds like he's seeing his mistakes and actually being open with you about it.
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Posted by FreckledScorpio
ok anyone on here capable of answering what i ASKED? or am i just gonna keep getting trolled ?serious question for serious ppl.ive been on this forum before, just had to get a new account, so im not sure why ppl wanna be disrespectful now. especially givin over words they havent followed themselves..so save it. you both just sound pissed and bitter..go vent on your own topics please. And allow others to focus on MY post for MY concerns. not urs. fuckin bullshit :\



Oh calm down.. I was teasing you - not trolling! πŸ˜›

I'm not bitter or pissed! Just teasing and lighthearted.

No need to swear πŸ˜›

ps: I responded seriously above πŸ™‚
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Posted by FreckledScorpio
Wow. i really dont see how your comment was of any use to my question. at all. thanks. also i dont appreciate ur irrelevant two cents maam..educated ppl only please...celticlioness? rig? seraph? at least when these ppl speak they can back it up. unlike urself..my question is not the only question ive seen you claw into lol. * brushes u off*



i'm really sorry sistah but i'm with sheathed and elle on this. WTF were you thinking to fuck him so soon??!!!β€”

i'm disappointed. you gave yourself to him after such little effort from his part.

i can't believe i'm actually doing the right thing being in a similar situation to yourself!! i am feeling kinda smug right now...so thanks!! cos i tell you the leo will have to jump through rings of fire before he gets to touch this booty again, LOL!!

sorry to be harsh but you should know that amaaaaazing sex can still be pretty meaningless for most guys, specially if it's there at a click of his finger!
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Posted by seraph
In fact, most humans, regardless of sign, *should* make anyone work doubly hard to prove themselves.



Fixed it πŸ˜‰

I've learned my lesson the hard way. Never get serious with somebody who doesn't prove their worth to you. On that note, it's also best not to become serious with somebody who doesn't expect you to prove YOUR worth, either. All gender aside.
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oh...and freckled, you should NEVER talk about ANYTHING after sex and certainly never believe anything that's said to you. i did a thread before about that godawful 'what are you thinking' question when you just wanna roll over and catch some zzzzzz's....people talk bollocks after orgasm...it's a fact!! that's why it's best to either leave or go to sleep imo.

please don't think i'm picking on you btw πŸ™‚
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Thank you rig seraph and striking ...for helping, and bein respectful...jeeez bc at first everyone was fixated on my fucking him, not my question abt the retrograde. no rig i dont feel youre picking on me lol..i just dont like when ppl come onto ur thread with words with zero substance. πŸ˜‰
he broke it off due to a business ventures..restaurant. Seraph, weve had opps to bang before the other night..but just chilled instead o.O shot the shit, laughed..catch up with eachother i suppose..shared my artwork with him like he asked...the other night well..like i was sayin i brought up nothing abt the past. he did. i listened. he talked abt how his mom n everyone he knows loves me and such and continue to ask abt me..lol interesting: he even told me uhhhh he had been sick since the day he broke up with me...cant claim scandal bc before we met up he gave himself a pretty lil hernia coughin up his lungs due to pneumonia( one of my visits. he looked like ass. had crazy fever.we just hung out. NO sex,*stick out toungue*)
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Posted by FreckledScorpio
Thank you rig seraph and striking ...for helping, and bein respectful...jeeez bc at first everyone was fixated on my fucking him, not my question abt the retrograde. no rig i dont feel youre picking on me lol..i just dont like when ppl come onto ur thread with words with zero substance. πŸ˜‰
he broke it off due to a business ventures..restaurant. Seraph, weve had opps to bang before the other night..but just chilled instead o.O shot the shit, laughed..catch up with eachother i suppose..shared my artwork with him like he asked...the other night well..like i was sayin i brought up nothing abt the past. he did. i listened. he talked abt how his mom n everyone he knows loves me and such and continue to ask abt me..lol interesting: he even told me uhhhh he had been sick since the day he broke up with me...cant claim scandal bc before we met up he gave himself a pretty lil hernia coughin up his lungs due to pneumonia( one of my visits. he looked like ass. had crazy fever.we just hung out. NO sex,*stick out toungue*)



freckled...you talk like a guy! i think like one but i'm always a lady on the surface. it's kinda icky my luv.

anyway...why does it matter what effect the retrograde has on the leo....what about you? aren't your feelings more important right now?

i remember about this restaurant business. i think it was a smokescreen at the time tbh. who cares if his mother loves you...or if he was 'sick' from the day of your break up....it's all bollocks and bullshit don't you thinkβ€”?

first he shrugs you off to concentrate on his business and now he's telling you that he wasn't able to for all this time cos of his feelings for you...which were mostly expressed AFTER you had sex...you did stress that. well, imo his first excuse was lame and his reasons for coming back are even lamer.

don't be a sucker twice over.
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Ok. i did what you guys suggested in the past, both rig n seraph..to let him be, not offer myself in anyway so i didnt. but now im getting crap for itβ€” i tell yall i dont screw the guy right away, after havin several opportunities to do so, and im gettin shit for when i did..why?? right away everyone thinks im dumb enought to bang him upon first meeting, jeeez. sorry but i not a dumbass yall are tryin to build up, but a strong woman yall seem to wanna try to tear down.. o.O. but seeing as no one can get off the sex part, i guess this is not the place to try to seek expert advice lol. or maybe id like to hear from women who have had SUCCESSFUL relationships w leo male, and leo males period, bc at this point i feel no matter what i say, you guys will bastardize it, as i realize no one on here is still with her leo!Striking, im not lookin for what i want to hear thanks.thank you seraph, for your candor. im still aloof abt my dealings w him πŸ™‚ no stress, just curiosity abt what things may mean.
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Well I tried but you just were rude and condescending πŸ™‚

I'm not with 'my Leo' because he had no job, no education, no real emotion, and was a pothead going nowhere! I'm with 'my Scorpion' because he's just right for me πŸ™‚

But hun, I know I'm 'not an expert' and sometimes I come off abrasive - but I ended up giving my honest input.. I don't know. Maybe I'm not exactly likeable but geesh, I didn't push the matter and wasn't calling you out.

It stings when you try to help out but then just end up snuffed.

He seems nostalgic and honest but keep your wits about him.
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Posted by sheathedclaws
Well I tried but you just were rude and condescending πŸ™‚

I'm not with 'my Leo' because he had no job, no education, no real emotion, and was a pothead going nowhere! I'm with 'my Scorpion' because he's just right for me πŸ™‚

But hun, I know I'm 'not an expert' and sometimes I come off abrasive - but I ended up giving my honest input.. I don't know. Maybe I'm not exactly likeable but geesh, I didn't push the matter and wasn't calling you out.

It stings when you try to help out but then just end up snuffed.

He seems nostalgic and honest but keep your wits about him.



Some people need tough love and to hear the truth, I know I do, I get it often, but it's up to the individual to take that advice instead of writing it off because they don't want to hear it.
I'm definitely guilty of that myself as well. It's hard. I understand both sides.
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Posted by FreckledScorpio
Ok. i did what you guys suggested in the past, both rig n seraph..to let him be, not offer myself in anyway so i didnt. but now im getting crap for itβ€” i tell yall i dont screw the guy right away, after havin several opportunities to do so, and im gettin shit for when i did..why?? right away everyone thinks im dumb enought to bang him upon first meeting, jeeez. sorry but i not a dumbass yall are tryin to build up, but a strong woman yall seem to wanna try to tear down.. o.O. but seeing as no one can get off the sex part, i guess this is not the place to try to seek expert advice lol. or maybe id like to hear from women who have had SUCCESSFUL relationships w leo male, and leo males period, bc at this point i feel no matter what i say, you guys will bastardize it, as i realize no one on here is still with her leo!Striking, im not lookin for what i want to hear thanks.thank you seraph, for your candor. im still aloof abt my dealings w him πŸ™‚ no stress, just curiosity abt what things may mean.



Me thinks the lady protest too much,
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oh shah....i believe you may be right πŸ˜‰

freckled. i know it's tricky sometimes but it's very easy to portray yourself as being different to who you are on dxp. the OP was very sexual and it seemed as though there was big emphasis on the amaaaazing sex and his revelations to you after....but not much mention of the meetings before when you didn't 'bang' him.

the way you talk about sex makes it seem like a purely physical transaction to you....does that come across in real? i'm not sure you can separate sex from love...alot of women can't...but sex is just one facet of love and so can still be a standalone, meaningless experience and it's mistake to hang a reltionship on good sex alone.

the assumptions that were made about you here were really instigated by yourself in the way you first posted but i think you know people aren't trying to be mean...specially sheathed. i'm not sure there's even a mean bone in her body!

so chill out πŸ™‚
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Freckled Scorpio World-

He texted you because Venus went back and old flames are going to come back to rekindle the flame that has long since burned out. This is the beginning of something new and wonderful.

This is what you wanted someone to say right?

The Real World-Or more commonly referred to as Reality

He needed some sex. So what you guys hung out a couple of times first. A means to an end.

Posted by FreckledScorpio
after two months of not seeing eachother n just emailing n some texting, he sends me a text the other night telling me " missin you again...sorry "..the first sweet text ive gotten from him in a while πŸ™‚ we hung out, he brought up the brake up, i let him do all the talking. interesting though: he was telling me how he missed me, kept pointed out how amazing i am lol, tellin me how his mom n everyones loves me, and how he has been sick n life had went downward since the breakup



I am a little surprised by all this seeing as though you are a Scorpio. My Scorpio Moon would have been so suspicious after all those compliments. A bit of an overkill if you ask me. (I was going to say but you didn't ask me. Then I realized you did.)


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tsk tsk. fleshing out? stop eating all the pies!!!!!

i actually could do with fleshing out some but my metabolism is so high i can eat several horses without putting any weight on....and i'm not talking about budget burgers, lol!! still can't believe i may have eaten traces of pig without knowing it! thank god there's no such thing as jewish heaven and that i was born a chosen one.
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Posted by FreckledScorpio
Now what? lol..we dated for 8 months n it was super wonderful..no drama as he kept me in a lighthearted mood with his goofy self..he broke it off but wanted to keep in touch.after two months of not seeing eachother n just emailing n some texting, he sends me a text the other night telling me " missin you again...sorry "..the first sweet text ive gotten from him in a while πŸ™‚ we hung out, he brought up the brake up, i let him do all the talking. interesting though: he was telling me how he missed me, kept pointed out how amazing i am lol, tellin me how his mom n everyones loves me, and how he has been sick n life had went downward since the breakup..all this said AFTER we had AMAAAZING sex πŸ™‚ he still wants to keep contact, hes back to bein playful and well idk...just wondering what this may or may not mean with this retrograde, which i didnt find out abt until i got his sweet text..so i guess my question is what does this mean with a leo male during this retrograde?and what could it mean when venus goes back?
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You didn't really make him work for it the second time around.

After all, HE dumped YOU (did that feel good?) but "wanted to keep in touch." Damn. He's good.

And all it took to get to you was a bit of sweet-talking.

I mean, are you THAT easy? If you're serious and want to make it last then you need treat the situation seriously. How is he supposed to respect you and your position when you throw yourself at him and his silver tongue? The "second attempt" at a relationship needs to be preceded by a *long* time of work on his part. Sustained interest on his part with polite receptivity and promises of nothing on your part. This stuff usually takes months. In fact, most women, regardless of sign, *should* make anyone work doubly hard to prove themselves. THEN the relationship has VALUE. Because it has to be earned. Things easily won are treated as such.

Then you've got another problem to contend with. His reasons for breaking up with you might still be there. Very often they'll just materialize again at a later date. That's not guaranteed, of course, but we've all seen and heard enough of it to warrant its mention.

And drop this retrograde stuff. Focus on what *you* are doing. This sort of thing is very practical and has near-universal ap